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so.....that wud be evry1 besides Jud and Angel
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
he aint even at it ...he hasnt even started growing it, i dont hardly use
lipstick mascara myself, i wouldnt dare say it as a joke to him,
i dunno about guyz using curlers but whats wrong with a guy using a
straightner ? i know some guyz who use em even on their beards..
its like the chocolate bar yorkie saying not for girls, i dont see boyz just
eatin it.
girls and instructions. They don't go together!
:twisted:
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Yeh right, luk who is talkin, you get sooo immature when you and dave get talkin!
Kuri, guys straighten their beards? that is like so not normal...and guys shudnt straighen their hair, its a girly thing to do, men shudnt have to worry bout doin that.
your jus jealous :roll:
why would you want to straighten it with them funny machines? dont a comb do the trick??!
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
depends. I have a true beard alhamdulillah and it is quite curly. If I want to make it straight and tidy I have to use a hairdryer cos just combing it does make it orderly but hairdryer makes it look longer and neater, alhamdulillah.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
hairdryer is ok...perfectly normal
hair straightner/curler for guys? :shock:
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
jealous of what exactly?
How long would it take a guy to striaghten his hair and beard? what if he burnt his beard? I mean you can hide ur hair somehow but beard!
i'll try it once my beard gets a lil longer and let you know
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
...dont like guys with long hair
looks funny
ah cmon!!
long hair is kool if you maintain it right
jus look at Nesta, Batistuta, Jesus...
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
having zulfe is a sunnah established. It is a beauty and a coolness for our eyes alhamdulillah.
What I dont like is women with short hair, euch. ALLAH gave them hair for beauty and they go and chop it off and walk around like boys. Nasty or what.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
i've seen models with pretty faces who suit short hair
too bad same cant be said about yeti lookalikes-who use Islam as a excuse to look like unkempt gorrila's
Guys who have long hair should wash them regularly, cut them when they overgrow and trim them and not try goin for layers!
If one keeps their beard and hair neat and tidy then they will be able to attract ppl to islam....
I believe the Holy Prophet
hair were just above his 
shoulders and had a slight wave, thats perfection which cannot be achieved....
it really bugs me when u see people using Islam as an excuse to look like tramps
to some people beard means-NEVER needing to trim/cut shave/comb/neaten/straighten etc
and to some girls Hijaab is an excuse for greasy hair-or going days and days without washing it
I dont think any1 is suggesting muslim men who have zulfe should try and turn em into dreadlocks!
Yes hygiene is a beauty of our deen.
May I be sacrificed on those Black Zulfe.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
lol boy does it bug me too, its like "lets see who wins the competion for the longest beard"!
I saw this white male on the bus and he had a goatee but the bottom part of his goatee was like 5 inches long! ewwwwww it was disgustin now imagine a non-muslim lukin at a muslim cuz the beard is everywhere and not tidy and unhygeinic lookin!? Not a good impression bout islam!
Im not sure where this type of comment is coming from.
Sayyidina Nabi salallahu alayhi wa sallam had a full beard, Sahabah Karaam kept long full beards. The fistful beard is the minimum. It is only established that after the fist length it MAY be trimmed. If men grow the beard beyond the fist that is better and it should only be trimmed to a fist when it becomes exceedingly long or at the time to be released from ihraam.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
You have to keep the beard neat, so if its the sunnah to have it the a fist lenght, where does it state you have to have it longer than that and btw i wsnt really talkin bout the lenght more to with ppl who dont bother keeping their beard neat and making it look messy!
actually the stronger view is that the beard should be left to grow. The only basis for the trimming of the beard to a fist are certain incidents regarding a few Sahabah Karaam who trimmed the beards of men who were excessively long.
I dont think we have an issue here.
Yes it should be maintained.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
there is a difference of opinion on the issue of the size of the beard.
less than fistful is also permissible.
the prophet
had a fistful beard but he NEVER stated that a beard should be that long. if it was compulsory for a beard to be fistful long then there would have been a clear order on this issue.
the shafi, maliki and hanbli dont agree with fistful length.
hazrat ali had a beard that would reach his chest... it wasnt just fistful length...which was the size which the prophet
did not have.
mullah ali qari (rh)- a hanfi scholar was of the opinion that a beard less than a fistful is also permissible- and not haram as some suggest.
yes alot of scholar of the hanafi school have said a beard should be a fist full... but we should appreciate difference of opinion.
a person with a beard which is short should not be looked down upon.
Can u provide reference as to where it states the Holy Prophet
grew his 
beard more than a fist lenght cuz i have only come across Ahadith that state the beard should be a fist length.
I am breaking with my practice here.
Editor please be so kind as to provide a reference regarding Mullah Ali Qari's stance, a detailed explanation is not requried. Kindly provide me with the book name, city of publication and chapter/page number.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
I am sorry. Mutala'a is of no benefit for me in this forum. Mutala'a means doing a detailed search over my lessons and past notes and providing with the evidence that have been taught to myself.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
i will do so, i heard this point in a lecture by a shaykh. i will try to get the details you asked for as soon as i can , inshallah.
Is that another way of sayin you cannot get the reference/do not know the reference?
no. This is my way of saying I dont see the point in me going to all the trouble of doing mutala'a when by and large people do not pay due respect to the issues pressented before them. i am not being specific to you. I am being general.
I do not think forums are the place for rigorous debates and furnishing of proofs or evidences and it will be noted that I only did it once and that was my first and last time that I went into detail.
After that I have taken alhamdulillah what I think is a pretty laid back approach.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
i've read this somewhere...but dont remember where, i think im reading to
much nowadayz that i forget which kitaab i read it in, i think i should start
making notes.
Yes, I find that aswell. Before I would read and remember quite well the details of a book, now my sins have overtaken me and I find extreme difficulty in remembering.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
surely sins cant be a reason for forgetting something..alhamdulilah uve memorised the quran how good is that ,very lucky even if i tried i wouldnt
be able to become a hafiza, its just to hard
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