Networking in the Revival

Ramz —

As most of you know I've been undergoing a lot of stress and problems with my ex boyfriend and family situation. My boyfriend is out of the picture, I'm in pain but will get over it but my parents are driving me crazy! They want me to get married now as I'm getting near the "sell by date" (I'm 24 :roll: ). I can never marry any of the desi's that they wish to set me up with. I want to do it properly this time, but MY way. I've been reading the messages on this forum for years. But I never posted as a member (I used to post as a guest). I find you all funny, clever, religious people. Would it be possible to network via the forum? There's one guy in particular that I wouldnt mind getting to know with the intention of marraige but I'm not sure how to go about this. Can I do this through the Admin of this forum? I also have a friend who's intrested in one of the girls in this forum. But like me, he is also not sure how to go about this in a decent way.

I can come online as often as I want because most of the computers in my Uni are rubbish. But plz reply, I need a response from the Admin's of this forum ASAP.

Any comments will be appreciated.

(p.s Judda and Mujahid don't waste my time).

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Angel — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 12:03

[quote="yuit"]

Yeah I blame you 😂 , before you came, us lads did a pretty good job in making the girls of this forum anti men i.e lilsis, angel, Ging ging. But since you came, things have taken a turn for the worse :?[/quote]

ooooo what u taken a fancy to hayduh? Who said we're still not anti-men?

I just want sum1 to get married so we can have a revival wedding 😃

yuit — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 12:06

[quote="angel"]
ooooo what u taken a fancy to hayduh? [/quote]

No :roll:

[quote="angel"]
Who said we're still not anti-men?
[/quote]

I sure you are :roll:
[quote="angel"]

I just want sum1 to get married so we can have a revival wedding :D[/quote]

Typical :roll:

Sirus — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 12:24

[quote="yuit"][quote="Ahlul Sheesha"]not sayin its a good or bad thing.......

......but this isnt the 3rd tym i know of a love story over the forums, and i havnt been here very long

i think its coz of all the waffling we do!!!! :lol:[/quote]

Yeah I blame you 😂 , before you came, us lads did a pretty good job in making the girls of this forum anti men i.e lilsis, angel, Ging ging. But since you came, things have taken a turn for the worse :?[/quote]

oiii [img]http://www.planetsmilies.com/smilies/sad/sad0002.gif[/img]

laila — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 12:30

[quote="Constantine"]ahh somebody tell me

I don't want to be the only person left outta this!!![/quote]

is it Med the departed

can i have a chi chi from Aasiya now for getting involved in frivolous but oh so delicious gossip

*DUST* — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 17:36

[quote="seema*"][quote="Constantine"]ahh somebody tell me

I don't want to be the only person left outta this!!![/quote]

is it Med the departed

can i have a chi chi from Aasiya now for getting involved in frivolous but oh so delicious gossip[/quote]
lol. if Med were to read that he'd probably b squirming in his seat and b compelled to answer with much 'chi chi chi'-ing... 😂

Ramz u shudv just PM-ed Ed or Admin, look at all this speculation going on here now. :roll: 😉

Dave — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 17:41

What is "Chi Chi Chi" anyway... I see that one thrown around alot.

Over here it's something Mexicans yell at parties.

And was briefly a chain of mexican restaurants

*DUST* — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 17:54

[quote="Constantine"]What is "Chi Chi Chi" anyway... I see that one thrown around alot.

Over here it's something Mexicans yell at parties.

And was briefly a chain of mexican restaurants[/quote]
lol. i dunno, for some reason its summat ppl from the asian subcontinent say a lot when referring to rude/filthy/wrong things. say wen theyr telling a kid not to eat off the floor, theyd say that food is 'chi chi' i.e. dirty. :| 😂

MuslimSister — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 18:15

Generally speaking guys….in future if/when people fall for others in this forum. Be discreet about it please.

Just PM that individual in private and/or PM the Admin or Editor. There’s no need to broadcast it in the forum….

This forum isn’t a “matrimonial website” and if it begins to come across as such then it puts certain people of posting/visiting here.

Obviously, you can’t help the one you fall for…but you can be discreet about it.

Its wrong to publicly embarrass people…and/or make others speculate/assume stuff about them.

Dave — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 18:24

[quote="MuslimSister"]Generally speaking guys….in future if/when people fall for others in this forum. Be discreet about it please.

Just PM that individual in private and/or PM the Admin or Editor. There’s no need to broadcast it in the forum….

This forum isn’t a “matrimonial website” and if it begins to come across as such then it puts certain people of posting/visiting here.

Obviously, you can’t help the one you fall for…but you can be discreet about it.

Its wrong to publicly embarrass people…and/or make others speculate/assume stuff about them.[/quote]

lol yes, you're right.

Let's just try to not do forum relationships at all. As cute as Muslim Sister's 12 point Times New Roman is, it's a bit... incorrect... for people on this forum to be looking for anything other than a casual chat.

It's crossing a line that ought not be crossed

Seraphim — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 18:43

[quote="MuslimSister"]Generally speaking guys….in future if/when people fall for others in this forum. Be discreet about it please.

Just PM that individual in private and/or PM the Admin or Editor. There’s no need to broadcast it in the forum….

This forum isn’t a “matrimonial website” and if it begins to come across as such then it puts certain people of posting/visiting here.

Obviously, you can’t help the one you fall for…but you can be discreet about it.

Its wrong to publicly embarrass people…and/or make others speculate/assume stuff about them.[/quote]

tru tru...

MOD lock thread pls.....

laila — Wed, 30 Nov 2005 - 18:45

again both of u const and Mussis you said it right i was thinking exactly this but thought you young folks were all ok with it so i didnt want to come across as all doctrinaire.

[b]EDIT: THREAD LOCKED. THE ROMEO'S AND JULIETS MAY USE THE PM FACILITY IN FUTURE-ITS THERE FOR A REASON[/b]