Who would make the best Husband?

Seraphim —

Sup

They say you can marry a man for:

a.) his beauty (aka he's a pretty boy)

b.) his wealth

c.) piety

Its recommended you go for (c) but which one, or which other characteristics would you prefer?

PS Cooking isn't a characteristic its a skill.

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Angel — Sat, 25 Jun 2005 - 11:20

[quote="yashmaki"]Assalamu Alaikum,

Btw this is maryam my id doesnt work so made new one.[/quote]

Thats cuz the forum has lost all its data, you would have to re-register with the nick maryam, if you want..

You — Sat, 25 Jun 2005 - 12:00

[quote="angel"][quote="yashmaki"]Assalamu Alaikum,

Btw this is maryam my id doesnt work so made new one.[/quote]

Thats cuz the forum has lost all its data, you would have to re-register with the nick maryam, if you want..[/quote]

or go to profile and change your name from there.

Angel — Sat, 25 Jun 2005 - 12:03

[quote="Admin"][quote="angel"][quote="yashmaki"]Assalamu Alaikum,

Btw this is maryam my id doesnt work so made new one.[/quote]

Thats cuz the forum has lost all its data, you would have to re-register with the nick maryam, if you want..[/quote]

or go to profile and change your name from there.[/quote]

lol duh!!!

MuslimSisLilSis — Sat, 25 Jun 2005 - 12:28

instead of discussing who would make the best husband/wife we really should ask ourselves if WE would make the best husband/wives

we would only deserve and get the "best" if we are perfect as well

Mez — Tue, 3 Jan 2006 - 22:53

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]instead of discussing who would make the best husband/wife we really should ask ourselves if WE would make the best husband/wives

we would only deserve and get the "best" if we are perfect as well[/quote]

You said it girl! 😃

MuslimSisLilSis — Tue, 3 Jan 2006 - 23:14

[quote="Mez"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]instead of discussing who would make the best husband/wife we really should ask ourselves if WE would make the best husband/wives

we would only deserve and get the "best" if we are perfect as well[/quote]

You said it girl! :D[/quote]

yep I did 8)

BTW considerate men make the best husbands-the type that make life easier for their wife and dont consider everything "the womens job" :roll:

muslim_kuri — Tue, 3 Jan 2006 - 23:24

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]
BTW considerate men make the best husbands-the type that make life easier for their wife and dont consider everything "the womens job" :roll:[/quote]

totally agree - those who like 2 divide responsibilities and are generally caring and show an interest in the wifes well-being in all situations whether the situation directly affects him or not

Dave — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 00:25

I'm going to be the perfect husband.

I'm a generally pious fellow, pretty darn handsome if I do say so myself (and I did), doing well financially - I [i]can[/i] cook.

Oh, and i'm modest.

Yessir - that Annette is one lucky girl.

muslim_kuri — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 01:42

[quote="Don Karnage"]
Yessir - that Annette is one lucky girl.[/quote]

she better be lol nah im sure ul be the 'perfect' husband - it'l be a first but u can defo give it a go :!:

Mez — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 10:03

[quote="Don Karnage"]I'm going to be the perfect husband.[/quote]

How do you know that!

You might change in a few years time who knows!

yuit — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 10:10

A husband can only be as good as the wife he has IMO. But saying that i seen alot of marriages where you have each parnter at different extremes. Like the wife will be soft and the husband hard and vice versa. One will be demanding and the other considerate. It very rare to find a match, unless what i describe above is how it meant to be.

MuslimSisLilSis — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 10:12

I know a few men who get treated like crap from their wives

tis weird-

but I dont think that a husbands goodness is dependent on his wifes goodness

he should be a good husband REGARDLESS of what his wife is like

of course the wife should do her job do-but if she doesnt he shouldnt become evil

both will only be asked on the DJ of what they did

yuit — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 10:21

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]I know a few men who get treated like crap from their wives

tis weird-

but I dont think that a husbands goodness is dependent on his wifes goodness

he should be a good husband REGARDLESS of what his wife is like

of course the wife should do her job do-but if she doesnt he shouldnt become evil

both will only be asked on the DJ of what they did[/quote]

Tru, but what i seen in marriage there very few marriage where there a complete balance. It always one person who has to give and take, be it the husband or wife. If the wife has a short temper the husband is normally has patience. But it more common now, where you get no comprimise in marriage, so both may have short temper and that why marriage doesn't seem to be doing very well.

MuslimSisLilSis — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 10:54

personally I hate "opposites" marraiges

where one is short tempered and other is not

one is religious an other is not

I only know a handful of compatible couples

Mez — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 12:47

Yes but they should trust each other and listen to each other
to make the marrage work in the first place!
And one most improtant thing is that they should not keep any secrets from eachother and also involve each other in financal problems and discussion.

Mez — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 13:00

[quote="Hayder on Holiday"]wow....she actually can say sumfin :P[/quote]

I know this by certain couples! 😃

Thanks for the compliment!

yuit — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 15:28

[quote="muslim_kuri"][quote="MuslimSister"]Sufi's make the best husbands.[/quote]

cant argue with that :!:[/quote]

lol, I could but i won't. But marriage is about compatibility, so the partner should compliment the other person character, doesn't mean they have to be exactly the same, be at least be of the same understanding in many respect. Of course Taqwa is the single most important aspect in someone and it sad that it seem very rare in people today.

muslim_kuri — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 15:32

yeh its really sad - very hard finding pious god-fearing ppl but then again like some1 already mentioned we aint perfect ourselves...everyone should look at improving their own taqwa before insisting ta marry some1 with an exceptional level of it!

I agree with yuit I think the most one can find nowadays is some1 who has the same understanding as themselves on most aspects - more than that is probably expecting 2 much :roll:

Medarris — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 19:52

Who would make the best Husband?

Not meaning to brag . . . but the answer is clearly . . . .

[size=18]ME!![/size]

[size=9]joke, yeh? lighten up med haters.[/size]

Mez — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 20:00

[quote="Med"]Who would make the best Husband?

Not meaning to brag . . . but the answer is clearly . . . .

[size=18]ME!![/size]

[size=9]joke, yeh? lighten up med haters.[/size][/quote]

Do not flatter yourself! 😃

Sirus — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 23:05

[quote="Med"]Who would make the best Husband?

Not meaning to brag . . . but the answer is clearly . . . .

[size=18]ME!![/size]

[size=9]joke, yeh? lighten up med haters.[/size][/quote]

hey, no need for the n.b at the bottom

i whole heartedly i agree with you 😉
Cmon folks....giv us a M.....giv us an E......Give us a D!

what do you get.................

SuperMed!!

Seraphim — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 23:07

[quote="Hayder on Holiday"][quote="Med"]Who would make the best Husband?

Not meaning to brag . . . but the answer is clearly . . . .

[size=18]ME!![/size]

[size=9]joke, yeh? lighten up med haters.[/size][/quote]

hey, no need for the n.b at the bottom

i whole heartedly i agree with you 😉
Cmon folks....giv us a M.....giv us an E......Give us a D!

what do you get.................

SuperMed!![/quote]

Arent you supposed to be on holiday?

Sirus — Wed, 4 Jan 2006 - 23:13

yes....i left my passport 🙂

why you wanna git rid of me 😢

anyways, got the passport....keys...luggage...kids...phone....

doh, almost forgot...got the wife as well 😂

shall be leaving you all again after 2nyt [size=7]properly this tym[/size] had my extended break...done what i came to do