Hajji LilSis?
Daddy has this thing-he wants to take all his girls to Hajj
he said he wants to be the one who took us to Hajj
he said the boys in my family-my brother and his brothers have to go with their own money :twisted:
anyways his taken his sister, he took my older sister the year before last
he wants to take me and his mum (my grandma) next year
I'm not so sure-
my sis was 19 when he took her-I'm gonna be 19 in Feb..so technically I'd be the same age as she was when she went
but aint it tru that in order to do hajj u HAVE to want it a lot?
I'm in two minds-whether I should go or not
i don't want to waste dads money by not appreciating it
what would u lot do?
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Hajji LilSis?
star — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 18:58
LOL that was funny...
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Ramz — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 20:42
Your diary felt as if you were talking to me. I was struck by your second paragraph. You said that you went to Hajj because you had "a mountain full of dua’s, dreams, hopes and ambitions that I want to ask for". I want to go to Hajj for this reason, but I thought it was wrong. My dad takes people to hajj every year so I can easily go with him and over there I can pray for my situation. I hope it won't be wrong to do Hajj for reason. But I'm desperate. And I heard that prayers get answered there.
p.s Your dad cracked me up. You must really love him. 🙂
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Medarris — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 21:41
^^^^^
LOL!
May ALLAH Rabbul Izzat accept the hajj of every Ummati of Nabi Muhammad salallahu alayhi wa sallam.
I absolutely love hearing hajj stories, one of my aunts is a wicked story teller and she had us ALLA captivated when she came back from hajj a few years back. It increases ones desire to go when you hear other peoples accounts innit.
MashaALLAH.
Hajji LilSis?
MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 22:22
daddy and my sister make great travelling partners-they crack one another up
dad is tops
I think I'll go Hajj with him
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Sirus — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 22:23
Mashallah
go for it
write a diary please 🙂
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MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 22:24
nah
I aint a diary writer-diary's are dangerous :shock:
but I'll fill u in if I get to go
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MuslimSisLilSis — Mon, 14 Nov 2005 - 22:27
^^^ cracked me u
sis mentioned that cos she used to do her tawaaf nearer to the kabah it was missions to get out of the crowd thats cos u cant walk against the direcetion of the crowd-its impossible
so just to get out of the circle she would end up doing an extra massive 10 circles
u need a strong man with u at all times to help u with stuff like that-so after her exp she'd only do the tawaaf with daddy
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MuslimSister — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 10:27
I didn’t go to Hajj cos I knew that it was Fardh…I was only 19 and like most people I felt that I had the rest of my life ahead of me…Fardh wasn’t the main factor at all. If that was the case then I would have put off Hajj until middle/old age like most people do.
I wanted to go as you’ve quoted cos I had many dua’s to ask for…I was in my second year of Uni and was beginning to think very seriously about my life…you know, where I was going, what I wish to accomplish out of life etc
There is so much that I want out of life, there’s so much that I want to do….and I thought that before I start anything I should go there and ask Allah (swt) to make it easy for me…to protect me, guide and help me in living the rest of my life just the way I’m supposed to….And we all know dua’s are always accepted in Hajj…
I don’t see anything “wrong” with this…this is just taking advantage of a place, time etc where dua’s are always accepted.
You’re very lucky if your dad is part of a group that takes people to Hajj every year…you can and should very easily go with him…I would go if I was in your situation.
Go there and ask Allah (swt) to sort your situation out….tell Him (swt) that if that guy will be good for you in this world and the hereafter then destine him for you…and make your marriage go ahead with no problems and make everyone’s heart inclined towards this marriage….. and if he isn’t good for you then tell Him (swt) get him out of your life with no stress or heartache.
….make plenty of dua in Masjid ul Nabawi, in Arafaat, in the night of Muzdalifah….ask Allah (swt) to sort out this dilemma when you look at the Ka’ba…take advantage of all the blessed spots.
Going there will totally clear your mind out and will help put things into perspective.
I pray that your situation get sorted out ASAP and that no one is hurt in the process…
p.s Dad is tops. In the last few years he’s really become close to his daughters. I'm so thankful that he took me Hajj...
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Sirus — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 10:29
19, 2nd year, thinkin bout life seriously, need dua's answering
sounds exactly like me :?
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MuslimSister — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 10:35
Then you should go for it to...
When your 19 you're at the start of stuff...career wise, education wise etc ...you're mature and physically very fit.
Its the best time to go hajj in my opinion....I felt for the elderly who were doing Hajj, cos Hajj is physically very strenous. And I felt for the mothers dragging their kids along...
I'm 21 now....things have been great in the last two years after my Hajj. And I know that things can only get better....I'm doing what I've wanted to do and what I asked for.
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MuslimSisLilSis — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 16:01
i'm almost 19...but I still have a very relaxed outlook on life :?
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Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 17:32
Mashallah, you are soooo lucky to have performed Hajj at such a young age. And reading your diary about the Masjid-e-Nabvi and seeing the Holy Kaba, reminds of the times when I have been to ummrah, its been four years since I last went but the memories are so fresh all you have to do is close your eyes and your are back in Madina & Makka. Its the biggest blessing from Allah Almighty to allow us to visit his Beloved Prophet (SAW), we are not worthy of it but its His extreme Mercy. I urge you to go lilsis, believe me 'life starts only when you visit Madina'.
Whenever I go to ummrah, I forget each and everyone and my heart is at peace and I forget about the world, whenever I go it feels as though I have been living in Madina all my life and when I come back its feels as though I haven't even had a chance to breathe in the blessed city of Holy Prophet ﷺ even for a second.
I urge everyone to go there, and pray and ask for whatever you want because in the court of our Beloved Prophet ﷺ the answer is always yes, and he ﷺ gives you sooo much that you can't imagine how much he has blessed you with.
Hajji LilSis?
Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 18:05
I keep thinking you guys are my age and your sister is older than me.
In reality I think i'm the oldest!
So that makes me wiser and a greater authority.
I stand in the company of Plato and Aristotle.
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Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 18:06
what age are you? If you don't mind me asking.
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MuslimSister — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 21:33
I write a lot older then act. I don't know why... :?
In reality I can at times be more immature then my younger sister.
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Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 21:46
21
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Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 21:47
lol every once in a great while you make a comment that throws me and I accidentally confuse you for your sister
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Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 22:56
Oh your still young, I kinda thought from your posts and your wisdom your 40 going onto 50 😃
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Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 22:59
ahhhhhhhh
haaaaaaale no
I don't even want to think that far ahead
lol you musta thought I was a complete creep
Still young! God willing I plan on remaining 21 for the next 30 years or so.
Then perhaps I shall try something new.
how old are you?
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You — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:02
shurrup kid!
:twisted:
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Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:24
lol, I'm 24 going backwards from now on, old age has finally caught up with me 😃
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Sirus — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:27
aap ko aunty bholna ijaazat hai phir?
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Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:32
lol no need to count backwards you're in the middle of some really fun years!
I take it you are outta school, are you doing the job thing or just hanging around and traveling?
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Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:33
Precisely!
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Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:34
out of school aka from uni graduated with BSc (Hons), I have travelled around a few places and at the moment still juggling to go back to uni to complete my masters or go travelling again or have a career change, I need a challenge, HELP!!
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Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:35
lol, hey I'm not thaaaaaat old! 😛 wee boy
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Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:39
lol wow sounds like you still sailing ~ I hope you find a port you are comfortable with!
- Never ask for anything, just trust God will provide.
- Also if you ask he gets mad and unleashes his divine sense of irony which can be a bit painful to mere humans. Kinda like when I asked for some friendly hints on my proposal and got crucified.
...what the hell am i talking about...
Ah!
What would you get a masters in?
Hajji LilSis?
Amber — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:46
lol
I have done honours in genetics and I want to carry that forward, I am a science fanatic 😃
And as I said I need a challenge I might go into teaching rather than research (but research sooooo interesting and challenging and teaching can be boring :? )
Any tips???
There is another option me becoming a financial advisor, make money money and go travelling!!!
What do you say??
Hajji LilSis?
Dave — Tue, 15 Nov 2005 - 23:58
Take the money and run!
lol no honestly?
You're an honors genetics major and you want a challenge?
Go into research! Anybody that can survive honors genetics and wants a challenge obviously doesn't just love science, they have an insatiable urge for it!
And money can't fill that desire!
Besides you will make plenty of money once you make you major breakthroughs and are swimming in publishing royalties.
Hajji LilSis?
Amber — Wed, 16 Nov 2005 - 17:05
Hi
I know what you mean, money can't fill that desire for challenge to tell you the truth money does not motivate me at all (hmm unless I make millions 😃 , just kidding), but I just love science, what isn't there to love about science, and genetics is a whole new world, and I love studying (shhhhh don't tell anyone).
And I would love to do something that would benefit others especially those young children, just seeing a smile on their faces is the best thing ever!
The job I have currently I feel as though I am a robot, same thing each and every day boring 🙁 and I feel as though I don't belong there, the people are nice and everything but the work, man it makes you brain dead, seriously.
Enough me whining, so how was your day at school? How many years have you got to complete law?
P.s my bro he is doing hons in law (he wants to be one of those corrupt lawyers, :? ) and he looks the type aswell :twisted:
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