When will you take out those Pics Sisters??
(Once you post your image online, you can't take it back: Family, friends, strangers-Anyone can see it & save the image)
Think...!!!!
Why do you even have your pictures posted on the internet? To show yourself off ?
Are you a display piece ?
Strike a pose!!! And then you've got everybody saying "Heyy!! You looking so nice there honey!!"
And now what happens?? Your head gets a little BIG, you're full of yourself, you start liking this attention.
But is this pleasing to Allah?? Is the attention of all the boys out there more important to you than the attention of Allah?? Wake up!! We need to refrain, We are Muslims!! We are the ones who have consciously submitted to Who???
Not to our society & desires but to Allah, the Creator of the entire Universe. And He has prepared a great reward for us, a great prize, the ULTIMATE PRIZE - JANNAH!!
"Get your eyes hypnotized to that prize"
Sisters don't just assume that you have already made it to Jannah...Paradise is not for free...You need to sacrifice your desires, you need to work hard to get yourself a seat there, & if you wanna make it to the topmost levels in Jannah with the Queens of Islam, then you REALLY GOTTA BE DIFFERENT THAN AN AVERAGE WOMAN !!
Or else why should "you" deserve it & not someone else?? What is that "extra-factor in you" which is not in the average women ?? It is self-restrain & obedience to Allah's commands. Or else behave like the ignorant & get treated like how they will be treated on Judgment Day. The choice is yours.
If you do not mind that the whole world can see your pics , then your Hayaa is not functioning properly my dear Sister & Hayaa is a branch of Eemaan.
Would the wives & daughters of our prophets put themselves on display like this??
Everything that Allah made valuable in the world is covered and hard to get to.Tell me Where do you find diamonds? Deep down in the ground covered and protected.
Where do you find pearls? Deep down at the bottom of the ocean covered up and protected in a beautiful shell. Where do you find gold? Way down in the mine,covered over with layers and layers of rock. You’ve got to work hard to get to them.
Your body,beauty is sacred. You’re far more precious than diamonds and pearls, and you should be covered too.
Whom are you imitating my dear Sisters? The jaahils (ignorant)?? WAKE UP!!!!
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” Narrated by Abu Dawood, 3512
Remember??
''Whosoever leaves something for the sake of Allaah then Allaah, the Mighty and Magnificent, WILL REPLACE IT with something better than it''
JAZAK ALLAH KHAIR !
P.S: Originally posted my my friend..!!! I loved it..and thought i would share it with you guys and spread goodness and Faith..!!
May Allah protect us all..Ameen..!!
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i dunno, i think i wouldnt find myself in that situation (fingers crossed)
though i do have guyfriends on fb, i dnt rlly talk to them, i just have them as a friend on fb, cos thats all u can do on fb; have people as friends, may they be guy, gal or gruesome lol!
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
lol :LOL: ok then nah you can also check them out and write horrible things and play games and write on their walls and poke them and message them and everything else
kinda the same as this but this (revival) but this is more discussion based though so its different
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
lol :LOL: ok then nah you can also check them out and write horrible things and play games and write on their walls and poke them and message them and everything else
kinda the same as this but this (revival) but this is more discussion based though so its different :)[/quote]
check them out???! puh-lease, that nt my style...
but u gotta write horrible things, thats like the whole point of bf no???! :shock:
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
Salaam, I would also like to say something about putting image of yourself on fb i dont think there is anything seriously wrong with that if its in a apropriate manner not of indecency as long as you not displaying yourself in front of strangers cos some of us share pics with family friends we havent seen for years n years n we interact n exchange photos etc not for others to glare at.... Men being muslim men should lower their gaze always its the women to blame isnt it its like its a mans world but not here in england ime afraid its a ladys world thats why we have to just pray for the younger generation may Allah give them hidayath,,,,, Insha'Allah
I know its wrong to display yourselves like that i seen with my own eyes the amount of lengh these people go through degrading themselves n being low n cheap...Muslims should not do that then again i will say why do men encourage these women???
Arent men the gardians over women protectors they make comments n say wow how beautiful show us some more pics etc...lols Thats only encouraging young inocent girls...If they are true muslim men lower their gaze n give these women shame say something to them in a Islamic Manner call them sister put them in an embarassing situation that will make them think twice to do it again if all you men do is praise them n in back of them say baaad then that is wrong only bad will happen but if you look at them as your own sisters you would then surely say to them pls sister i think you are degrading your respect....
i personally did that one time i saw a pic of a girlfriend i knew from school we know her whole family very respectful, but when i saw her pics i was sooo ashamed that i couldnt contain myself....Her marriage brokedown she was looking for attention from other guys that was completely wrong i sent her private msg n told her how i thought as i know her family well and explain to her like a sister2sister, i said i would do dua for her that i did asap...After that Insha'Allah she did listen to me she never put up indecent pics of herself again.....I like to make another comment Our face is our identity if we do show our true face is gud to bt in a decent manner....
I dont like men and women showing not pics of themselves but pics of film stars of just someother thats not nice also....I would like to see the true person whom ime chatting to on fb...Thaats just my opinion anyways....Hope i didnt hit any nerves there...lols Khuda Hafis
zarinarose
really?
I would happily put up my pic here if every1 else did....Why are they ashamed to show their true pic???? Why put other peoples pic on for??? Our faces are our true identity, it doesnt say anywhere in the holy Qur'an to hid your face under a veil, ime sorry bt thats how i feel only Allah mentions not only to women bt to men also to keep bears n cover their modesty... I havent read about it in the Holy Hadith....Only the beloved Prophet Mohammed peace be upon him his wives had to cover from face to foot cos they were the mothers to all mankind and could not marry any other man after his death may Allah have peace on him...Ameen Truely he was our teacher but i dont understand the need to cover face...Face is our true identity men dont cover their faces why women have to??? Men it says should lower their gazes should not glare at pretty women that is not right in Islam...Otherwise as long as your intentions are good and your heart is pure then you dont need to worry about anyone bt Allah SubhantaAllah that it...May Allah guide our Muslim Men and Women to the rightess path...Have Mercy upon us Allah
zarinarose
Not one person in here has their own true picture on here...What is the big secret??? We are only talking about our deen, our ISLAM and we should be proud of that and show our true identity just had to say that sorry...
zarinarose
the only reason i dont have my actual picture up is because it seemed abit weird for me to be the only person lol
and the funny thing is so dont you
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
Same reason i dont tooo :badgrin: i would too if others do... i think we 2 should then maybe others may follow....bt the worse thing is the admins to here should first they should put their pic
zarinarose
i dont have my picture on here, but that not cos im hidimng suin. trust me you'll thank me for nit havin my pic up lol!
i dont have my pic up on fb either, but the reason is that im not a picture person tbh..there thats my secret!! u happy??!
lol
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
dude no ones a picture person and we're all real
lol
oh i feel something religiously appealing coming out
allah has created us all to the best of his ability and created us all perfect, no one here or in this world is ugly or non-picture material
even if you think you may not look nice someone sure will and look in the bright side no one here can actually judge you on how you look
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
lol ok then when i get home from work you put your pic up now and i'll put mine up after work and then we'll encourage others to to but if they use our pictures on theirs we could bully them
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
LOL, bully them because they would then look like u???
did u think this one through???
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
ur right, ur right (of course im right i hear u thinking! lol)
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consider the religious box ticked (nicely done
but u gota admit, it would be waay weird havin a picture up, what if it ruins the image people have in mind of others..haha, just thought of suin...
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
What he said makes sense to me. :/
People can put the pics up if they want, no ones stopping them doing so but I don't think it's necessary t have pics up of yourself on website like this - you don't need to know who you're talking to, its not meant to be a social networking site! Nothing wrong with it, if you want to though.
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
Woh woh woh... we get to keep bears? ALL THIS TIME AND NO ONE TOLD ME!!!
Back in BLACK
bcoz my true form would blow everyones minds
... hey how u doin?
lol
Back in BLACK
LOL *has an urge to link to the GPU pics but doesn't want to hurt everyone eyes again* :twisted:
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
LOL you can if you like. I toned it down for the GPU. Didnt want to attract any unwanted attention *ahem*ahem*marriageEvents*ahem*ahem* lol
Back in BLACK
lol don't worry no woman in their right mind would wna marry you
i kid, i kid they'd love your money. Ok seriously im joking 
and yeah you did tone it down - not hat!!!
i cbb to find and link to it.
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
Salams..!!
Whatever it is can you ever have a guy friend according to Islam?! Even if it is real or hypothetical..
You can only talk and interact with those who are mahram to you, while others are prohibited.
These guy friends that you take it for granted...will lead to a very bad relationship which is very much prohibited..!!!
Hope I have cleared the doubt..
Allah Knows Best
your sis in Islam..!!
Ma'ssalama
>>"The believers, men and women are helpers/supporters of one another, they order good and forbid evil and offer their prayers perfectly and pay Zakah, and obey Allah and His Messenger. They are the ones Allah will have mercy on. Indeed, Allah is Most Pow
what i meant is those people will remember your picture..!! or save it in one way or the other
>>"The believers, men and women are helpers/supporters of one another, they order good and forbid evil and offer their prayers perfectly and pay Zakah, and obey Allah and His Messenger. They are the ones Allah will have mercy on. Indeed, Allah is Most Pow
ermmmm no i did. not bully them for looking like me! bully them for stealing my image because they cant get their own
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
lol that could be a point but in that case put a picture of yourself thats descent and now one can judge (and girls when i say this i dont mean cover your whole face) lol well you can if you want
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
well i think you might have a point but i dont think anyone here would do that tbh
and its not normal to save someones picture for no apparant reason
The Wisest of Man Is Not The One Who Knows, But The One Who Seeks Knowledge In Order To Perform
if you can get me some chocolate that would be great.
lol! i know, but i thought it more fun to think of it my way
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
ok i get what ur saying, i rlly do...BUT i mean i dont understand the train of thought that if someone was to have a guyfriend (not the same as a girlfriend imo, but just someone that ur friendlly with cos of school/work whatever) that automatically that acquaintance will lead to a haraam relationship. i mean it doesnt always end that way.
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
I think, she might mean mental images too?
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
omg! Seraph's comments about bear(d)s was just TOO funny!
euh...having guy friends...it can get messy, and think about o.o marriage! o.o (omg i said it! :P) when ya got your lil hubby sitting opposite you and you're having a laugh with a guymate on fb and he's having a laugh with a girlmate on HIS fb (euh... ???) thats when it get messy.
okay, you might just be friend with some guy, but how do you know who? its a short life and the sacrifice is worth the reward. So, staying away from guy friends as much as possible.
i just feel the need to say, i hate the whole shaking hands dilemna...urrrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhhh......................
someone mentionned exchanging pics with family on fb, i dont know if its just me, but...fb isnt a family thing, usually...right?... LOL
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
shaking hands yh...dont like it either..but u cant go "no,actually how about we dont???" can u?????? :?
"Verily, in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest"
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