"how to know if they are the one?"

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]You missed out one question:
[quote=Grinno] If so, What sort of things did they cover[/quote][/quote]

if she checks out the links she'll found out. If she looks for the recording and listens to it, she'll found out.

There wasnt much need for me to answer this Q.

It can give an idea of what it was actually about and whether or not it was worth it. What did you learn from it?

To all the lazy revivalers.

Many young Muslims STRUGGLE to spot their potential spouse. So, how do you REALLY know if they are the ONE? Our hereafter (akhirah) will be greatly influenced by who we marry, do you agree?

In this Unique Marriage iWebinar:
- Baba Ali will share a NEVER HEARD before personal marriage experience!
- You'll see why it is a BIG MUST to ask your potential spouse relevant questions!
- Aaqib Ahmed, the founder of iPOET, will share his start up plans for the iMARRIAGE Project!
- And how iMARRIAGE aims to bridge the gap between Islam & culture through the wisdom of scholars!

What we learnt? well..euh..how to figure out if the person who are meeting/thinking about/might meet one day out there is the one. How to go about the whole islamic partner finding thingy. and Q&A.

That was the name of the event and doesn't explain anything :/

Who needs a stupid seminar,
If she's, hot, rich and can keep you up all night she is the one...

[quote=Jack the Ripper]Who needs a stupid seminar,
If she's, hot, rich and can keep you up all night she is the one...[/quote]

Naive lad alert! Naive lad alert!

Weren't you just complaining about not putting up with annoying habbits? Hairy hippos? Ring any bells? 😉

[quote=The Lamp][quote=Jack the Ripper]Who needs a stupid seminar,
If she's, hot, rich and can keep you up all night she is the one...[/quote]

Naive lad alert! Naive lad alert!

Weren't you just complaining about not putting up with annoying habbits? Hairy hippos? Ring any bells? ;)[/quote]

For the other "Lads" for me it's VARIETY all da way remember??????

Love is blind, marriage is the eye-opener.

There are so many pretty gals out there, how can you choose just one?
Imagine you go shopping and see all these pretty dresses or shoes, each one looks prettier than the other, you find one thats perfect, but no, wait, that other one still looks better, but you really like this one as well and the other 8 or 10 as well. What do you do? you want them all but you can't afford them and if you can you buy them all then a few months later you get tired of them all and you go shoppin again for more...

So, me like all different types of gals, choosing just one is just not possible, some have nice eyes, some nice figure, some legs, some smile, some this some that and so the list goes on, you just gotta have em all. Yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmie

That's bullhockey ahem i mean NAIVEITY - you've got to be perfect to want someone perfect

How many points in a chicks list do you suppose YOU cover?

[quote=Truth's_Razors]That's bullhockey ahem i mean NAIVEITY - you've got to be perfect to want someone perfect

How many points in a chicks list do you suppose YOU cover?[/quote]

That's the same thing i would tell my friends but most of all myself. What do i have to offer this so-called perfect sister that im looking for.

Btw nobody's perfect, it's better to not look at ones faults but to see their good qualities that not many have.

P.S. Insha allah i have alot to offer 😃

LOL This isn't the place to advertise yourself!

Im not, just clarifying incase people misunderstood.

[quote=Jack the Ripper][quote=The Lamp][quote=Jack the Ripper]Who needs a stupid seminar,
If she's, hot, rich and can keep you up all night she is the one...[/quote]

Naive lad alert! Naive lad alert!

Weren't you just complaining about not putting up with annoying habbits? Hairy hippos? Ring any bells? ;)[/quote]

For the other "Lads" for me it's VARIETY all da way remember??????

Love is blind, marriage is the eye-opener.

There are so many pretty gals out there, how can you choose just one?
Imagine you go shopping and see all these pretty dresses or shoes, each one looks prettier than the other, you find one thats perfect, but no, wait, that other one still looks better, but you really like this one as well and the other 8 or 10 as well. What do you do? you want them all but you can't afford them and if you can you buy them all then a few months later you get tired of them all and you go shoppin again for more...

So, me like all different types of gals, choosing just one is just not possible, some have nice eyes, some nice figure, some legs, some smile, some this some that and so the list goes on, you just gotta have em all. Yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmie[/quote]

Mate, I think you've been taking too much Red Bull. Seriously, cut down, it might help you.
Marriage isn't like shopping, otherwise you'll just end up hurting people and that's not acceptable. It's a commitment, a contract that you both agree on and it's something you both need to be happy with. I would say character and compatibility is more important that the legs, the breasts or what not. Once you're happy with one and you commit to her, then man up and stick it out; unless divorce is essential.

By the way, mate, seriously this player mentality just makes people look really immature. Not funny, far from it , with all due respect.

Personally, I really like a nice smile, warm personality and inner sweetness and beauty.

[quote=The Lamp]
Personally, I really like a nice smile, warm personality and inner sweetness and beauty.[/quote]

Awwww! You're so cute! You're gna make a great husband lampy 😃 Be sure to invite us to your wedding 😛

yup! everyones already's said wht needs to be said. but lol at Ripper, i think its not a case of what who YOU are gonna choose, but vice versa!

@Lamp: make sure to give feefs a close up seat [size=6]so she can catch the bouquet...[/size]

Im an asian - I don't do bouquet catching :roll:

You guys just love this subject dont ya. Actually recently it's been the hot topic everywhere

We're saddos with nothing better to talk about.

And bilan enjoys TRYING to make fun of me using that topic...

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]Im an asian - I don't do bouquet catching :roll:[/quote]

no worries...i hear tbey throw rice at weddings too :p

and about try! i make woman, i make!

but u dnt mind do u???? itll all blow over soon, ull see!

the rice doesn't have the same symbolism as the bouquet.

And I'll let you believe that, to make you happy.

sure it does! it can have whaaatever symbolism u like!

see u do love me rlly! 😃

[quote=Truth's_Razors]That's bullhockey ahem i mean NAIVEITY - you've got to be perfect to want someone perfect

How many points in a chicks list do you suppose YOU cover?[/quote]

Now lets see, handsome, courageous, sexy, nice SMILE! 😃 , funny, entertaining, excel in everything I do, rich, ok not so rich, athletic, masculine, great personality what more can I say, I'm just a babe magnet!

Everything a gal want's besides a wedding ring...

[quote=Jack the Ripper][quote=Truth's_Razors]That's bullhockey ahem i mean NAIVEITY - you've got to be perfect to want someone perfect

How many points in a chicks list do you suppose YOU cover?[/quote]

Now lets see, handsome, courageous, sexy, nice SMILE! 😃 , funny, entertaining, excel in everything I do, rich, ok not so rich, athletic, masculine, great personality what more can I say, I'm just a babe magnet!

Everything a gal want's besides a wedding ring...[/quote]

Shite i would never want a girl who just wants all the above.

[quote=The Lamp]

Mate, I think you've been taking too much Red Bull. Seriously, cut down, it might help you.
Marriage isn't like shopping, otherwise you'll just end up hurting people and that's not acceptable. It's a commitment, a contract that you both agree on and it's something you both need to be happy with. I would say character and compatibility is more important that the legs, the breasts or what not. Once you're happy with one and you commit to her, then man up and stick it out; unless divorce is essential.

By the way, mate, seriously this player mentality just makes people look really immature. Not funny, far from it , with all due respect.

Personally, I really like a nice smile, warm personality and inner sweetness and beauty.[/quote]

I hate Red Bull, maybe to you it's not like shoppin, to me its all da same...
I know I will end up hurting some stupid backward cow, thats why I will stay out of it. You just said marriage was not like shopping, I guess you right, it's more like a mortgage, the whole contract thing and all, you just can't get out of it, they cover every angle. It may not be important to you but some of us live for dem legs, breasts and what ever else.

I may sound cheap, but I am a guy, it's just how we are, and that crap you telling these gals here that it's does'nt mean much to you, and you prefer a good smile, inner beauty and all crap is nothing but a lie. You just want em to go all oohh, and aaah, he's so cute, bullshit. Everyman goes for the goods, I don't care who he is, it could be your dad, my dad, your brother, my brother, or any of these gals dads or brothers on this forum, thats is the truth. The only difference is they are not as open as I am, but believe me, in their minds they are just as perverted as I am if not more. Many have learnt to accept they can't have em all, and have made inner peace with it thats about it...

Sorry to burst your bubble gals, your husbands or husbands to be are going to check out other chicks, accept it and make peace with it, and pray they are not like me, cos then you know it's gonna end in heartbreak.

[quote=Foysol89][quote=Jack the Ripper][quote=Truth's_Razors]That's bullhockey ahem i mean NAIVEITY - you've got to be perfect to want someone perfect

How many points in a chicks list do you suppose YOU cover?[/quote]

Now lets see, handsome, courageous, sexy, nice SMILE! 😃 , funny, entertaining, excel in everything I do, rich, ok not so rich, athletic, masculine, great personality what more can I say, I'm just a babe magnet!

Everything a gal want's besides a wedding ring...[/quote]

Shite i would never want a girl who just wants all the above.[/quote]

Me neither, but if she's sweet then why not, besides I did'nt say anything about marrying her anyway, just temporary...

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=The Lamp]
Personally, I really like a nice smile, warm personality and inner sweetness and beauty.[/quote]

Awwww! You're so cute! You're gna make a great husband lampy 😃 Be sure to invite us to your wedding :P[/quote]

You see this is what I was talking about Lampy, your mission accomplished...
Stop pulling the wool over naive chicks eyes. I guess we are both good playas,it's so easy with chicks, just tell em what they wanna hear. I pull the same trick by da way, you see we are'nt all that different after all Lampie...

[quote=bilan]yup! everyones already's said wht needs to be said. but lol at Ripper, i think its not a case of what who YOU are gonna choose, but vice versa!

@Lamp: make sure to give feefs a close up seat [size=6]so she can catch the bouquet...[/size][/quote]

Don't worry, you are probably on some playa's list, so be careful, we lot are hard to detect...

Just for the record, I aint choosin anyone for marriage, and nobody is gonna be given the opportunity to choose me, I aint no pizza...

What a guy huh? He speaks his mind and he's honest he's a keeper. 😉

I dont totally agree with everything you have said about 'us guys' but there is some truth to what you are saying. I mean it's all good to look for the whole inner beauty and great personality thing but aesthetics are important too.

On the subject of marriage if you're gonna be with that person for the rest of your life surely there has to be a level of attraction between to the two surely.

P.S. Not every guy stares at any girl that walks by, although nobody's perfect.

"You're not perfect, sport, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you've met, she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other" - Good Will Hunting

[quote=Foysol89]"You're not perfect, sport, and let me save you the suspense: this girl you've met, she's not perfect either. But the question is whether or not you're perfect for each other" - Good Will Hunting[/quote]

I know she's not, that's why I say one can never be enuff...

[quote=Foysol89]What a guy huh? He speaks his mind and he's honest he's a keeper. 😉

I dont totally agree with everything you have said about 'us guys' but there is some truth to what you are saying. I mean it's all good to look for the whole inner beauty and great personality thing but aesthetics are important too.

On the subject of marriage if you're gonna be with that person for the rest of your life surely there has to be a level of attraction between to the two surely.

P.S. Not every guy stares at any girl that walks by, although nobody's perfect.[/quote]

Love is in a face to die for, and a hot body to match...