Looks or Brains!

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wen ppl r gttin arranged marriages do dey luk for lukz or brain n muni?? wt wud u choose?

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yuit — Sat, 10 Dec 2005 - 23:43

The girls who insist on wearing face paint scare me. I could never imagine how someone could marry someone like that. It be like living with two different people the way their looks are tranformed.

Look do matter, but it shouldn't be a decision that decide who you marry as once the looks disappear, which they will do eventually, what are u left with. You really want to be with someone where the realtionship grows and develops due to a common interest and understanding, rather then in the case of looks which slowly disappear as will the foundation of the marriage.

muslim_kuri — Sun, 11 Dec 2005 - 18:50

[quote="yuit"]The girls who insist on wearing face paint scare me. I could never imagine how someone could marry someone like that. It be like living with two different people the way their looks are tranformed.
[/quote]

scary stuff huh :!:

Dave — Sun, 11 Dec 2005 - 19:49

[quote="MuslimSister"][quote="Don Karnage"]lol not every girl can glamour herself up to look pretty - some girls just are to begin with, while others are not.

Can't really say either is more important...[/quote]

Lol-Dave you really need to watch some makeover programmes.

Sometimes the transformation is unbelievable.

It really is amazing what a good hair cut/colour and clothes can do for an individual.

And weight loss if needed helps a LOT too.[/quote]

Okay now I don't trust any of yall...

They're like a whole other species...

Ramz — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 20:57

Last post before my booking on the computer runs out.

Looks are very very important. I could never be attractive to an ugly man. My trecherous ex looked like Colin Farrel. 😉

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 22:19

[quote="Ramz"] My trecherous ex looked like Colin Farrel. :wink:[/quote]

LOL

looks like ur man had the personality of bad boy Colin Farrel too 😉

Dave — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 22:26

lol girls that say looks don't matter are such ridiculous liars.

And guys that say looks don't matter are just really desperate.

They matter - seems like looks and confidence are the number one things girls seem to like.

That obviously doesn't go for all - prolly not many if not most of the ladies on the forum... but it's definitely true elsewhere.

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 22:27

[quote="Don Karnage"]lol girls that say looks don't matter are such ridiculous liars.

And guys that say looks don't matter are just really desperate.

.[/quote]

NO ONE would claim that looks dont matter

NO ONE would marry someone they consider ugly

but looks aint the be all and end all

superficial people may disagree

Dave — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 22:30

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Don Karnage"]lol girls that say looks don't matter are such ridiculous liars.

And guys that say looks don't matter are just really desperate.

.[/quote]

NO ONE would claim that looks dont matter

NO ONE would marry someone they consider ugly

but looks aint the be all and end all

superficial people may disagree[/quote]

lol you're talking about getting married. In all honesty can you say the majority of girls - especially nonmuslims in the west are talking about marraige when they are talking about what attracts them to a guy?

Superficialities are perfectly acceptable for superficial relationships

star — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 22:47

[quote="Don Karnage"]lol girls that say looks don't matter are such ridiculous liars.
[/quote]

hey...i say looks dont matter,

no matter how ugly the guy the character is what i look for

Dave — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 22:57

[quote="uLLu"][quote="Don Karnage"]lol girls that say looks don't matter are such ridiculous liars.
[/quote]

hey...i say looks dont matter,

no matter how ugly the guy the character is what i look for[/quote]

What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

Come on MOST girls you have to admit are lying when they say looks don't matter.

I can't think of a single pretty girl I know that has gone out with anything less than an attractive male.

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:01

MR ADMIN ARE U DELETING MY POSTS?

A WHOLE BUNCH OF MY POSTS JUST DISAPEARED FROM THIS THREAD :!:

star — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:06

well i guess i should consider myself UNIQUE then...i stick to looks dont matter, cant stand PPL who boast about their own looks..prob gna end up with such a man

[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:06

[quote="uLLu"]
[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...[/quote]

:shock:

star — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:08

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="uLLu"]
[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...[/quote]

:shock:[/quote]

hey u took me wrong...

Dave — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:09

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="uLLu"]
[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...[/quote]

:shock:[/quote]

?????

Poor guy... no wonder he was having all that girl trouble.

And Admin,

Cute.

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:09

Naj ur posts have disapeared in this page too

and Hayder so have urs

hasnt anyone else noticed

star — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:10

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]Naj ur posts have disapeared in this page too

and Hayder so have urs

hasnt anyone else noticed[/quote]

No i dont see no problem

star — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:12

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="uLLu"]
[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...[/quote]

:shock:[/quote]

?????

Poor guy... no wonder he was having all that girl trouble.

And Admin,

Cute.[/quote]

hey u guyz are takin it wrong LOL...he mentioned somethin like that..not about himself lol

Sirus — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:13

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]Naj ur posts have disapeared in this page too

and Hayder so have urs

hasnt anyone else noticed[/quote]

eh?

where?! :?

what did i say!!

i want an explanation!!

and....how duz that remind you of med? 😉

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:15

when u and me were talking about Naomi Campell and tall girl Tiara banks-just now

where have them posts gone

Sirus — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:23

sherlock, your right!! :shock:

admin........ :evil:

star — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:27

what u lot on about....it is in the miss world thread

MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:30

[quote="uLLu"]what u lot on about....it is in the miss world thread[/quote]

By George uLLu is right :shock:

its late and way past my bedtime-I'm losing it :oops:

Sirus — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:31

lol, i blame you

sorry admin, even tho you didnt offer an explanation......

You — Mon, 12 Dec 2005 - 23:35

what explanation could I offer?

If I called you lot insane, you would be on my case... :twisted:

Medarris — Tue, 13 Dec 2005 - 00:04

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="uLLu"]
[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...[/quote]

:shock:[/quote]

?????

Poor guy... no wonder he was having all that girl trouble.

[/quote]

LOOOOOOOOOL!

Nice to knw what some people think of me!

So what if Im vertically challenged, and can balance on one leg, and do purdah of one eye and have hands that make me the best swimmer in the world?

My mom says im SPECIAL, so dont care what u mean kids say.

hahahahaha

Dave — Tue, 13 Dec 2005 - 00:08

[quote="mein haddi"][quote="Don Karnage"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="uLLu"]
[quote="Don Karnage"]
What about a midget with one leg an eye patch and webbed hands?

[/quote]

lol that sentence reminds me of med...[/quote]

:shock:[/quote]

?????

Poor guy... no wonder he was having all that girl trouble.

[/quote]

LOOOOOOOOOL!

Nice to knw what some people think of me!

So what if Im vertically challenged, and can balance on one leg, and do purdah of one eye and have hands that make me the best swimmer in the world?

My mom says im SPECIAL, so dont care what u mean kids say.

hahahahaha[/quote]

lol on a somewhat relevant note - have you all noticed that "special" now has a negative connotation to it since we abandoned "handicapped" a while back?

It's like it's a sarcastic joke

yashmaki — Tue, 13 Dec 2005 - 16:21

Even our prophet ﷺ tells us to look for beauty in that hadith about the qualities to look for in a partner, besides piety beauty is mentioned. I agree with Dave entirely we aren't being honest if we say looks don't matter at all, to some extent they do. It may not be the deciding factor but it comes into the equation.

Mmm any gal can look good tarted up, as muslimsislilsis says but that's not the real them. Feel sorry for the guy when she washes it off and he see's her real face. Maybe you guys should request to see your partners face minus the make up when searching for a marriage partner, so you know what you're getting. Seriously my brothers asked to see girls without make up on. My husband said if i had been wearing make up he would have asked my parents to tell me to remove it so he could see what i looked like naturally. I didn't have any on though. Lucky for him coz i would have thght he was damn rude lool