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Why does society prefer light skin? Why do guys go for lighter girls? My family told me to use fair and lovely skin bleaching cream once so that I'd have fairer skin. It worked but I had to stop using it because it made my face break out in spots. When I was younger my mum always told me to keep out of the sun.
My grandmother says that purity is linked to a lighter colour. Even the quran says that the hoors will be white.
Whats wrong with being dark and why do rishte's always prefer their future wife to be fair? I've been rejected for not being "light enough"
Whats wrong with the guy being lighter then his wife?
State your skin colour preference and reason.
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[quote="MuslimSister"][quote="razor"]
wats the secret technique ladies, step by step pleez[/quote]
There's no secret really, different stuff works for different people, some religiously cleanse, tone and moisturise every night and exfoliate every few weeks…others just rely on soap and water.
But nothing can make your skin colour lighter…but the sun can tan you, [size=24]so no playing footie in the mid morning extreme heat of the summer if you don’t wish to become darker. [/size]
And just drink plenty of water/milk and eat lots of fruit and veg to have nice looking skin.[/quote]
okay, I'm hyperventelating. :shock:
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[quote="yashmaki"]This is insane. Although i despise the model industry i will admit there are plenty of beautiful women there, and plenty that are not so beautiful. There are black models aswell. Black women can get away with vibrant colours, asian women white women generally look like they're going to the circus if they do this. On the other hand asian women and white women suit light shades that wouldn't suit a dark skinned woman.
Quit all the nonsense about black women not looking good in make up. There's make up out there for all skin tones it's all about wearing the correct brands. Bobby Brown, and Mac are known to be good for asian and black skin tones.
How did make up come into the equation on this topic anyway?
My father is very dark, my mother is the other extreme. All of my siblings are various shades, i really don't give a stuff they still look beautiful to me. I'm sick to death of this obsession with skin colour :?
If you're not content with your skin colour scrub it with a nail brush see if you can make it whiter, try for at least 3 hours i promise it works wonders :roll:
BTW any of you ever read "The bluest eye" -Toni Morrison? it;s a hearbreaking story of one black girls mental and physical abuse as a result of society teaching her black=ugly. She lives life dreaming of being a white girl, just so she may be deemed beautiful. Reminds me of asian girls putting in blue contacts, blonde hair, bleached skin..any parallels?[/quote]
Totally agree with you Yash being light skinned is nothin to do with beauty, loada codswollop! There are loads of beautiful women who are dark skinned. The thing is we should get rid of this mentality, those who judge people based on skin colour are only making themselves look stupid and narrow-minded.
Beauty can be found in all colours.
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[quote="razor"][quote="Omrow"]I'm sorry but they don't. Makeup is for white women only.[/quote]
Make-up was designed to giv white females colour, its true purpose is to add colour right?
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I think so, well Victorian makeup anyway (a mixture of blood and other stuff, that basically was blusher). The Victorian ideal was, milk white complexion, with rosy lips and cheeks.
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i personally think make-up suits everyone not matter what there skin colour is. They just have use the right shade of colour that suits them. example, if you have light coloured eyes then darker shades looks good because it brings out the colour of the eyes or if you have dark colour eyes then lighter colours bring out the colour of your eyes more, however some women just look good without make-up, this doesn't mean make up doesn't suit them.
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it was originally designed for white women, but so were many other things not just make up. But now times have changed so has make up, there are brands out there for all sorts of skins.
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Salam
Paki tomatoes make your skin fairer.
They can turn a black girl into a white one.
Only works with long tomatoes. Not the round ones.
Omrow
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People should appreciate what they've got and not give a monkeys of what people think of them and their skin colour. Every individual is beautiful in their own way. And remember looks can be decieving..
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Beautifully said.
Say it again sam.
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[quote="sam"]People should appreciate what they've got and not give a monkeys of what people think of them and their skin colour. Every individual is beautiful in their own way. And remember looks can be decieving..[/quote]
That is so true!
But what really counts is what is inside (Personality), and we should be grateful for how allah (Subhanatallah) created us and made us Unique, in his own way from everybody else!
And one more thing,
Never juge a book by its cover! 😉
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) its true though, where's the self esteem gone?
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We should all be grateful for what we have!
but then again we also take things for granted! :roll:
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Some people do take things for granted or don't appreciate what they've got till its gone. There are many people out their that would love to have the skin colour you have regarding to this topic and there's you moarning about it because you want to be fairer... roll
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That is so true!
Whats with a fake sun tan anyway? I seriously do not get that! :?
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this is bit stupid to,
theres the white people being racist coming out with unnecessary remarks like "paki or black wotever" and there they are with the fake tans
or the asian n blacks coming out with "white woteva" trying to have fairer skin by slapping foundation on their faces and putting blue contacts in...
You should be yourself and not something your not
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[quote="sam"]People should appreciate what they've got and not give a monkeys of what people think of them and their skin colour. ..[/quote]
Great point Sam.
And who wants to impress shallow, backward people who become impressed with superficial stuff such as skin colour...
I often throw a fit when I hear people asking such questions about me.
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im gonna be controversial 8)
Lets face it the truth is being fairer or being whiter skinned is seen as good-looking and being dark skinned is seen as ugliness. The majority of asains want fairer skins and want fair wifes and fair kids, the same is true with black people the light skined black people are seen to be better looking in the black community.
Lets face it although we know its wrong we all know being dark is percieved as ugly and being fair skinned is good-looking, this is a social contstruct. This is fact of life e.g. same as having a bent nose is ugly.
However we should ask ourselves why is this ?
where does it stem from ?
who started it?
why are we naturally brainwashed to believing it?
answers
Darwin-evolution
Eugenics
Nazism
and the [b]BRITISH [/b]
Ill use pakistanis as an example , pakistanis are the most brainwashed , they most definitly believe being fair skinned is better looking and dark as being ugly,(which is funny as the majority of pakis are dark in pakistan) but this could be as a result of british rule , the british empire embedded into us being white is good being black is ugly and we believe it :? .
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while studying attractiveness in psychology i was given a picure of the face that would be seen as most attracive , this was formed from the basis of numerous studies.
the picture showed typical features of a white male, e.g. small lips, narrow small nose , tight jawline.
i said to my teacher the only thing missing is blond hair and blue eyes and he would be the perfect nazi lol
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[quote="*DUST*"]
exactly. someone can have really fair skin AND spots at the same time, does that make them beautiful? :? healthy, radiant skin is what brings out the beauty in a person. (so eat up your tomatoes everyone!) :wink:[/quote]
Tomatoes = healthy skin? First time I've heard that.
And don’t forget your 1.5 liters of water per day.
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[quote="(*_Khamzat"][quote="*DUST*"]
exactly. someone can have really fair skin AND spots at the same time, does that make them beautiful? :? healthy, radiant skin is what brings out the beauty in a person. (so eat up your tomatoes everyone!) :wink:[/quote]
Tomatoes = healthy skin? First time I've heard that.
And don’t forget your 1.5 liters of water per day.[/quote]
Tomatoes? :?
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Tiara Banks and Noami Cambell and Halle berry are dark and beautiful
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[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]Tiara Banks and Noami Cambell and Halle berry are dark and beautiful[/quote]
I agree with two of three, I mean, astagfirullah, ive never seen these people you talk about.
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[quote="razor"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]Tiara Banks and Noami Cambell and Halle berry are dark and beautiful[/quote]
I agree with two of three, I mean, astagfirullah, ive never seen these people you talk about.[/quote]
craig david is dark too
and no I've never seem him either :oops:
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people you are naming black people who are fair skinned black people which is just proving that point about fair skin being better looking
lol lol lol lol
halle barry and craig david are really fair black skinned
howcome people arent naming any dark asain people ?
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noami cambell is very dark-she's still beautiful
also on TV there's LOADS of ugly white ppl-I'm not gonna start listing them tho :roll:
point being is-u get ugly/pretty ppl in all colours
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[quote="was786"]im gonna be controversial 8)
Lets face it the truth is being fairer or being whiter skinned is seen as good-looking and being dark skinned is seen as ugliness. The majority of asains want fairer skins and want fair wifes and fair kids, the same is true with black people the light skined black people are seen to be better looking in the black community.
Lets face it although we know its wrong we all know being dark is percieved as ugly and being fair skinned is good-looking, this is a social contstruct. This is fact of life e.g. same as having a bent nose is ugly.
However we should ask ourselves why is this ?
where does it stem from ?
who started it?
why are we naturally brainwashed to believing it?
answers
Darwin-evolution
Eugenics
Nazism
and the [b]BRITISH [/b]
Ill use pakistanis as an example , pakistanis are the most brainwashed , they most definitly believe being fair skinned is better looking and dark as being ugly,(which is funny as the majority of pakis are dark in pakistan) but this could be as a result of british rule , the british empire embedded into us being white is good being black is ugly and we believe it :? .[/quote]
true say
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Since we are talkin bout celebs and sum1 pointed out that everyone is listing light-coloured people, i got two people for you, Romeo Dunn and Harvey from so-solid crew, i just heard that they are nice looking :oops:
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I think wentworth miller is but his nose it a bit dojjy.
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[quote="Angel"]Since we are talkin bout celebs and sum1 pointed out that everyone is listing light-coloured people, i got two people for you, Romeo Dunn and Harvey from so-solid crew, i just heard that they are nice looking :oops:[/quote]
Yeah, I heard about them too.
Lol-a lot of hearsay takes place nowadays.
By the way, your avatar confused me.
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[quote="MuslimSister"].
By the way, your avatar confused me.[/quote]
you confused me lol and beats me, hell if they wana make me site admin then i should have the powers to do somethin! :evil:
Proly the sado mods playin a prank :roll:
This is insane. Although i despise the model industry i will admit there are plenty of beautiful women there, and plenty that are not so beautiful. There are black models aswell. Black women can get away with vibrant colours, asian women white women generally look like they're going to the circus if they do this. On the other hand asian women and white women suit light shades that wouldn't suit a dark skinned woman.
Quit all the nonsense about black women not looking good in make up. There's make up out there for all skin tones it's all about wearing the correct brands. Bobby Brown, and Mac are known to be good for asian and black skin tones.
How did make up come into the equation on this topic anyway?
My father is very dark, my mother is the other extreme. All of my siblings are various shades, i really don't give a stuff they still look beautiful to me. I'm sick to death of this obsession with skin colour :?
If you're not content with your skin colour scrub it with a nail brush see if you can make it whiter, try for at least 3 hours i promise it works wonders :roll:
BTW any of you ever read "The bluest eye" -Toni Morrison? it;s a hearbreaking story of one black girls mental and physical abuse as a result of society teaching her black=ugly. She lives life dreaming of being a white girl, just so she may be deemed beautiful. Reminds me of asian girls putting in blue contacts, blonde hair, bleached skin..any parallels?