What Do You Do When Your Mad?

MuslimSisLilSis

According to my family I was the best baby-almost never cried

they also say that I was the best child as well-very quiet and took a lot of crap without complaining

my brother would pull my hair 24/7 and I'd do nothing (my sister would come to my rescue)

my older sis would jack my sweets and I'd say nothing

I did whatever she told me to do

I NEVER argued with my parents-nothing ever seemed to bother me

For the last 5 years tho-a temper problem has kicked in

I dont know why

in my family the women dont have tempers-only a few men do

when I'm angry I swear and this is REALLY bad...cos a woman shouldnt be foul mouthed

i told my sister that I cant express the full extent of my anger without resorting to swearing

Today my sister refused to lend me her eyeliner and my eyeliner was practically finished

in my anger i threw my half empty eyeliner on our bedroom wall and now our wall has a massive black stain on it and our carpet has black stains all over it aswell

my mum suggested anger management classes-that made me even more angry

anger is a natural emotion-

everyone gets angry-but my mum and sister dont ever do and say stuff out of anger...they can deal with it-I dont know how i can tho

i'm not gonna go to stupid anger management classes-that is SO dumb

but does anyone have any serious tips?

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Seraphim — Fri, 1 Jul 2005 - 16:40

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="angel"]

totally off topic but i dont see the point of them stupid theory tests esp. now that they have put the hazard perception rubbish as part of the theory!![/quote]

that was VERY hard

i knew that over clicking makes u fail

so I clicked every three secs-regardless if I saw a hazard or not

and I passed

:D[/quote]

LOL!

Thats what i did! I say a man walking by the road CLICK theres a mini-roundabout coming up CLICK lol

I've worked in a store b4 and the staff are told to go ask the customers if they need any help etc... its to boost sales.

MuslimSisLilSis — Sun, 17 Jul 2005 - 12:54

yesterday i jumped on the coach from manchester at 12 which left immediatly and i was ringing my door bell at 8.30 in the evning !!!!!

traffic makes me SO angry :evil:

what makes me MORE angry is the non stop ringing of my sistrs mobile who's being pestered by dad stressing over the delay :roll:

we considered switching the mobile off and saying that it went dead-like my sister always does when pestered by dad on the phone

but we didnt-we decided to be good girls

but nothing makes me and her more mad then being bothered on the mobile by dad

Seraphim — Sun, 17 Jul 2005 - 16:20

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]yesterday i jumped on the coach from manchester at 12 which left immediatly and i was ringing my door bell at 8.30 in the evning !!!!!

traffic makes me SO angry :evil:

what makes me MORE angry is the non stop ringing of my sistrs mobile who's being pestered by dad stressing over the delay :roll:

we considered switching the mobile off and saying that it went dead-like my sister always does when pestered by dad on the phone

but we didnt-we decided to be good girls

but nothing makes me and her more mad then being bothered on the mobile by dad[/quote]

It didnt occur to you that there are faster and better ways to get to London other than a coach?

MuslimSisLilSis — Sun, 17 Jul 2005 - 17:13

[quote="Seraph"]
It didnt occur to you that there are faster and better ways to get to London other than a coach?[/quote]

and what do u suggest-we fly it to London from Manchester? :roll:

on most days its a simple four hour journey

M1 caught on fire so we couldnt use that route

You — Sun, 17 Jul 2005 - 17:53

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Seraph"]
It didnt occur to you that there are faster and better ways to get to London other than a coach?[/quote]

and what do u suggest-we fly it to London from Manchester? :roll:

on most days its a simple four hour journey

M1 caught on fire so we couldnt use that route[/quote]

Flying is a good idea. about 1/2 an hour.

Its also cheaper than train (I think), but no idea about coach.

Brother — Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 13:38

[quote="Seraph"]Yep, you should have just flown.

It'd been faster and cheaper.

But you wouldnt do it, coz you've got problems.[/quote]

Yes, flying is much better.

Its much more faster and cheaper.

I call that 'the quick and easy' method.

I don't mind flying that much.

MuslimSisLilSis — Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 14:15

boys stop giving me silly advice :roll:

i dont have a prob with travelling in cars-and I'm nearly always travelling to B'ham, Manchester and Bolton

I only have an issue with traffic which I get stuck in sumtimes

it was mine and my sisters silly mistake to travel at a peak/rush hour time

Seraphim — Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 17:59

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]boys stop giving me silly advice :roll:

i dont have a prob with travelling in cars-and I'm nearly always travelling to B'ham, Manchester and Bolton

I only have an issue with traffic which I get stuck in sumtimes

it was mine and my sisters silly mistake to travel at a peak/rush hour time[/quote]

But you do seem to have a prob with flying.

I fly in and out of London whenever i need to get to london. Would never dream of going by car or Coach.

You — Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 21:36

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]boys stop giving me silly advice :roll:

i dont have a prob with travelling in cars-and I'm nearly always travelling to B'ham, Manchester and Bolton

I only have an issue with traffic which I get stuck in sumtimes

it was mine and my sisters silly mistake to travel at a peak/rush hour time[/quote]

Ok good advice then: get a taxi!

You — Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 22:37

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Admin"]Ok good advice then: get a taxi![/quote]

Stupid advice.

Whats the diff between a coach and a taxi?[/quote]

Its faster. It also takes you from A to B without the detour through C, D, E and F.

Price is sky high.

Would you also like a definition with that?

MuslimSisLilSis — Tue, 19 Jul 2005 - 22:39

moody man :roll:

when a coach gets stuck in motorway traffic will the taxi be able to fly through?

and btw most coaches are direct from destination A to B-

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 11:35

last night we decided to hang out in the shed where my brother, cousin and uncles hang out

its got weights, an exercise bike, sit up stuff and a 20kg punching bag

we were so bored so we decided to have a competition to see who can punch the bag the longest-with the most direct punches

the boys told us-its easier if u think about someone u hate or somthing that makes u mad

we all had a go-it felt so good to hit the bag-I came second and my sister the most girliest one out of us all came first (God knows what she was thinking about 😉 )

but it REALLY does feel good to hit a punching bag-it does help to get some energy out of ur system

I've decided that from now on whenevr I'm angry I'm just gonna go in the shed and punch that boxing bag for as long as I can

great anger management tool

the only problem with that is that it makes ur hand SO sore afterwoulds-even if u wear the gloves

yuit — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:21

Yeah pyshical exercise is a good way to burn off stress. Punching the bag is good, but it much more better actually sparring someone. Pyhsically and stress wise it much more better and it done in a control environment.

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:24

[quote="kash"]Punching the bag is good, but it much more better actually sparring someone. .[/quote]

so what do u suggest? -

next time I have a fight with my brother or sisters I should beat them up instead of taking my anger out on the punching bag? :roll:

yuit — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:27

I did say Control Environment. Get Boxing Gloves and no punching on the face and it also quite fun at the same time.

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:31

[quote="kash"]I did say Control Environment. Get Boxing Gloves and no punching on the face and it also quite fun at the same time.[/quote]

i did try out the boxing gloves on my lil sis

punched her (lightly) in her tummy-i was just messing around

it made her cry-

my lil sis jumps on my brother all the times and tries to beat him up

dont give me bad advice :evil:

yuit — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:34

But surely you much have felt some type of joy in hurting her :roll: . We do it all the time, before we spar we say light punching only, but we always go with full force and at the end make out we were taking easy on each other.

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:40

of course I get my kicks out of hitting those who annoy me

that dont mean its right tho

my brother and older sister used to have serious kick offs back in the day-he'd punch her in the stomach and she'd pin him down and bash his head on the concrete floor

they've both calmed down over the years

physical fights are WRONG-

but play fights are OK

yuit — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:45

See that the good thing about it being in a [b]control environment[/b] No need to flip and less dangerous. As long as the people are equally match, trust me it ain't fun when the person on the other side is much more stronger.

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 17:48

tru

thats why me beating up lil sis aint a fair match

nor is my brother beating up my older sister cos he's gotten stronger over the years :shock:

me and my sister fighting would be a fair match tho-but our fights are never physical

Seraphim — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 18:57

> Slow truck driver make me mad.
> Stupid drivers make me mad.
> When some1 ripps off a classic film makes me mad.
:evil: :evil:

Angel — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 21:57

I think punchin a punchbag/speed ball is an excellant way of takin out anger and frustration, boy does it work wonders!

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 22:54

[quote="angel"]I think punchin a punchbag/speed ball is an excellant way of takin out anger and frustration, boy does it work wonders![/quote]

I agree

but it cant be good for ur hands

my hands are so SORE and I only used it for about 5min yesterday-I doubt I be using it again

yuit — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 22:57

If anything it going to make your hand stronger, as after they damage, when repairing they become stronger. A 20 kg bag is light, that what the 8-12 years use in our gym, can't see how you damage yourself on that.

Angel — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 23:03

[quote="kash"]If anything it going to make your hand stronger, as after they damage, when repairing they become stronger. A 20 kg bag is light, that what the 8-12 years use in our gym, can't see how you damage yourself on that.[/quote]

8-12's? since when did they let bhudda into the kiddies gym?

yuit — Fri, 5 Aug 2005 - 23:15

It not a kid gym, it just some of the more talented brother teach some of the kids and they need lighter bags to hit.