Is the ummah lacking Adab?

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laila — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 - 21:47

kamilah not liking someones beard is hardly a sensible point to make

in the deobandi/brelvi thread perhaps you could voice your concerns in the proper manner - point by point so that u can be answered in the proper manner

there is no need for abuse for any party

MuslimSister — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 14:29

Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 19:47

[quote="MuslimSister"]Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.[/quote]

Doesnt TuQ teach you fairies anything?

[b]EDITED [/b]

(*_Kamilah* — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 19:53

[quote="laila"]kamilah not liking someones beard is hardly a sensible point to make

in the deobandi/brelvi thread perhaps you could voice your concerns in the proper manner - point by point so that u can be answered in the proper manner

there is no need for abuse for any party[/quote]

would you care to go over my posts rather than pick out certain parts.

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 19:56

[quote="(*_Kamilah*"][quote="laila"]kamilah not liking someones beard is hardly a sensible point to make

in the deobandi/brelvi thread perhaps you could voice your concerns in the proper manner - point by point so that u can be answered in the proper manner

there is no need for abuse for any party[/quote]

would you care to go over my posts rather than pick out certain parts.[/quote]

This user has nearly crtices everyone at one point in her lifespam, from the likes of Dr.Zakir Naik to Shaykh Ibn Taymiyah, she isnt worth replying to.

You — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 19:57

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSister"]Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.[/quote]

Doesnt TuQ teach you zombies anything?[/quote]

Now, now, where are your manners?

Calling people zombies is not especially nice.

And then I can consider that you have replied to a thoughtful post in an extremely ignorant manner.

You reply is IMO extremely rude. Considering this topic is about manners, I would advise you to apologise. honestly. No made up apology just to please me.

Afterall I am certain you do have some ettiquettes.

(and yes, I have drawn a line. Cross it at your own peril.)

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:15

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSister"]Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.[/quote]

Doesnt TuQ teach you zombies anything?[/quote]

u just contridic your self shazan earlier on in this post if i not mistaken u were tlking about hw we are like on manners .

You — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:16

[quote="Admin"]Considering this topic is about manners, I would advise you to apologise. honestly. No made up apology just to please me.

Afterall I am certain you do have some ettiquettes.

(and yes, I have drawn a line. Cross it at your own peril.)[/quote]

Well, a made up apology may be acceptable. If you are honest in the apology.

:twisted:

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:18

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Admin"]rose, rose rose.

A question I did ask was how do you try to improve your manners?[/quote]

Sheikh Abdulaziz Ahmed Fredricks on

Adab (manners)

What is the meaning of the word a-d-b Adab?

Adab is that which you express good character

The word Adab (manners) is the word bda (begin) backwards

You start (bda) with manners (adab)

The Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) said, “My Lord has given me manners.”

The vehicle for manners is Muhammad (peace and blessings upon him) through the teaching of Allah Subhanu wa Ta’ala

The Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) said, “Pray as you have seen me pray.” This the outward of the prayer

If you have adab with Allah Subhanu wa Ta’ala you will reach him

The purpose of prayer is to build a relationship with your creator

The word to pray Salah (prayer) means to have a link to

White is better on the environment and it better to wear in life and death

Imam Ghazali (May Allah's Ta'ala mercy be with him) recommended white

The heart is the place of emotion

Inward manners is to have love

The Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) said, “Manners is all of religion.”

Manners is everything that is praiseworthy in terms of your actions

Adab is good character

Adab is to stop out of respect

Adab is respecting everyone who is greater than you

If you look down at people, you lose out

Show gentleness to those who are below you

When you at a person below you, look at the blessings that you have been given and look at them with the eye of mercy.

The meaning of the word adab is put something in its right place

Umar ibn Khattab (May Allah Ta’ala be pleased with him) wrote with he left hand but did not eat with his left hand

Adab is say something correctly

Write with correct grammar.

What are the manners towards yourself?

Teach the naafs good and teach it to do good and leave bad

We are more in need of manners than knowledge

Imam Shafi (May Allah's Ta'ala mercy be with him) said, “Make adab your flour and knowledge your salt.”

If you have adab you will gain knowledge

Adab is the perfection of things[/quote]

subhanallah lovely info on adab.
shame u cant practise wat u preache.

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:20

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSister"]Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.[/quote]

Doesnt TuQ teach you zombies anything?[/quote]

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Admin"]rose, rose rose.

A question I did ask was how do you try to improve your manners?[/quote]

Sheikh Abdulaziz Ahmed Fredricks on

Adab (manners)

What is the meaning of the word a-d-b Adab?

Adab is that which you express good character

The word Adab (manners) is the word bda (begin) backwards

You start (bda) with manners (adab)

The Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) said, “My Lord has given me manners.”

The vehicle for manners is Muhammad (peace and blessings upon him) through the teaching of Allah Subhanu wa Ta’ala

The Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) said, “Pray as you have seen me pray.” This the outward of the prayer

If you have adab with Allah Subhanu wa Ta’ala you will reach him

The purpose of prayer is to build a relationship with your creator

The word to pray Salah (prayer) means to have a link to

White is better on the environment and it better to wear in life and death

Imam Ghazali (May Allah's Ta'ala mercy be with him) recommended white

The heart is the place of emotion

Inward manners is to have love

The Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) said, “Manners is all of religion.”

Manners is everything that is praiseworthy in terms of your actions

Adab is good character

Adab is to stop out of respect

Adab is respecting everyone who is greater than you

If you look down at people, you lose out

Show gentleness to those who are below you

When you at a person below you, look at the blessings that you have been given and look at them with the eye of mercy.

The meaning of the word adab is put something in its right place

Umar ibn Khattab (May Allah Ta’ala be pleased with him) wrote with he left hand but did not eat with his left hand

Adab is say something correctly

Write with correct grammar.

What are the manners towards yourself?

Teach the naafs good and teach it to do good and leave bad

We are more in need of manners than knowledge

Imam Shafi (May Allah's Ta'ala mercy be with him) said, “Make adab your flour and knowledge your salt.”

If you have adab you will gain knowledge

Adab is the perfection of things[/quote]

subhanallah lovely info on adab shazan.
shame u cant practise wat u preache.

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:20

[quote="geniesis"]

u just contridic your self shazan earlier on in this post if i not mistaken u were tlking about hw we are like on manners .[/quote]

Spell names with capitals, and I bet you have 10 G.C.S.E’s to your name.

When lives are at risk and Minhaj apathy concerning Chechnya and Afghanistan, I couldn’t care if I disappointed you.

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:21

[quote="geniesis"]
subhanallah lovely info on adab.
shame u cant practise wat u preache.[/quote]

I’m not qualified to preach - all glory belongs to Allah

You — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:23

So, are they gun running or something?

I am still awaiting your apology to MS.

I can see yuou are filled with hate for alot of people. Drink some cold water.

Then get back here and apologise.

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:23

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]
subhanallah lovely info on adab.
shame u cant practise wat u preache.[/quote]

I’m not qualified to preach - all glory belongs to Allah[/quote]

:? reli i getting slightly confused here?

MuslimSister — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:24

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSister"]Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.[/quote]

Doesnt TuQ teach you zombies anything?[/quote]

They've taught me a lot about manners, name calling, humility, being open to differences of opinion, respect of ALL teachers etc.

Your insult was uncalled for, have I ever insulted you or your school of thought?

Why all the hate all of a sudden?

You — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:25

[quote="geniesis"][quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]
subhanallah lovely info on adab.
shame u cant practise wat u preache.[/quote]

I’m not qualified to preach - all glory belongs to Allah[/quote]

:? reli i getting slightly confused here?[/quote]

He is hiding one saying behind another which is fact. The two statements are not related.

It is a was to confuzzle and not give a proper reply.

(PS bro, I am still awaiting your apology. It better be good.)

Kadijah — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:27

[quote="geniesis"][quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]
subhanallah lovely info on adab.
shame u cant practise wat u preache.[/quote]

I’m not qualified to preach - all glory belongs to Allah[/quote]

:? reli i getting slightly confused here?[/quote]

[color=red]genie man
poeple like theses come out with sources

and then next minute they totally ignoring them and doing wat tehy precisely tell them not to do

these lot are not wrth gettign invloed in yeh safe

[/color]

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:38

[quote="Kadijah"]

[color=red]genie man
poeple like theses come out with sources

and then next minute they totally ignoring them and doing wat tehy precisely tell them not to do

these lot are not wrth gettign invloed in yeh safe

[/color][/quote]

ok pundit, attracted to the article Imam Shafi quote since i follow Shafi madhab

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:38

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]

u just contridic your self shazan earlier on in this post if i not mistaken u were tlking about hw we are like on manners .[/quote]

Spell names with capitals, and I bet you have 10 G.C.S.E’s to your name.

When lives are at risk and Minhaj apathy concerning Chechnya and Afghanistan, I couldn’t care if I disappointed you.[/quote]

subhannah bro Allah swt has blessed u with atleast one talent
ur guess on hw many GCSE i came out wth was spot on

ur name doesnt deserve to be in capitals.

You — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:43

[quote="MuslimSister"][quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSister"]Dunno if this is a universal thing but IMO we are lacking humility and basic consideration for other people’s feelings.[/quote]

Doesnt TuQ teach you zombies anything?[/quote]

They've taught me a lot about manners, name calling, humility, being open to differences of opinion, respect of ALL teachers etc.

Your insult was uncalled for, have I ever insulted you or your school of thought?

Why all the hate all of a sudden?[/quote]

She deserves an answer before I ban you.

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:43

[quote="geniesis"]

subhannah bro Allah swt has blessed u with atleast one talent
ur guess on hw many GCSE i came out wth was spot on

ur name doesnt deserve to be in capitals.[/quote]

And hasn’t Allah given to a brain to think with?

Kadijah — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:44

[quote="geniesis"][quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]

u just contridic your self shazan earlier on in this post if i not mistaken u were tlking about hw we are like on manners .[/quote]

Spell names with capitals, and I bet you have 10 G.C.S.E’s to your name.

When lives are at risk and Minhaj apathy concerning Chechnya and Afghanistan, I couldn’t care if I disappointed you.[/quote]

subhannah bro Allah swt has blessed u with atleast one talent
ur guess on hw many GCSE i came out wth was spot on

ur name doesnt deserve to be in capitals.[/quote]
[color=red]
man u beated me by 2 GCSEs [/color]

Kadijah — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:45

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]

subhannah bro Allah swt has blessed u with atleast one talent
ur guess on hw many GCSE i came out wth was spot on

ur name doesnt deserve to be in capitals.[/quote]

And hasn’t Allah given to a brain to think with?[/quote]

[color=red]of course he has , she not na waste her brians on u tahts all [/color]

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:47

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="geniesis"]

subhannah bro Allah swt has blessed u with atleast one talent
ur guess on hw many GCSE i came out wth was spot on

ur name doesnt deserve to be in capitals.[/quote]

And hasn’t Allah given to a brain to think with?[/quote]

Maybe Allah swt has bless me to use my brian elsewer and not on u

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:48

[quote="Kadijah"]

[color=red]of course he has , she not na waste her brians on u tahts all [/color][/quote]

Then if Allah taught you well, you would not waste time with me, i'm tired of reading your dribble....................................

Admin, I've edited my comment 🙂

AND to see if your balanced ask little children to remove vermin from their tongues.

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:49

[quote="geniesis"]

Maybe Allah swt has bless me to use my brian elsewer and not on u[/quote]

Explain why you enrolled with MinHaj? Must of because of the satanic whispers leading you...................

Snoopz — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:49

i thought this topic was about adab...
jus beeeen readin the thread u all need to take a chill pill P

You — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:50

[quote="(*_Shazan"]
Admin, I've edited my comment :)[/quote]

That is not what I asked for. And I said it is nonnegotiable.

You have also used the term zombies in other topics.

Follow the letter. An apology, not a retraction.

Bliss — Mon, 11 Sep 2006 - 20:52

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Kadijah"]

[color=red]of course he has , she not na waste her brians on u tahts all [/color][/quote]

Then if Allah taught you well, you would not waste time with me, i'm tired of reading your dribble....................................

quote]

then if u so tired why do u keep replying

make ur mind up bro