Two Faced

MuslimSister

Salaam

According to a quick dictionary and thesaurus check, a two faced person is someone who is “hypocritical, insincere, deceitful, cheat, traitor” etc etc…pretty harsh definitions.

In what situations do you put up a front? When do you act differently to who/what you really are?

This forum is a classic example of people acting differently to what they’re like in real life.

In real life I can at times be just as immature as my younger sister…even though I keep up a “serious” image here….I’m also less tolerant - I become moody and irritable when my extending family gangs up on me and/or teases me……In real life I would never participate in a discussion, I’m more of a listener and I’m a lot less confident in my views.

Does anyone else have a different side to them in real life?

Another example that I can think off is when one is in the presence of both parents and in someone else’s house…

Job interviews and also rishta meetings are also classic examples of people only showing and bigging up their good side.

It’s kinda scary at times how we can never be sure what a person is really like….even Islamically, it is said that you can only truly know someone if you’ve lived with them for three days and three nights.

So, how can we really know who/what someone is like? Isn’t it correct to say that this forum gives people confidence?

Why is it is that some of us can say things behind a screen that we could never dream of saying face to face?

And is this necessarily a bad thing?

Do you consider your self two faced in certain situations?

This thread isn’t as coherent as it should be…but if you understand what I’m trying to say then share your thoughts please…

Wasalaam

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Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:41

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="Augustus"]I could pretend to be exHT for a bit if you want.[/quote]

Oh Please if you want to bash HT then join MPAC full time, rest assured to have your credit card when you CLICK "Join them".[/quote]

lol Shazan...

You just keep falling behind because of all this background information - exHT aka "Tex" is a [i]person[/i] or a group of people... we're not quite sure.

He used to come on and flip out about the "Lions of Fallujah" then tell everybody they are going to hell.

A delightful guy.

HT doesn't exist on this side of the Atlantic, nor will they ever, ergo I couldn't care less about them.

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:43

lol naturally... but it's a bit rude to not explain when he's confused doncha think?

MuslimSisLilSis — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:44

[quote="Augustus"]lol naturally... but it's a bit rude to not explain when he's confused doncha think?[/quote]

i disagree.

maybe if he was a "friend" I'd fill him in reg :twisted:

but at the mo Shazam is just a ignorant newbie and will remain like that for a LONG time

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:45

lol I'M still an ignorant newbie to you.

Hang on... have you been around longer than me?

Anonymous (not verified) — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:48

[quote="Augustus"]

lol Shazan...

HT doesn't exist on this side of the Atlantic, nor will they ever, ergo I couldn't care less about them.[/quote]

Lucky America, you have the most obnoxious, fake and divisive individuals from the progressive movement to contend with, shouldn’t burden you with HT.

MuslimSisLilSis — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:50

[quote="Augustus"]lol I'M still an ignorant newbie to you.

Hang on... have you been around longer than me?[/quote]

i think u joined before me

but i used to read posts on the forum for a year before i joined

i remember u being a angry american-only chatting about foreign affairs

Anonymous (not verified) — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:50

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"] but at the mo Shazam is just a ignorant newbie and will remain like that for a LONG time[/quote]

For the fourth time Shazan not Shazan-

Shazam is a comic book character

Ignorant to the revival way of life…Yes indeed

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:52

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Augustus"]lol I'M still an ignorant newbie to you.

Hang on... have you been around longer than me?[/quote]

i think u joined before me

but i used to read posts on the forum for a year before i joined

i remember u being a angry american-only chatting about foreign affairs[/quote]

lol I thought so - this of course means you have to respect you revival elders and do whatever we say :twisted:

MuslimSisLilSis — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:52

[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"] but at the mo Shazam is just a ignorant newbie and will remain like that for a LONG time[/quote]

For the fourth time Shazan not Shazan-

Shazam is a comic book character

Ignorant to the revival way of life…Yes indeed[/quote]

bloody hell

and to think-

I ACTUALLY made an effort above and STILL got his name wrong

and FYI I don't read comics-never have done :roll:

Anonymous (not verified) — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:59

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"] bloody hell

and to think-

[/quote]

Try a little harder to remember

MuslimSisLilSis — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 23:02

[quote="(*_Shazan"]
Try a little harder to remember[/quote]

tis not my memory that 's a prob

its the fact that I'm a lazy poster who cares little about spelling or grammar

to make life easier for both of us

I'll just not refer to u by your auspicious name.

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 23:05

I don't understand your use of the word "auspicious" there...

MuslimSisLilSis — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 23:08

[quote="Augustus"]I don't understand your use of the word "auspicious" there...[/quote]

he's touchy about his name being spelt prob

it most prob is blessed

maybe its bad luck to spell it incorrectly

Anonymous (not verified) — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 23:23

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]tis not my memory that 's a prob

its the fact that I'm a lazy poster who cares little about spelling or grammar

I'll just not refer to u by your auspicious name.[/quote]

Please abstain from your predatory woman instincts, now that know what makes me "touchy"

*DUST* — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 23:29

[quote="Augustus"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]i think u joined before me

but i used to read posts on the forum for a year before i joined

i remember u being a angry american-only chatting about foreign affairs[/quote]

lol I thought so - this of course means you have to respect you revival elders and do whatever we say :twisted:[/quote]
ooo... that means even i'm a revival elder to lilsis...! :twisted:

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 23:56

lol I dunno... not if you consider my (substantial) time as American Guest.

If she remembers that she might be older