Salaam
‘I’m too busy’ ‘I have a lot on’ ‘I don’t have time for anything these days’.
Are comments that I’m sure we all make from time to time.
And this is despite the fact that we live in such a fast society…a society that prides itself on fast food, fast communication and fast travel. So, despite having all the time saving facilities – we’re always in a rush, we’re always too busy and we don’t have time for others – and Allah (swt).
Interestingly enough, hundreds of years in a time before any modern conveniences etc our pious predecessors accomplished a LOT more than us…
Imam Abu Hanifah, everyday from Fajr to Zuhr worked on his silk trade buisness, from Dhur to Asr he would teach, from Asr to Magrib he did his community work, from Magrib to Isha was family time and from Isha to Fajr he was on the prayer mat.
Hadrat Fatima: spent her days looking after her family, her father, would fast all day long, carry heavy buckets of water and during the long winter nights she’s be on the prayer mat. And when morning came she’d complain that Allah ‘has made the nights too short’.
Imam Zain ul Abideen (son of Imam Hussain) would read 1000 nafl every day, would give food to the poor in the darkness of the night, made 30 pilgrimages during his life time, which he travelled by foot (250miles), would buy 100’s of slaves regularly and would clothe, feed and educate them and set them free, ran his business AND had time for his wife and 15 children!
Holy Prophet had 9 or 11 wives, 6 children, spent the night on the prayer mat, was involved in 80 battles during his life, and regularly preached about Islam and received revelations, he had time for the poor, sick, women, children etc.
Imam Abu Hanifah had time to finish the entire qur’an every day. Imam Ahmad bin Hanbal finished the qur’an every day, Imam Shafi finished the entire qur’an every day and in Ramadan he finished it twice a day!
How comes they never said ‘I’m too busy’?
Allah (swt) is the Malik of time. It is not in our control…when we prioritise Him, we have all the time in the world.
A classic example of time control was during Miraj un Nabi…. When the Holy Prophet met angel Gabriel, rode on the Buraq, read salah in Masjid Aqsa, met the Prophets, lead Salah, saw heaven and hell, met/spoke with Allah…and when he returned his bed was still warm!
SO…how busy are you? Do you have time for Allah (sw) – classes, Salah, quran etc etc And what are YOUR time management tips?
Wasalaam
I'm not busy at all.
But that does not mean I have time to meat people. :twisted:
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
I'm FAR too busy to write reply to this thread.
Don't just do something! Stand there.
If you never take time... you will never have time.
Back in BLACK
I am not a busy person but time seems to fly sometimes... well most of the time.
I say I'm going to do something later, and when the time comes I never do it.
[size=18][b]33 Rules to Boost Your Productivity[/b][/size]
Productivity heuristics are behavioral rules (some general, some situation-specific) that can help us get things done more efficiently. Here are some of my favorites:
[list=1][*][b]Nuke it![/b] The most efficient way to get through a task is to delete it. If it doesn’t need to be done, get it off your to do list.
[*][b]Daily goals.[/b] Without a clear focus, it’s too easy to succumb to distractions. Set targets for each day in advance. Decide what you’ll do; then do it.
[*][b]Worst first.[/b] To defeat procrastination learn to tackle your most unpleasant task first thing in the morning instead of delaying it until later in the day. This small victory will set the tone for a very productive day.
[*][b]Peak times.[/b] Identify your peak cycles of productivity, and schedule your most important tasks for those times. Work on minor tasks during your non-peak times.
[*][b]No-comm zones.[/b] Allocate uninterruptible blocks of time for solo work where you must concentrate. Schedule light, interruptible tasks for your open-comm periods and more challenging projects for your no-comm periods.
[*][b]Mini-milestones.[/b] When you begin a task, identify the target you must reach before you can stop working. For example, when working on a book, you could decide not to get up until you’ve written at least 1000 words. Hit your target no matter what.
[*][b]Timeboxing.[/b] Give yourself a fixed time period, like 30 minutes, to make a dent in a task. Don’t worry about how far you get. Just put in the time.
[*][b]Batching.[/b] Batch similar tasks like phone calls or errands into a single chunk, and knock them off in a single session.
[*][b]Early bird.[/b] Get up early in the morning, like at 5am, and go straight to work on your most important task. You can often get more done before 8am than most people do in a day.
[*][b]Cone of silence.[/b] Take a laptop with no network or WiFi access, and go to a place where you can work flat out without distractions, such as a library, park, coffee house, or your own backyard. Leave your comm gadgets behind.
[*][b]Tempo.[/b] Deliberately pick up the pace, and try to move a little faster than usual. Speak faster. Walk faster. Type faster. Read faster. Go home sooner.
[*][b]Relaxify.[/b] Reduce stress by cultivating a relaxing, clutter-free workspace. See 10 Ways to Relaxify Your Workspace.
[*][b]Agendas.[/b] Provide clear written agendas to meeting participants in advance. This greatly improves meeting focus and efficiency. You can use it for phone calls too.
[*][b]Pareto.[/b] The Pareto principle is the 80-20 rule, which states that 80% of the value of a task comes from 20% of the effort. Focus your energy on that critical 20%, and don’t overengineer the non-critical 80%.
[*][b]Ready-fire-aim.[/b] Bust procrastination by taking action immediately after setting a goal, even if the action isn’t perfectly planned. You can always adjust course along the way.
[*][b]Minuteman.[/b] Once you have the information you need to make a decision, start a timer and give yourself just 60 seconds to make the actual decision. Take a whole minute to vacillate and second-guess yourself all you want, but come out the other end with a clear choice. Once your decision is made, take some kind of action to set it in motion.
[*][b]Deadline.[/b] Set a deadline for task completion, and use it as a focal point to stay on track.
[*][b]Promise.[/b] Tell others of your commitments, since they’ll help hold you accountable.
[*][b]Punctuality.[/b] Whatever it takes, show up on time. Arrive early.
[*][b]Gap reading.[/b] Use reading to fill in those odd periods like waiting for an appointment, standing in line, or while the coffee is brewing. If you’re a male, you can even read an article while shaving (preferably with an electric razor). That’s 365 articles a year.
[*][b]Resonance.[/b] Visualize your goal as already accomplished. Put yourself into a state of actually being there. Make it real in your mind, and you’ll soon see it in your reality.
[*][b]Glittering prizes.[/b] Give yourself frequent rewards for achievement. See a movie, book a professional massage, or spend a day at an amusement park.
[*][b]Quad 2.[/b] Separate the truly important tasks from the merely urgent. Allocate blocks of time to work on the critical Quadrant 2 tasks, those which are important but rarely urgent, such as physical exercise, writing a book, and finding a relationship partner.
[*][b]Continuum.[/b] At the end of your workday, identify the first task you’ll work on the next day, and set out the materials in advance. The next day begin working on that task immediately.
[*][b]Slice and dice.[/b] Break complex projects into smaller, well-defined tasks. Focus on completing just one of those tasks.
[*][b]Single-handling.[/b] Once you begin a task, stick with it until it’s 100% complete. Don’t switch tasks in the middle. When distractions come up, jot them down to be dealt with later.
[*][b]Randomize.[/b] Pick a totally random piece of a larger project, and complete it. Pay one random bill. Make one phone call. Write page 42 of your book.
[*][b]Insanely bad.[/b] Defeat perfectionism by completing your task in an intentionally terrible fashion, knowing you need never share the results with anyone. Write a blog post about the taste of salt, design a hideously dysfunctional web site, or create a business plan that guarantees a first-year bankruptcy. With a truly horrendous first draft, there’s nowhere to go but up.
[*][b]30 days.[/b] Identify a new habit you’d like to form, and commit to sticking with it for just 30 days. A temporary commitment is much easier to keep than a permanent one.
[*][b]Delegate.[/b] Convince someone else to do it for you.
[*][b]Cross-pollination.[/b] Sign up for martial arts, start a blog, or join an improv group. You’ll often encounter ideas in one field that can boost your performance in another.
[*][b]Intuition.[/b] Go with your gut instinct. It’s probably right.
[*][b]Optimization.[/b] Identify the processes you use most often, and write them down step-by-step. Refactor them on paper for greater efficiency. Then implement and test your improved processes. Sometimes we just can’t see what’s right in front of us until we examine it under a microscope.[/list:o]
[b][i]Round and round the Ka'bah,
Like a good Sahabah,
One step, Two step,
All the way to jannah[/i][/b]
I'm not loving the jargon but that could be a decent reference. Some of these things sink in over time and with practise and even if it only causes a one-off achievement, good.
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On a tangential theme:
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[/list:u][size=10]The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.[/size]
[size=9]Bertrand Russell (1872 - 1970)[/size]
thats only about 24 articles a year :oops:
Don't just do something! Stand there.
since i had a kid im always busy, im actually quite fed up but whining doesn't solve anything so i guess i've become resigned to it, it's life.
i was thinking the other day if i was wealthy enough i would hire someone to help me out, how Dave has someone to help Annette. As long as im present then i'd love that, coz right now im lucky if i get to go to the bathroom without this cling on crying his eyes out. I always feel on edge coz of it, i'm hardly every relaxed these days.
I get 45 mins-1 hr free in morn, and afternoon, that's whn he naps. If i'm lucky i have no domestic chores and i can do some reading or get online. Other than that i'm free from 10pm but i'm usually so worn out i just wana go to sleep.
I suppose it's good in one way i no longer have too much idle time on my hands. Before i got married i had far too much spare time, even if i engaged in lots of activities end of the day i spent too much time on the computer playing games, using forums etc etc.
My bruv said i'm like a drill sergeant with my kid, just coz i follow a routine, but that's the only way i'll keep my sanity. if he has no routine, he will control me, and parents are supposed to be in control not a lickle child with a wet nappy lol.
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I've started to read the paper (usually the Metro) when stuck in traffic on my way home in my car...
I also read over an assignment today and corrected some mistakes.