I'M A DADDY!!!!!!:-) :-) :-)

Sajid Iqbal

salaam

Allah (swt) has blessed me with a baby boy on Sunday 26th November 2006!!!!

Its the greatest feeling in the world to be a dad!

Alhamdulillah, the baby is healthy and cute, like his dad of course:-)
My wife is also in good health and very happy and proud like me.

Make duaa that my son remains healthy and grows up to be a good person and make duaa that me and my wife are able to bring up our boy to the best of our ability.

The last few days have been crazy, hectic, stressful, exciting, scary, wonderful, nervy and unbelievable....

After witnessing what my wife had to go through during labour...you can only admire and respect women even more...and anyone says they're the weaker sex.... i dont know many guys who could tolerate the pregnancy and labour....:-) 🙂

i read the azaan and iqamaah very shortly after my son was born... again a unique special feeling.

Next , its choosing the name... which me and my wife cant decide....
then its cutting his hair, the chop:-), haqeeqah....etc....

Some advice and tips from parents would be great.....and pls share your own experiences.

i think i have to now grow up:-) and probably have less time for revival...

but remember my little lad in your duaas pls.

wasalaam

Forum

Sajid Iqbal — Fri, 1 Dec 2006 - 17:01

[quote="Imaani"]Congratulations again Ed. May Allah (swt) bless your little family.

I think Raihaan is a beautiful name.[/quote]

oh thank you very much...

yep i registered the name today:-)

i've just put the following article up on the site regarding Rights of the New Born:
http://www.therevival.co.uk/?p=737

Everyone needs to know this sooner better than later:-)

MyEye — Fri, 1 Dec 2006 - 22:00

No .... I dont speak binary Mecs

I was replying to the Admins out of place statement.

[quote]So this mean I am in total charge with no pretenders around?

'tis a good day.

A day to be merry.

I call it "Admin day".[/quote]

Had me wondering what moon we are living on.

MyEye — Fri, 1 Dec 2006 - 23:47

Did you have someone pretending to be an Admin because its unitelligable about what you mean by pretenders.

peacegirl — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 16:26

[quote="TheRevivalEditor"]salaam

Jazakhallah for your kind words...

i will register the name tomorrow..
i wanted Jamal:-) but my wife hates it, or i wanted Gibreel, Mekaeel. But she wants either hasan, hadeed or shaheeb :roll:

but we have come to a compromise: Raihaan

what do you think?

every moment with baby is special ...but tiring, no sleep....but all worth it.

he's gonna have his hair cut on Monday....

picking up the baby is anew experience..i actually had a phobia of new born babies...thinking im gonna drop it!

babies are also expensive... but al hamdulilah..alll worth it...

at the mo...dont get much time for revival or anything else:-)

wasalaam[/quote]
rehan
rehan
rehan!!
it's lovely name! My father in law named my son rehan. And eveyone loves this name.

MyEye — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 17:03

confusing .......

i keep losing the plot here??? what are you guys getting at , it is like you speak in some sort of mystic code.

Omrow — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 17:10

We are arguing over which name would be best for
Admins new baby boy, and also, when exactly is he going to cut his w***y.

Comprehende?

The Great 100 — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 17:35

[quote="Omrow"]We are arguing over which name would be best for
Admins new baby boy, and also, when exactly is he going to cut his wi**y.

Comprehende?[/quote]

Ed's baby, not Admin's.

Sajid Iqbal — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 21:38

[quote="Omrow"]Salam

Boss.

When have you decided you make the most tender cut?

Omrow[/quote]

Raihaan will have his hair cut on Monday...

will ring doctors on Monday to book appointment for circumsicion...

Angel — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 21:40

Raihaan is a pretty name, what does it mean? (my cuz is named that but i dont know what it means :oops: )

Exquisite — Sat, 2 Dec 2006 - 21:43

[color=magenta]Assalamu alaykum

copied and pasted from no topic thread[/color]

[color=red][size=24][b]Congratulations Ed[/b][/size][/color]
[color=magenta]
Hope the baby brings you and your wife joy, May your son be one the future leaders of Islam, May Allah SWT bless him with a happy life. Ameen.

And beautiful name chosen for the baby boy[/color]

Omrow — Sun, 3 Dec 2006 - 18:30

Salam

[quote="TheRevivalEditor"]
will ring doctors on Monday to book appointment for circumsicion...[/quote]

How is circumsicion different from circumcision?

Whatever it is I hope they dont use a blunk knife.

The sharper the knife the better the cut.

Omrow

SAINT GEORGE ZHUKOV — Sun, 3 Dec 2006 - 18:34

bloody hell…

circumcision...now thats one custom i really dont understand…

the pork ting…ok, maybe in the old dayz pig meat was bad for ya…

but snipping the ol’ fella is a different matter….

the idea of messing with the family jewels makes me wanna weep…

seriously…why is it done?

Sajid Iqbal — Sun, 3 Dec 2006 - 19:02

[quote="SAINT GEORGE ZHUKOV"]bloody hell…

circumcision...now thats one custom i really dont understand…

the pork ting…ok, maybe in the old dayz pig meat was bad for ya…

but snipping the ol’ fella is a different matter….

the idea of messing with the family jewels makes me wanna weep…

seriously…why is it done?[/quote]

Islamic reason for circumcision:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/ethics/malecircumcision/religions_3.shtml

A more detailed explanation here:
http://www.islamset.com/hip/health5/circum.html

benefits of circumcision:
http://www.circinfo.net/

social and cultural reasons:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/ethics/malecircumcision/social_1.shtml

hope that helps...

*Sponi* — Sun, 3 Dec 2006 - 19:29

[quote="SAINT GEORGE ZHUKOV"]bloody hell…

circumcision...now thats one custom i really dont understand…

the pork ting…ok, maybe in the old dayz pig meat was bad for ya…

but snipping the ol’ fella is a different matter….

the idea of messing with the family jewels makes me wanna weep…

seriously…why is it done?[/quote]

[b][color=violet]The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) is reported to have said: “Whoever accepts Islam should have his circumcision performed” (Talkhisal-Habir). its compulsory..[/color][/b]

MuslimBro — Mon, 4 Dec 2006 - 00:08

[quote="BBC"]Circumcision is not compulsory in Islam but it is an important ritual aimed at improving cleanliness. It is strongly encouraged but not enforced.[/quote]
[quote="*Sponi*"][b][color=violet]The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) is reported to have said: “Whoever accepts Islam should have his circumcision performed” (Talkhisal-Habir). its compulsory..[/color][/b][/quote]

Seraphim — Mon, 4 Dec 2006 - 13:40

[quote="Admin"]Mayaswell call someone sushi then! (not that fish smells nice...)[/quote]

Then im sure you wont mind calling you're kid sushi 😃

peacegirl — Tue, 5 Dec 2006 - 23:08

[quote="Admin"]Mayaswell call someone sushi then! (not that fish smells nice...)[/quote]

sushi beta!!! where's daddy admin??? lol!!

*DUST* — Wed, 6 Dec 2006 - 13:57

[quote="Admin"]Mayaswell call someone sushi then! (not that fish smells nice...)[/quote]
lol admin you're harsh!

Sajid Iqbal — Thu, 7 Dec 2006 - 11:54

salaam

my little baby raihaan had the chop yesterday!
awwhhh bless:-)

what an experience.... thank god u do it when ur very young!!!

he's recovering now.... and so am i 🙂

so thats hair cut, haqeeqa given, chop done....

now its more of nappy changing, no sleep, continuous crying.... isnt being a daddy so great:-)

hahahahah

ws

Seraphim — Thu, 7 Dec 2006 - 13:52

[quote="TheRevivalEditor"]
now its more of nappy changing, no sleep, continuous crying.... isnt being a daddy so great:-)
[/quote]

Yeah its nothing but nappys, continuous crying, draining your cash, me me me me me, mine mine mine mine, giv giv giv giv giv, and when your old and tired and they're teenages he will turn around and say 'its not cool to hang out wit ya parents'.... makes it all worth while to then make they're lives a living hell....ahahahahahahahahahahahaha :twisted:

Aint parenthood grand

peacegirl — Fri, 8 Dec 2006 - 00:40

[quote="Seraphim"][quote="TheRevivalEditor"]
now its more of nappy changing, no sleep, continuous crying.... isnt being a daddy so great:-)
[/quote]

Yeah its nothing but nappys, continuous crying, draining your cash, me me me me me, mine mine mine mine, giv giv giv giv giv, and when your old and tired and they're teenages he will turn around and say 'its not cool to hang out wit ya parents'.... makes it all worth while to then make they're lives a living hell....ahahahahahahahahahahahaha :twisted:

Aint parenthood grand[/quote]
raise them with lots of love and inshallah this won't happen!

cricketgal — Sun, 10 Dec 2006 - 21:06

Salam.

Awww Mubrooook [ sorry im a lil late :? ]

Mashallah May Allah grant Him a long happy life spent in the rememberence of Allah, May he grow up to be a stronghold in the Ummah and May Allah bless him everyday of his life, grant him the best of health and iman, the best in this life and the hereafter, Ameeen!

And Raihan is a beauty name!