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Anonymous (not verified) —

my friend is depressed badly, anyone got any contact numbers for helplines, preferably for muslims, and preferably free? He is in a bad state.

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Anonymous (not verified) — Sun, 26 Feb 2006 - 20:58

jazakallah.

Anonymous (not verified) — Sun, 26 Feb 2006 - 21:19

thats s***, they only have answer machines, he needs someone to talk to now. forget this.

You — Sun, 26 Feb 2006 - 21:23

Please do not use bad language.

they are open til midnight on sundays.

It probably take time to get through.

or try someone else.

Or post the problem here.

Anonymous (not verified) — Sun, 26 Feb 2006 - 22:14

problem is my mates bordering on either losing his mind or going and getting himself in trouble getting violent. he might go onto drugs cos at the moment he cant get his headclear. already smokes.

*DUST* — Sun, 26 Feb 2006 - 23:46

[quote="guest."]problem is my mates bordering on either losing his mind or going and getting himself in trouble getting violent. he might go onto drugs cos at the moment he cant get his headclear. already smokes.[/quote]
wot is the root problem i.e. y do u think he's losing his mind - loadsa ppl smoke (u r referring to fags right) but that doesnt make em go crazy.

get him to go see a doc - if he's genuinely depressed they will give him some tablets to deal with it, and if he wants to stop smoking they can give him a nicotine patch or summat.

Seraphim — Sun, 26 Feb 2006 - 23:53

[quote="guest."]problem is my mates bordering on either losing his mind or going and getting himself in trouble getting violent. he might go onto drugs cos at the moment he cant get his headclear. already smokes.[/quote]

Whose the girl, and what she done?

Shoot him in the arm; the arrival of the new pain will block out/replace the other pain long enough to NOT get high. Which aint gonna help by the way.

Aysha when you say fags, i hope you mean cigarettes and not ... coz that would be funny if you meant the other thing.

Angel — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 00:02

[quote="Seraphim"][quote="guest."]problem is my mates bordering on either losing his mind or going and getting himself in trouble getting violent. he might go onto drugs cos at the moment he cant get his headclear. already smokes.[/quote]

Whose the girl, and what she done?

Shoot him in the arm; the arrival of the new pain will block out/replace the other pain long enough to NOT get high. Which aint gonna help by the way.

Aysha when you say fags, i hope you mean cigarettes and not ... coz that would be funny if you meant the other thing.[/quote]

Do u know this guest seraph?

I think your being mean - he should just contact a helpline.

You — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 03:12

Seraph, house is not always fact. Its fiction.

people are strong.

Your friend will not lose his mind. he may feel like he will, but that is growing up.

Just make sure your friend keeps decent company.

i would say talk to your friend, but your friend may prefer to keep things bottled up. Just let your know you are there as a friend.

*DUST* — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 03:57

[quote="Seraphim"]Whose the girl, and what she done?

Shoot him in the arm; the arrival of the new pain will block out/replace the other pain long enough to NOT get high. Which aint gonna help by the way.

Aysha when you say fags, i hope you mean cigarettes and not ... coz that would be funny if you meant the other thing.[/quote]
seraph stop being a meanie, for all u know the guy could have a serious problem which he needs help with.

and it (was) "Aasiyah" for goodness sake, the foster mother of Musa (a.s), Aysha/'Aaishah (r.a) was the wife of the Prophet (s.a.w)... :?

and u knew exactly wot i meant... :roll:

Seraphim — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 14:57

Okay firstly i dont know the guy... dont know what made you jump to that conclusion.

He's not answered my question, im p.sure 90% of the time its a girl whose messing with the guys head. Which is why i asked, just playing the odds.

Admin, im pretty sure House is right in this case. If the guy needs help he should go see a Doctor or a shrink not consult a forum. The most his friend can do is be there for him, moral support and all that.

Aasiyah; im never gonna spell your name right... the spellings just beyond me(i only spelt it right here coz im looking at your post). And im not mean... im a realist. And yeah i did know what you meant just wanted clarification incase you were being funny.

Angel — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 15:24

lol seraph Aasiyah and Aysha are two diff. names how can u confuse them?

A-A-S-I-Y-A-H, its simple 😛

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 17:36

[quote="Seraphim"]
Whose the girl, and what she done?

[/quote]

he wont say, wont talk about it. he got into a major fight today - bruised, bloody nose. he's angry and is just waiting for somone to give him a reason to vent his anger.

Seraphim — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 18:24

[quote="Angel"]lol seraph Aasiyah and Aysha are two diff. names how can u confuse them?

A-A-S-I-Y-A-H, its simple :P[/quote]

The spellings not logical. Why does it have to have 2 'A's at the beginning???
Dont get me wrong the names pretty and all that but why spell it like that?? Its too hard 😢 im come here to relax and get away from my blues. So you'll just hav to forgive me for mis-spelling it.

Guest: sounds like he's going down a very destructive path. Its times like this that friends intervene and set him straight. So drag him kicking and screaming back onto the right path. Get rid of the drugs and let him go cold turkey... it aint gonna be pretty nor easy... but then nothing worth doing ever is.

*DUST* — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 19:12

[quote="Seraphim"][quote="Angel"]lol seraph Aasiyah and Aysha are two diff. names how can u confuse them?

A-A-S-I-Y-A-H, its simple :P[/quote]

The spellings not logical. Why does it have to have 2 'A's at the beginning???
Dont get me wrong the names pretty and all that but why spell it like that?? Its too hard 😢 im come here to relax and get away from my blues. So you'll just hav to forgive me for mis-spelling it.[/quote]
lol. its spelt like that because thats the correct transliteration from arabic, thats how its pronounced. anyway no biggie.... :?

Anonymous (not verified) — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 - 21:41

he is not on drugs . . . yet.

Angel — Tue, 28 Feb 2006 - 15:03

What age is your mate? I knw you wanted a muslim helpline but childline is a good one to ring if your under 18 >>0800 1111 (this is 24/7 i am sure)

The best thing you can do for your mate is stand by him, listen to him and see what his problem is about and just help him out where you can. Another thing is to get him to talk to someone and they will offer him professional help

Anonymous (not verified) — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:05

[quote="guest."]he is not on drugs . . . yet.[/quote]

Give me his number allow me to knock some sense into him

You — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:10

[quote="Shazan"][quote="guest."]he is not on drugs . . . yet.[/quote]

Give me his number allow me to knock some sense into him[/quote]

what for? for not taking drugs?

:shock:

Anonymous (not verified) — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:17

[quote="Angel"]:roll:

you guys are so bloody silly[/quote]

I wasn’t joking :!:

Angel — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:19

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Angel"]:roll:

you guys are so bloody silly[/quote]

I wasn’t joking :!:[/quote]

not u admin and hayDUH

for all u knw that guy could seriously have a problem - take some lessons in becomin more sensitive!

Anonymous (not verified) — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:20

[quote="Angel"]

for all u knw that guy could seriously have a problem - take some lessons in becomin more sensitive![/quote]

3 words:

Me a Tablighi

Angel — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:21

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Angel"]

for all u knw that guy could seriously have a problem - take some lessons in becomin more sensitive![/quote]

3 words:

Me a Tablighi[/quote]

and that is a good/bad thing? Are Tablighi's harsh/sensitive?

Anonymous (not verified) — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:27

[quote="Angel"]

and that is a good/bad thing? Are Tablighi's harsh/sensitive?[/quote]

Ask all the reform characters, you know the pimp’s, drug pushes/ barons, druggies and so on

Angel — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:35

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Angel"]

and that is a good/bad thing? Are Tablighi's harsh/sensitive?[/quote]

Ask all the reform characters, you know the pimp’s, drug pushes/ barons, druggies and so on[/quote]

Did you reform them all? :shock:

so what does ur "job" involve? Sweet talkin them into the right path - good moto

Sirus — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:37

Mrs Angel

you silly goose

you seriously think if sum1 needs help, there mate comes on the worst forum for help, and doesnt register and instead sticks it in a tech board? :roll:

sum1 jus playin about.....and heres you pouring out lamo advice

Anonymous (not verified) — Wed, 1 Mar 2006 - 00:40

[quote="Angel"][quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Angel"]

and that is a good/bad thing? Are Tablighi's harsh/sensitive?[/quote]

Ask all the reform characters, you know the pimp’s, drug pushes/ barons, druggies and so on[/quote]

Did you reform them all? :shock:

so what does ur "job" involve? Sweet talkin them into the right path - good moto[/quote]

Sweet talk???

Light upon Light! Allah doth guide whom He will to His Light. [24:35]

Allah is the Guide of those who believe to the Straight Way. [22:54

Read on what my Jamaat are doing in South Africa:

People Against Gangsterism and Drugs (PAGAD)