Describe your ideal man or woman

ideal women would be

everything that psychopath ramz is not :roll: :roll:

[quote="Ramz"]
*obedient[/quote]

lol wat u want a pet for!

Ideal man >>> well if there was such a thing as an ideal man then i wud have stated it, if an ideal man don't exist why dream bout him! *sighs*

[quote="Angel"][quote="Ramz"]
*obedient[/quote]

lol wat u want a pet for!

[/quote]

Ramz wants a dog

she shud know that muslims are not allowed to keep dogs as pets

[quote="Angel"]

Ideal man >>> well if there was such a thing as an ideal man then i wud have stated it, if an ideal man don't exist why dream bout him! *sighs*[/quote]

yep

"perfect" and "man" is an oxymoron

and men are just morons :roll: :roll:

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Angel"][quote="Ramz"]
*obedient[/quote]

lol wat u want a pet for!

[/quote]

Ramz wants a dog

she shud know that muslims are not allowed to keep dogs as pets

[quote="Angel"]

Ideal man >>> well if there was such a thing as an ideal man then i wud have stated it, if an ideal man don't exist why dream bout him! *sighs*[/quote]

yep

"perfect" and "man" is an oxymoron

and men are just morons :roll: :roll:[/quote]

lol ladies chill......theres is NO such thing as an ideal man as angel has mentioned. but calling them morons aint too nice 😃

[quote="liberty4women"]

lol ladies chill......theres is NO such thing as an ideal man as angel has mentioned. but calling them morons aint too nice :D[/quote]

I have some other names that i can use to describe them too

but i don't think u'll like them either 😃

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="liberty4women"]

lol ladies chill......theres is NO such thing as an ideal man as angel has mentioned. but calling them morons aint too nice :D[/quote]

I have some other names that i can use to describe them too

but i don't think u'll like them either :D[/quote]

go on .....would love to hear what u thought about men. 😃

i thought it was obvious

lets just say other than daddy-i am no fan of men

too many of them are good for nothing

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Angel"][quote="Ramz"]
*obedient[/quote]

lol wat u want a pet for!

[/quote]

Ramz wants a dog

she shud know that muslims are not allowed to keep dogs as pets

[/quote]

She could try a mouse. They are easy to control.

[quote="latifah"]

She could try a mouse. They are easy to control.[/quote]

very tru

but they're arrogant conniving little buggers

u never know what they're thinking

[quote="Ramz"]If you could make the perfect man or woman what would they be like.
My ideal man would be

*rich
*very good looking
*He'd get on with all my friends
*Highly educated.
*well known in town
*very generous
*funny
*romantic
*obedient[/quote]

U must b in La-La Land. [b]Make [/b]a perfect man? i guess u watched that episode of Sabrina the Teenage Witch 😃

Y not try make this topic more Islamic Based, i dunno y, hmmm, mayb cuz this is an Islamic Forum.

Making ideal people? God made people the way they are, y all the fuss about making an ideal person? Ramz u need some form of phyco-therapy

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="latifah"]

She could try a mouse. They are easy to control.[/quote]

very tru

but they're [b]arrogant conniving little buggers[/b]

[b]u never know what they're thinking[/b][/quote]

U jus described women perfectly 😂

My point is, this goes both ways. but lets face it, men, and women will always b on earth, u needa learn to get along LilSis.

If u find men so annoying, and little buggers, jus imagine what poor men are going through, there are more women on earth than men. N towards the end of time, the number of men will descrease, and number of women will increase.

OMG :shock: Its so scary, console me someone

Ya Digg?

If you want to call us morons, atleast keep it out of sight! (in the girls only forum to be specific.) Some people dop have feelings!

Thing is there is no such thing as a perfect man/woman.

However there can be a perfect partner.

That would be someone you get along with, and has diferent weaknesses, so that you cover each others' weaknesses.

Ramz as our Scottish friend pointed out... theres no such thing as a perfect guy or girl. Why? Well thats a long story which i'll save for another time. So just take our word for it... there isnt... BCOZ IM THE MAN AND YOU LISTEN TO WHAT I TELL YOU DAMN IT!!!!! lol just kidding.

God made all humans with flaws and imperfect (even women... although some cant seem to come to terms with that) but you can certainly dream if you want to theres no harm in dreaming aslong as you dont hold such high expectations from what life gives you.

You're list isnt all that.

*rich- money dont buy happyness or love. And if he is that rich he should help out the poor.
*looks- beauty is in the eyes of the beholder... besides, if one day he looses his looks will you leave him??? wait dont answer that its reatorical.
*Get on with all your mates; personally i would think alot of women would object to thier partner mingling a little more than necessary with their mates... you know what i mean.
*Highly educated: i wouldnt hold my breathe if i were you, but you usually end up with some1 whose as educated as you are... as 'highly educated' people dont want to end up married to someone whose uneducated.. ya digg?
*Well known in town:... dont understand this at all... well known for what exactly?
*very generious... im okay with the generious part as he would be rich as long as he aint spending on useless things that YOU dont need. God dont like money wasters.
*Funny+romantic--- well thats really up to you isnt it. If you dont have a matching sense of humour then he aint gonna be funny to you. And if you aint all that...forget romantic aswell.
*Obedient- Sorry he requires your obedience not the other way round. He can listen to you and your suggestions if they're any good, but is in no way obliged to obey them.

If women find a guy who's decent, gentle, patient, hardworking and so-into-you then that should be enough for you. Anything after that will be a plus.

LilSis i think every1 realises by now that you're anti-men and everything to do with them just keep that in mind when you're bitter, old and alone. Just dont spread the hate.

Lol-isnt it better for young girls to be somewhat anti-men rather than boy crazy?

I know I've always encouraged such sentiments....esp when it comes to teenage girls.

[quote="Admin"]

Thing is there is no such thing as a perfect man/woman.

However there can be a perfect partner.

That would be someone you get along with, and has diferent weaknesses, so that you cover each others' weaknesses.[/quote]

Agreed.

[quote="Seraphim"]

LilSis i think every1 realises by now that you're anti-men and everything to do with them just keep that in mind when you're bitter, old and alone. Just dont spread the hate.[/quote]

Scared it might be contagious? 😛

lol at admin. Also agree with Admin, it's all about accepting a person for who they are once a person does that then they become their ideal, no one is perfect but one can overlook one another's weaknesses and talk about the good things in a person.

Salam

[quote="Ramz"]If you could make the perfect man or woman what would they be like.[/quote]

Holy Prophet Muhammad and his pure daughter.

No contest.

God Bless them both.

Omrow

[quote="MuslimSister"]Lol-isnt it better for young girls to be somewhat anti-men rather than boy crazy?

[b]I know I've always encouraged such sentiments[/b]....esp when it comes to teenage girls.

.[/quote]

So your responsible for making your sister think the way she does. What do you have against men? Has your hatred for men stopped you from posting up what your 'ideal man' should be like?

Its hardly hatred of men. It’s just wise not to become obsessed with boys and have constant daydreams of this fairy tale “perfect man” who will solve all your problems. Real men are never going to be like the handsome prince in the movies so demanding such a man is always going to leave you disappointed.

[quote="Ramz"]If you could make the perfect man or woman what would they be like.
My ideal man would be

*rich
*very good looking
*He'd get on with all my friends
*Highly educated.
*well known in town
*very generous
*funny
*romantic
*obedient[/quote]

Girl u need 2 get sum new brain cellz 4 that brain ov urz................

Erm that's if uv got1 init.........

Oh *well known in town - meaning the "Top G" typa guy rite ...

well if thats gona make U happy then im convinced that U aint got a brain man.

Ramz,

I don’t hate men.

I’m a fan of my father; I love my uncles and I admire lots of guys I work with who are fantastic husbands to their wives.

But like Latifah pointed out its not wise to be idealistic or boy crazy….I do not encourage young girls to hate men, but I do encourage them not be obsessed with them or to believe everything they tell you.

I guess I can be kinda cynical of men.

Ideal Guy AND ideal woman would…

1-Posess the best manners (i.e. be considerate, selfless, humble, polite etc etc)

2-Be Pious

[quote="Ramz"]
My ideal man would be

*rich
*very good looking
*He'd get on with all my friends
*Highly educated.
*well known in town
*very generous
*funny
*romantic
*obedient[/quote]

From that the closest match I can think of would be a taxi driver.

Most have studied alot before falling into the taxi trap. They make a killing.

I know a guy I was at uni with. He did a masters in pharmacology, and then taxis for the last few years. In short he has saved up enough to not work for the next four years, and do a course in dentistry. (and No I am not trying to set him up. He is married.)

TYaxi drivers understand the concept of easy come easy go. So they probably will nbto try to hoard money.

They have to be funny, or would be suicidal after taking so many pasengers every day.

And when they get home I imagine they would be too tired to say anything but 'yes honey'.

Your perfect match.

[quote="Admin"][quote="Ramz"]
My ideal man would be

*rich
*very good looking
*He'd get on with all my friends
*Highly educated.
*well known in town
*very generous
*funny
*romantic
*obedient[/quote]

From that the closest match I can think of would be a taxi driver.

.[/quote]

All taxi drivers Admin or only the one you personally know?

All the taxi drivers I know are bitter, non ambitious, uneducated men.

Not all taxi drivers, but quite a few.

Probably not the majority, but alot of asians end up in takeways/taxi's and other dead end jobs after their degree's are completed.

And then there are also those who did not get the education to do anything else.

I would think taxi drivers would not be bitter. Probably a north/south divide! :twisted:

Ambition you are probably right about, but that is something I find hard to quantify.

What all this hostility towards Ramz?

I agree this topic is stupid and condescending, can all those perceived admirable qualities get you into Jannah?

My ideal man:

Hmmm

A Beloved in the court of Allah SWT.

Who likes a tall glass of milk.

P.S. if this IS an ideal man/woman thread whom you would to marry then I find its existance on an Islamic forum questionable to say the least.

But hey, don't let that get you down.

why would you find that questionable?

Afterall marriage is a religious act.

[quote="(*_Shazan"]What all this hostility towards Ramz?

I agree this topic is stupid and condescending, ?[/quote]

and he says WE show hotility to Ramz :roll: :roll:

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="(*_Shazan"]What all this hostility towards Ramz?

I agree this topic is stupid and condescending, ?[/quote]

and he says WE show hotility to Ramz :roll: :roll:[/quote]

I’ve attacked the content of the topic however not the author. :roll: :roll:

[quote="Admin"][quote="Ramz"]
My ideal man would be

*rich
*very good looking
*He'd get on with all my friends
*Highly educated.
*well known in town
*very generous
*funny
*romantic
*obedient[/quote]

From that the closest match I can think of would be a taxi driver.

Most have studied alot before falling into the taxi trap. They make a killing.

I know a guy I was at uni with. He did a masters in pharmacology, and then taxis for the last few years. In short he has saved up enough to not work for the next four years, and do a course in dentistry. (and No I am not trying to set him up. He is married.)

TYaxi drivers understand the concept of easy come easy go. So they probably will nbto try to hoard money.

They have to be funny, or would be suicidal after taking so many pasengers every day.

And when they get home I imagine they would be too tired to say anything but 'yes honey'.

Your perfect match.[/quote]

Admin are you taking the piss?

[quote="Ramz"]Admin are you taking the peev?[/quote]

Our beloved brother Admin doesn’t do sarcasm, he is forthright and there's important message in his story

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Ramz"]Admin are you taking the peev?[/quote]

Our beloved brother Admin doesn’t do sarcasm, he is forthright and there's important message in his story[/quote]

ummm yeah, what he said.