Getting dumped by a cousin - the upside

Published by LookingToSee on 2 August, 2011 - 22:01

* cherish close/imediate family more
* cherish friends more
* no more making a foul of oneself
* no more getting used

plenty others. but i like the first two more. It makes you realise the value of what you have.

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Submitted by RI_RS on 2 August, 2011 - 22:50

How do you get 'dumped' by a cousin? :S

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Submitted by lollywood on 2 August, 2011 - 22:52

All I can say is Tobah

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Submitted by TPOS on 3 August, 2011 - 02:34

stopincest wrote:
All I can say is Tobah

Lol
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Submitted by LookingToSee on 4 August, 2011 - 16:22

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE wrote:
stopincest wrote:
All I can say is Tobah

Lol

Lol

and i knew that word could beunderstood that way. I meant. i dont know how to describe it other than "dumped" like, being left. being let go. something. ARGHHHHHH

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Submitted by You on 4 August, 2011 - 18:19

family argument.

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Submitted by LookingToSee on 6 August, 2011 - 02:39

right now it feels like a biggish deal. coz its a 16 years old friendship. nearly sistership. but not, it seems. I'll get over it. just...she shouldnt come and stay over right now...

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Submitted by You on 6 August, 2011 - 02:53

if its a tiff in the older/parents generation, you can try and limit it to there and keep contact etc.

and yes, it can be big and important, especially if you are close.

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Submitted by LookingToSee on 6 August, 2011 - 03:33

You wrote:
if its a tiff in the older/parents generation, you can try and limit it to there and keep contact etc.

we've survived that before. but she got involved and chose side. and i was standing on other. her loss.

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Submitted by Truth's_Razors on 6 August, 2011 - 09:19

Talk to her about it and if she doesn't care then maybe you should stop caring so much too.. it sounds selfish but when you don't care things are a whole lot easier

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Submitted by LookingToSee on 7 August, 2011 - 13:53

i already stopped caring.

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Submitted by LookingToSee on 7 August, 2011 - 15:04

Ocean wrote:
Truth's_Razors wrote:
it sounds selfish but when you don't care things are a whole lot easier

Touche'

Lilly wrote:
i already stopped caring.

Really?

trust me.

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Submitted by LookingToSee on 7 August, 2011 - 15:31

Ocean wrote:
s.b.f wrote:
Flapjacks...

are very dry.

nope nope nope, very NICEEEEE, and moist.

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