Memories

[quote="Med"]
But you get my point. Is there a way of erasing or alterring things which trigger a memory - so if white musk reminds of x - can we consciously associate the musk with y? Can that be done?

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how to suppress ur memories? Now THAT’S a good question 😉

it is impossible to suppress ur memories-u’ll be haunted by the beautiful fragrance of white musk for the rest of ur life

ur life will be full of anguish and misery and it’ll be on ur mind till the day u die 😢

the more u try to forget the beautiful “white musk” the more-white Musk will be on ur mind

every sin comes with a consequence

u have to patiently suffer for the rest of ur life cos of ur sinful actions

learn frm ur mistakes and from now on think twice before condemning/cursing and looking down at those without a beard

cos u may end up falling into sin urself again and will be the ridicule of every registered member on the revival who is a witness to ur blatent double stanrads

:twisted:

😂

mashaALLAH - you have outdone yourself LilSis. But if you wanted to talk abt doublestandards we could talk abt yrself aswell. We're all part of the same hypocricy.

If I remember correctly- you yourself have confessed to not reading fajr salaah regularly on time? Isnt that hypocricy aswell?

And yes - SHAVING is haraam. My condemning shaving is a good act, my other acts were wrong. Just because one aspect of me is bad - doesnt mean that I should stop on the good.

Every son of Adam alayhis salaam is a sinner, and the best of sinners are those who repent.

Tbh the opinions of certain ppl arent worth much - neither their scholars nor their ustaads are worth the dust on the earth.

[quote="Med"]

If I remember correctly- you yourself have confessed to not reading fajr salaah regularly on time? Isnt that hypocricy aswell?

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hypocrisy wud be if i was to condemn others for not reading fajr on time

[quote="Med"]

Tbh the opinions of certain ppl arent worth much - neither their scholars nor their ustaads are worth the dust on the earth.[/quote]

thats why u've been banned so many times-keep it up and u'd be banned again

but then again-its not ur fault-u prob werent taught to respect islamic teachers

i can feel the love in this forum D

if someone says their sins in this forum and then you throw it in their face and use it agaisnt them roll shame on you

and people should not be banned just because they happen to disagree with something/ people , or have a differing view

There are certain techniques you can use to earse/block certain memories one of which is hypnotism..... which is mainly used by quacks but has had some results as the 'power of suggestion'.

Or you could try a neuralizer

[img]http://img176.imageshack.us/img176/2379/nerualizer2ni.jpg[/img]

The neuralizer is a tool used to erase and alter people's memories. The neuralizer has four major dials to set the duration of time erased in the spectator's memory. Each dial corresponds to minutes, weeks, months and years. Once the neuralizer has flashed there is a window of around 30 seconds in which an official can verbally tell the spectator what they have missed. Therefore, in doing this they can set up a false memory of what happened in the time that was erased.

Or you could try the head banging on a wall thing... induce amnesia or something

[quote="nAS786"]

if someone says their sins in this forum and then you throw it in their face and use it agaisnt them :roll: shame on you

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yeh MED

just cos I've admitted to missing a few Fajr's-no need to throw it in my face 😢

and seraph-no more Matrix for u :roll:

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]
and seraph-no more Matrix for u :roll:[/quote]

You do realise its from M.I.B not matrix?
[size=7]{i think shes loosing it}[/size] :twisted:

[quote="Med"]Tbh the opinions of certain ppl arent worth much - neither their scholars nor their ustaads are worth the dust on the earth.[/quote] do you ever learn from your mistakes Med? :roll: how would you like it if someone berated your shuyukh for the mistakes you made? lilsis could just have easily insulted your shuyukh in that post of hers, but thankfully she didn't stoop that low. :roll:

Assalaam alaikum,

Med if you had opted to study medicine then you would know how to perform a lobotomy ...........

Remember this isnt the MPAC forum!

Med you can't suppress your memories and you won't suppress your memories. God decided what experiences people are going to have in your life, and he did so for a reason it's not up to us to turn away from that. If a person is concerned that it will continually pop up and irritate them or if they are concerned they will make a poor decision as a result they should avoid whatever is bringing this memory into focus continually.

[quote="Don Karnage"]Med you can't suppress your memories and you won't suppress your memories. God decided what experiences people are going to have in your life, and he did so for a reason it's not up to us to turn away from that. If a person is concerned that it will continually pop up and irritate them or if they are concerned they will make a poor decision as a result they should avoid whatever is bringing this memory into focus continually.[/quote]very well said.

:roll:

Sorry for asking a qsn. Didnt knw it was gonna be analysed ten million different ways.

[quote="Med"]Sorry for asking a qsn. Didnt knw it was gonna be analysed ten million different ways.[/quote]
oh don't try to be all coy about it Med, for pete's sake. :roll: people here are not idiots, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what you were referring to, if you don't want people to refer to ur personal issues, don't bring them up in the first place. i am sick of this. go see a shrink if you're so concerned about it.

[quote="nAS786"]i can feel the love in this forum 😃

if someone says their sins in this forum and then you throw it in their face and use it agaisnt them :roll: shame on you

and people should not be banned just because they happen to disagree with something/ people , or have a differing view[/quote]

Okay seeing as I've basically admitted to being a girlholic alcoholic hypocrite elitist angry abusive slug and nobody has ever brought it up as an argument against me I can hardly agree with that.

Med wasn't talking about himself (as far as we know) he was asking a question, why is everybody assuming it pertains to him?

Why is that any of our business.... the guy asked a question either answer it or drop it - and that goes for everyone.

[quote="*DUST*"][quote="Med"]Sorry for asking a qsn. Didnt knw it was gonna be analysed ten million different ways.[/quote]
oh don't try to be all coy about it Med, for pete's sake. :roll: people here are not idiots, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what you were referring to, if you don't want people to refer to ur personal issues, don't bring them up in the first place. i am sick of this. go see a shrink if you're so concerned about it.[/quote]

That's totally out of line - he asked a question. If you think it's some kind of personal issue then at least be conscious of the fact that he took steps to keep it anonymous and that was for a reason. If you're sick of what you think is going on then work it out in private - like an adult, not a gossiping child. I don't particularly care how many of yall like Med, you have no right to embarrass him with your speculatory gossip. I don't know if this is some vindictive need to embarass him or if you just are celebrating that you "figured it out" but bare in mind it's all speculation, and it's not your position to determine what he "really meant" in asking his question.

This forum is out of line on this issue. All yall from MS to Hayder to Dust are shaming yourselves with this display, stop it.

[quote="Don Karnage"]That's totally out of line - he asked a question. If you think it's some kind of personal issue then at least be conscious of the fact that he took steps to keep it anonymous and that was for a reason. If you're sick of what you think is going on then work it out in private - like an adult, not a gossiping child. I don't particularly care how many of yall like Med, you have no right to embarrass him with your speculatory gossip. I don't know if this is some vindictive need to embarass him or if you just are celebrating that you "figured it out" but bare in mind it's all speculation, and it's not your position to determine what he "really meant" in asking his question.

This forum is out of line on this issue. All yall from MS to Hayder to Dust are shaming yourselves with this display, stop it.[/quote]
yes Dave, he kept it as an anonymous, general question and i treated it as such right up until the following post:
[quote="Med"]Is there a way of erasing or alterring things which trigger a memory - so if white musk reminds of x - can we consciously associate the musk with y? Can that be done?

And what if these memories or triggers are constant and surround a person and are quite stressful and inescapable. Would talking to a shrink stop them?[/quote]
as i said it does not take a rocket scientist to figure out what he was referring to, if he was really so keen to keep it anonymous he would have used a different example.

i have nothing personal against Med, and i think i made this clear in the thread regarding him being unbanned. however in such instances which involve other members and their integrity, i do not appreciate him being so blatant about it, and then trying to cover it all up with a coy remark. that is, imo, immature and attention-seeking behaviour.

If you bothered to open your eyes "Dust" then you woulda noticed that I firstly referred to Quran recitation, then white musk, then drinking tea at 1am. If you wanna be so concerned abt whoever it is then thats your look-out.

Mods this thread needs to be closed.