Stay away from my sisters

s.b.f —


TPOS — Wed, 4 Sep 2013 - 17:44

It's not clear but if you really can't read it you may need to make an appointment to get your eyes checked, cuz i could read it. Try taking your 3D glasses off first, they're not gna help you with this lol


Hummus — Thu, 5 Sep 2013 - 16:45

I don't know if i'm overthinking or not, but this post is about guys who act pious but don't treat their wives and families well. Then it talks about staying away from other sisters and daughters.


What's that supposed to mean? If they're family, they can't really stay away from each other since they may be living under the same roof? And if it's referring to other girls, well why would they be in contact anyway? It's the girl who needs to be cautious too. The exterior does usually let the interior shine through eventually.


I was supposed to read a book written by the lady who posted that but i've forgotten what the name of the book actually is. I need somebody to remind me. It's supposed to be pretty good from what i've heard.


 


s.b.f — Thu, 5 Sep 2013 - 21:32

[quote=Hummus]I don't know if i'm overthinking or not, but this post is about guys who act pious but don't treat their wives and families well. Then it talks about staying away from other sisters and daughters.


What's that supposed to mean? If they're family, they can't really stay away from each other since they may be living under the same roof? And if it's referring to other girls, well why would they be in contact anyway? It's the girl who needs to be cautious too. The exterior does usually let the interior shine through eventually.


I was supposed to read a book written by the lady who posted that but i've forgotten what the name of the book actually is. I need somebody to remind me. It's supposed to be pretty good from what i've heard.


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- You're overthinking.


- It is not talking about two separate group of females.


- Their wives are our Muslim sisters. 


- And those very same wives are someones' daughters. 


- It is unnecessary to scrutinise her 'personal rant' in such a way. 


- There are plenty of ways to physically stay away from someone. 


- I think her 'personal rant' is spot on. 


- This post is not about females ganging up against all males that ever existed on Earth. It is specifically targetted at the men that she has described. 


s.b.f — Sat, 14 Sep 2013 - 17:48

[quote=Looking To See]sorry abt what? im sorry, i should have made clearer, i was replying to Hummus who was asking about a book that this lady wrote.[/quote]


Oh yeah! Haha. The book you highlighted lives next to my friends bed and she says its really good. I saw you mention it and assumed you asking whether the status is from her book forgetting Hummus has mentioned something. 


TPOS — Wed, 18 Sep 2013 - 23:10

[quote=Titanium]I wonder why those men are like that. I wonder what makes them behave that way? 


Ego? Eager to be the Dominant one? Macho-ism? the power and responsibilities they're given by Islamic ways and rules because they are men and are meant to be bredwinners of a household and they just can't handle it? 


 


I wonder what turns them into sad broken masochists (yes that's the word I would use to describe them because surely they were getting a kick out of being "dirtbags on crack" they wouldnt do it at all) 


too much? :P[/quote]


I wouldn't say that's too much to say, but I would say it's not the power given by Islam that's an issue, but the misuse of power, or just simply ignoring the rights of others. Islam balances things out so the power itself is not too much.