How do you know if your in love?

Medarris

OK, I know that a lot of people have made topics on love before from different angles but I havent been involved in those topics and perhaps some of them occurred before I graced this forum with my presence, lol!!!

Basically, I want to know how do you know if your in love? What are the signs and symptoms of this disease. And pls I am referring to boy-girl love so keep to this type of love, im NOT chatting about brotherly, filial, paternal love etc.

(Dont go get any ideas, im only asking)

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Dave — Fri, 23 Sep 2005 - 23:46

[quote="angel"]Thats prety funny and sounds very easy not complicated the way ppl make it out to be.

Girl: oh i think we are in love
Boy: umm yeh girls are always right, so we must be :P[/quote]

Yea a lot easier than I woulda thought.

The benefits are fabulous too - great memories so far.

I hope someday when you, angel, inform some napping lunk that he is in love with you he agrees in under 30 minutes.

Just to get the ball rolling quicker.

You understand.

Omrow — Fri, 23 Sep 2005 - 23:49

Salam

[quote="Admin"]love is a four letter word...[/quote]

Thanks Boss.

I like counting. Love by the numbers.

Yes. Love is a four letter word. The result is also a four letter word.

Omrow

Dave — Fri, 23 Sep 2005 - 23:51

[quote="Omrow"]Yes. Love is a four letter word. The result is also a four letter word.[/quote]

Involuntary Servitude is two words...

and they aren't 4 letters

Omrow — Fri, 23 Sep 2005 - 23:54

Salam

[quote="Constantine"]Involuntary Servitude is two words...

and they aren't 4 letters[/quote]

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Thats what most of us live for.

Omrow

star — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 00:24

u know u're in love when
we dont see the things as they are, we see the things as we are

this is what i'd call LOVE;

know that I can say that he is the one because he makes me smile, he makes me laugh, he makes feel better than I have ever felt, and he makes me feel beautiful... I never thought that I would ever find the one for me but I did and it’s great I love him so much no matter what I do.

Or say he’s there and no matter he cares for me there’s times that we argue and all he has to say is "I love you" and the whole arguments over I love him to death I never thought that a guy could treat me this way and make me feel special now I believe in true love and now I know that he is the one I love.

star — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 00:42

[quote="Med"]!!

is that a hypothetical situation or is Muhtarama giving her own experience?[/quote]

experience and me tobah astagfirullah !!!

a summary 4 the word LOVE that is IMO.....

or what alot would call love.

i'd say thats 1 in a million thing....my summary

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 00:46

loooooooooooooool.

u got me worried then!

From Muhtarama's previous posts I had put you down as a shareef lady, then you put that post and I thought you were writing about your own experience. I was getting confused

sorry for misunderstanding.

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:01

Does any1 think it is possible to fall in love or like som1 a lot just by the ideas that they have, the way they express themselves? Is it possible to love someone you havent even met face to face? Is it possible to fall in love with someone because their ideas fit with yours without ever having seen the person?

*DUST* — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:06

[quote="Constantine"]Anybody here married?[/quote]
seema is married, as is yashmaki. i think ed is married too right? seraph's engaged, but his (no doubt philosophical) answer wud probably confuse Med even further! 😉

star — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:07

YESSSSSSS, i think its possible without meeting ...i know sum 1 who fell in love without meeting and nw they a couple

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:08

What is it with you jokers? I ask a perfectly normal series of questions and all of a sudden I must be in love with someone from the forum!!

Pleas cant a brother just ask a qsn without being picked on? Why are all the big kids being nasty to me?

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:09

[quote="kuri/19"]YESSSSSSS, i think its possible without meeting ...i know sum 1 who fell in love without meeting and nw they a couple[/quote]

care to elaborate? how did they fall in love and how did they become a couple when they hadnt even ever met?

are they bf/gf or propa husband and wife?

Sirus — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:19

Ur speakin to the Lurve Doctor here 8)

Love.....aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh lol

Seraph is engaged????

Brother Irfgan is also married with 2 kids btw

hmmmmmmmmmmm

Med 4 Ed 4eva n always 2005 😉

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:21

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]Ur speakin to the Lurve Doctor here

Med 4 Ed 4eva n always 2005 [/quote]

Hayder!!! If I were to ever use smileys it would be now and my face would the shocked one. How can u think I am in love with Ed? Get a life you sicko pervert freak!

I think you NEED a doctor.

star — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:22

well theres this asian chat thing on this NET...they met on there

she was meant to be chatting for a laugh...passing time

the guy and her happend to CLICK..

then they started chtin on MSN

then switched NUMBERS

then eventually met

they dated

then married after sum how making they parents agree

thats it in short

Sirus — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:24

[quote="Med"][quote="Darth V-Hayder"]Ur speakin to the Lurve Doctor here

Med 4 Ed 4eva n always 2005 [/quote]

Hayder!!! If I were to ever use smileys it would be now and my face would the shocked one. How can u think I am in love with Ed? Get a life you sicko pervert freak!

I think you NEED a doctor.[/quote]

😂

ok can i ask why your asking? its not jus a sudden interest is it......

*DUST* — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:28

[quote="Med"]What is it with you jokers? I ask a perfectly normal series of questions and all of a sudden I must be in love with someone from the forum!![/quote]
huh? no1 suggested that! ur becoming overly uptight... and that makes it seem like u really r the one in luuuurve 😛 😂

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:29

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]

ok can i ask why your asking? its not jus a sudden interest is it......[/quote]

can I ask why it isnt just a sudden interest?

Even IF i was, which [size=24]i am not,[/size] [size=12]then I strongly doubt I would tell any1 or have the courage to make any moves to contact the person cos its just not me. Take the example given by Muhtarama I could never do anything of those things, I dont even put my female cousins on messenger, so adding som1 else is beyond me. As for dating I pray ALLAH takes me from this world before I see a day where I go and meet a lady secretly. What am I on about. Im not in ''love'', im only asking out of curiosity.[/size]

Dave — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:29

Irf is married?!

and has kids?!

...wow

Didn't see that coming.

This is terrifying everybody around me is getting married.

*DUST* — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:31

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]
Seraph is engaged????

Brother Irfgan is also married with 2 kids btw[/quote]
yes seraph is engaged apparently (he posted a pic of his fiance's eyes on the picture thread and thereafter expected ppl to ask NO questions...) lol!

whoa, irfgan is married with 2 kids? ur kidding right? 😛

Sirus — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:31

[quote="Med"][quote="Darth V-Hayder"]

ok can i ask why your asking? its not jus a sudden interest is it......[/quote]

can I ask why it isnt just a sudden interest?

Even IF i was, which [size=24]i am not,[/size] [size=12]then I strongly doubt I would tell any1 or have the courage to make any moves to contact the person cos its just not me. Take the example given by Muhtarama I could never do anything of those things, I dont even put my female cousins on messenger, so adding som1 else is beyond me. As for dating I pray ALLAH takes me from this world before I see a day where I go and meet a lady secretly. What am I on about. Im not in ''love'', im only asking out of curiosity.[/size][/quote]

we believe ya man, chill

ur behaviour is suspicious tho!! step back and listen 2 yaself lol

Wooh-saaah

Medarris — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:32

yes dave. when are we gonna get some cake?

I dont know u well enough, but i'm sneaking under cover of revival team and including myself as one of the cake-consumers.

Sirus — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:33

[quote="Aasiyah"]

whoa, irfgan is married with 2 kids? ur kidding right? :P[/quote]

no joke

a 3 year old boy and 15 month girl, if i remember correctly

Dave — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:36

[quote="Med"]yes dave. when are we gonna get some cake?

I dont know u well enough, but i'm sneaking under cover of revival team and including myself as one of the cake-consumers.[/quote]

haha yea I dunno...

21 is far too early, and there are other matters to sort out first.

Dave — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:37

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"][quote="Aasiyah"]

whoa, irfgan is married with 2 kids? ur kidding right? :P[/quote]

no joke

a 3 year old boy and 15 month girl, if i remember correctly[/quote]

How old is he?

Dave — Sat, 24 Sep 2005 - 01:42

Apparently...

I wasn't even thinking about getting married until 26ish.

Well that's not entirely true... there were a couple moments this summer I was terrified that would be sooner