Gutter Mouth
Salaam
Wouldn’t it be correct to say that the way we talk says a LOT about us?
A lot has to be said about a person who can not speak without F’ing and blinding in every sentence.
Many people can not speak without slipping a couple of F words in their speech…regardless of who they’re speaking too.
If they were called to a job interview…or had to speak to their employer or were stopped by the police-or whatever…would it really look good if they slipped a couple of F words in their sentence every now and again?
Some think that its OK to speak in front of their mates in relaxed and indecent way…but strongly believe that if they have to speak to important people they’ll “talk proper”…
But when one becomes SO relaxed and used to speak in a crude manner then automatically swear words escape from their mouth even when they don’t intend to…
I know ones school and area strongly plays a part….I went to a school where being foul mouthed was very common…..and whilst I didn’t become foul mouthed myself (cos I was “too girly” to swear) I did become immune to crude speech…it didn’t bother me one bit…..
The “snob school” that I attended after high school taught me the importance of avoiding swear words in ones speech…regardless of who you’re speaking to.
So, what can be said about someone who can not speak without adding the F word after every three word?
Are parents responsible for the usage swear words…after all if they made a massive fuss whenever their child said a swear word then the child would KNOW that what he/she is saying is wrong?
OR is it correct to say that sometimes one NEEDS to use swear words in order to express their feelings clearly?....but then again shouldn’t such a person purchase a good quality thesaurus?
Our society dictates that it is “unladylike” for a woman to swear…so does that mean that men who swear are more “manly”?
And when exactly is swearing if ever-justified? I’ve always thrown the word “crap” around…that’s cos for a long time I wasn’t even aware that it was a swear word…. :oops:
And don’t some youth, from certain areas where unemployment is high swear SO much?
Is this something that one can easily grow out of?
Or is this like many things “minor” and a big deal shouldn’t be made about it?
And would any one agree that Urdu/Punjabi swear words sound “ruder” then English swear words? And that many elderly folks from the older generation need to calm it down as well….
Share your thoughts…
Wasalaam
Gutter Mouth
Gutter Mouth
Salaam
Imam Hanifah was called the son of a fornicator and despite possessing extreme love and respect for his mother, he did not retaliate.
There are numerous examples from the life of the Holy Prophet ﷺ when he was verbally abused, yet never retaliated.
Once a group of people accused his beloved wife of committing adultery….in another instance a group of Jews used to distort the greeting of Salaam so instead of “peace be upon you” it meant "death be upon you"…..
A Muslim, as described by the Holy Prophet (saw), is not foul-mouthed. Even when insults are hurled against him, he is supposed to resort to the best course of action.
And no, such practise is not limited to the “sufi’s” only, ALL Muslims are required to emulate the sunnah of the Holy Prophet (saw).
Wasalaam
Gutter Mouth
Exactly sister, and Juddah please pay attention and take note of the pearls of wisdom will you!
Gutter Mouth
[quote="MuslimSister"]Salaam
Imam Hanifah was called the son of a fornicator and despite possessing extreme love and respect for his mother, he did not retaliate.
There are numerous examples from the life of the Holy Prophet ﷺ when he was verbally abused, yet never retaliated.
Once a group of people accused his beloved wife of committing adultery….in another instance a group of Jews used to distort the greeting of Salaam so instead of “peace be upon you” it meant "death be upon you"…..
A Muslim, as described by the Holy Prophet (saw), is not foul-mouthed. Even when insults are hurled against him, he is supposed to resort to the best course of action.
And no, such practise is not limited to the “sufi’s” only, ALL Muslims are required to emulate the sunnah of the Holy Prophet (saw).
Wasalaam[/quote]
Preach on!
just one thing I thnk you meant Imam ABU Haneefah?
Gutter Mouth
[quote="Med"]
Preach on!
just one thing I thnk you meant Imam ABU Haneefah?[/quote]
Yes, sorry my mistake. I was talking about Imam Abu Hanifah.
My Islamic teacher has pointed this out to me many times too.
Gutter Mouth
[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]not what i meant
i mean when you swear at others parents, it goes back to your own[/quote]
hows that?
all i know is that most of the times when someone swears at someones mum-that person retaliates and swears back at that persons mum
Gutter Mouth
Salam
All I know is cussing is alright, as long as the idiot deserves it.
All Prophets practised it, especially Jesus.
Omrow
Gutter Mouth
if the omro dont see nothing wrong with cussing then every one should feel free to cuss him
he wont mind at all
Gutter Mouth
Salam
People do cuss me. It is Sunnah to be cussed.
Didn't you know that all Prophets were cussed ?
I feel honored that I am treated like the Prophet.
Omrow
Gutter Mouth
i feel the same too :o
Gutter Mouth
Idiot.
Gutter Mouth
[quote="Omrow"]Salam
People do cuss me. It is Sunnah to be cussed.
Didn't you know that all Prophets were cussed ?
I feel honored that I am treated like the Prophet.
Omrow[/quote]
I'm sure there was a time when I thought Omro was funny....
Gutter Mouth
me too :?
Gutter Mouth
[quote="Omrow"]Salam
People do cuss me. It is Sunnah to be cussed.
[/quote]
In Islam if we follow the example/practice of the Holy Prophet ﷺ that is known as following the "Sunnah".
The Holy Prophet ﷺ was insulted and physically abused...attempts were made to kill Him...a lady even tried to poisen Him (saw).
Is it "sunnah" to be poisened?
Gutter Mouth
Salam
Yes. It is Sunnah to be cussed, attacked, poisoned, expelled, accused, persecuted, rediculed, slandered, and so on.
All Prophets of God went through different types of harassment.
There was not one Prophet of God who had it easy.
Omrow
Gutter Mouth
[quote="Omrow"]Salam
Yes. It is Sunnah to be cussed, attacked, poisoned, expelled, accused, persecuted, rediculed, slandered, and so on.
All Prophets of God went through different types of harassment.
There was not one Prophet of God who had it easy.
Omrow[/quote]
Maaan, not only are you no longer funny, you're boring too.
Not everything the Prophet ﷺ did or said were Sunnah - sometimes they were just his preference or his specific history and not meant for us to follow literally ALL THE TIME. Get some perspective Om. If you think you're so right, provide us with some authentic, credible hadith, ayah etc. on the topic.
Gutter Mouth
Salam
Goddess. Are you asking me to provide you with some poison !!
Please girl. Dont even think about it. !!
You are not ugly.
You have everything to live for.
Omrow
Gutter Mouth
*Trying to decipher the point of Om's post. Not funny; not clever; not imformative; not even gawp-worthy. No, no point whatsover*
not what i meant
i mean when you swear at others parents, it goes back to your own