Personal Reformation

zdc —

Salaams Everyone,

I recently had a very mubarak dream and I have decided to go on a journey of self reformation.

I would like to apologise to all the sisters on the forum for my anti wife/women attitude. I know I have caused a lot of hurt to many of you. Please find it in your hearts to forgive a misguided brother.

I will still be on the forum but will hopefully only contribute where necessary, eg. when things that are not permissible in Islam are advocated or made permissible. I consider myself a student rather than a teacher.

So, to everyone who has been so patient with me, make dua allah accepts me and guides me onto the path of siratul mustakeem. I have not been long on the forum and don't know many people, but in this short time I have made more enemies than friends, and that is not a good thing. The BIG, MEAN, GREEN MACHINE, is hopefully becoming more human.

To the few that I do know,

Lilly - I just love to make you angry, you really don't know how to get angry, but that's what makes you different. Always remain the way you are. I am quite sure you will make an "EXCELLENT" wife, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, not even me.

You - YOU seem to have some weird interpretations of hadith, I suggest when in doubt check with the scholars, thats why they are there. Nothing more dangerous than making false interpretations. Insha allah, guidance will be yours. One more thing, you don't have to oppose everything people say, you can agree some of the time, it's not a sin. Anyway all da best.

Isha al Maghribi - Is the spelling right? I hope so. Have a wonderful wedding and hope you have a very happy married life with your new husband and hopefully you will have more kids, but not too soon, otherwise you will have a whole football team by the time you're 25. Oh yes, B is the better option for the wedding dress, but if you like A that is fine too.

Power of Silence - Practice what you preach, learn to be silent more often, just kidding. Give Fefe a big HUGG from me, be careful you don't crush his bones. Don't forget to silence injustice and oppression, NO! that does not mean you gotta kick my butt. All da best with the studies.

To all those whom I have missed above, all da best and remember me in your duas.

Huuuuh!! I hate good-byes they make me go all soft. COMMON, GREENEEEEEEE
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!

Salaams.
Yours
zdc

zdc — Mon, 4 Oct 2010 - 07:37

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]I know yeah! especially since he's a guy - too much emotion! :P[/quote]

Yeah I know, I can't remember when last I watched one though, I like the action ones, no emotion just superhero's.

zdc — Mon, 4 Oct 2010 - 07:38

[quote=Lilly]whats a "mubarak" dream?[/quote]

Mubarak means blessed.

Truth's_Razors — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 - 23:04

[quote=Lilly]gone with the wind. now stop digging corpses out o.o[/quote]

Alright, alright - no more commenting on here!

zdc — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 - 13:41

[quote=Truth's_Razors]Huh.

I was wondering where he went.[/quote]

For Hajj.

Truth's_Razors — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 - 15:10

[quote=zdc][quote=Truth's_Razors]Huh.

I was wondering where he went.[/quote]

For Hajj.[/quote]

Wowiee! blog your experience?

TPOS — Tue, 30 Nov 2010 - 17:36

[quote=zdc][quote=Truth's_Razors]Huh.

I was wondering where he went.[/quote]

For Hajj.[/quote]
! 😃 Congrats!
yeh agree with T_R, I'd like to read about your experience 🙂
Oh and hope you made a dua for the revivalers 😛

zdc — Wed, 1 Dec 2010 - 06:30

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=zdc][quote=Truth's_Razors]Huh.

I was wondering where he went.[/quote]

For Hajj.[/quote]
! 😃 Congrats!
yeh agree with T_R, I'd like to read about your experience 🙂
Oh and hope you made a dua for the revivalers :P[/quote]

Made dua for the entire ummah of Rasool Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam.

Truth's_Razors — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 21:33

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]
yeh agree with T_R, I'd like to read about your experience 🙂
Oh and hope you made a dua for the revivalers :P[/quote]

Me likes the 'T_R' 🙂

TPOS — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 22:45

[quote=You]What does T_R stand for? Tyranosaurus Rex?[/quote]
OMD lol. Truth's_Razors, ofcourse!

And glad you like it, it looks good doesn't it? 😛

Truth's_Razors — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 22:55

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=You]What does T_R stand for? Tyranosaurus Rex?[/quote]
OMD lol. Truth's_Razors, ofcourse!

And glad you like it, it looks good doesn't it? :P[/quote]

Defo! Much better than 'Truth Razor' (cringe)

TPOS — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 22:59

[quote=Truth's_Razors]

Defo! Much better than 'Truth Razor' (cringe)[/quote]
i even corrected that but Ed didn't listen to me! 🙁 lol

Truth's_Razors — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 23:06

Lol! I was actually talking about a friend who emailed me saying Truth Razor as if it were the most normal thing in the world, but yeh Ed too!

TPOS — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 23:10

[quote=Truth's_Razors]Lol! I was actually talking about a friend who emailed me saying Truth Razor as if it were the most normal thing in the world[/quote]
LOL!!! That would be weird!

Bilan — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 23:48

[quote=Lilly]Im commentinb first...there goes...
if you only comment when we're wrong and something bad is happening you'll end up known as a 'holier-than-thou' person, dont. When you see something interesting, give hour opinion.
..this whole blogpost feel so unreal...
[Size=8] thanks for the compliment... [/Size]
Inshalah, you, alomgside MB will become our local 'molvi' :p seriously...inshallah all your efforts effort are rewarded and all of us guided to siralutmustakeem. Ameen.
about You: usually he's too lazy to develop his points, but if you think about it/ask him to develop you might understand his point of view. You is pretty openminded.[/quote]

lol, when i saw "lilly i love making u angry...", i thought it was MB haha!
i had to go back and check...tht was a pretty funny statement, gtta say...does tht mean hes likely to get married now, in the future????

TPOS — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 23:51

[quote=bilan][quote=Lilly]Im commentinb first...there goes...
if you only comment when we're wrong and something bad is happening you'll end up known as a 'holier-than-thou' person, dont. When you see something interesting, give hour opinion.
..this whole blogpost feel so unreal...
[Size=8] thanks for the compliment... [/Size]
Inshalah, you, alomgside MB will become our local 'molvi' :p seriously...inshallah all your efforts effort are rewarded and all of us guided to siralutmustakeem. Ameen.
about You: usually he's too lazy to develop his points, but if you think about it/ask him to develop you might understand his point of view. You is pretty openminded.[/quote]

lol, when i saw "lilly i love making u angry...", i thought it was MB haha![/quote] lol, o dear!
[quote=Bilan]does tht mean hes likely to get married now, in the future????[/quote]
5 W Qs?

Bilan — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 23:55

[quote=zdc][quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=zdc]Salaams Everyone,

I recently had a very mubarak dream and I have decided to go on a journey of self reformation.[/quote]
Masha'Allah, May Allah (Swt) help you succeed.

[quote=zdc]
I would like to apologise to all the sisters on the forum for my anti wife/women attitude. I know I have caused a lot of hurt to many of you. Please find it in your hearts to forgive a misguided brother.[/quote]
You're forgiven 🙂 but I didn't think you were that bad in the first place!
[quote=zdc]
I will still be on the forum but will hopefully only contribute where necessary, eg. when things that are not permissible in Islam are advocated or made permissible. I consider myself a student rather than a teacher.[/quote]
*thumbs up*
[quote=zdc]
So, to everyone who has been so patient with me, make dua allah accepts me and guides me onto the path of siratul mustakeem. I have not been long on the forum and don't know many people, but in this short time I have made more enemies than friends, and that is not a good thing. The BIG, MEAN, GREEN MACHINE, is hopefully becoming more human.[/quote]
You will be remembered in my duas, please do the same for us!
[quote=zdc]
Power of Silence - Practice what you preach, learn to be silent more often, just kidding. Give Fefe a big HUGG from me, be careful you don't crush his bones. Don't forget to silence injustice and oppression, NO! that does not mean you gotta kick my butt. All da best with the studies.[/quote]

awwwww thanks! 😃 😃 😃
...but i'm a Girl!!

[quote=zdc]
Salaams.
Yours
zdc[/quote]

Wsalaams :)[/quote]

Thanks for the very nice reply, I really appreciate it. I know you're a GIRL!!!, it stands for:

G - Gentle
I - Intelligent
R - Respectful
L - Loving

All this being nice stuff does'nt suit me does it? I'm kinda liking it, noboding wanting to strangle me, everyone being so nice, feels weird, but nice.[/quote]

LOL, ur totally milking it hahah....loving it!:lol:

havnt met yet, seems a shame ur goin though...

TPOS — Thu, 2 Dec 2010 - 23:59

[quote=bilan]

havnt met yet, seems a shame ur goin though...[/quote]
d/w he's back. 🙂

Bilan — Fri, 3 Dec 2010 - 00:30

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=bilan][quote=Lilly]Im commentinb first...there goes...
if you only comment when we're wrong and something bad is happening you'll end up known as a 'holier-than-thou' person, dont. When you see something interesting, give hour opinion.
..this whole blogpost feel so unreal...
[Size=8] thanks for the compliment... [/Size]
Inshalah, you, alomgside MB will become our local 'molvi' :p seriously...inshallah all your efforts effort are rewarded and all of us guided to siralutmustakeem. Ameen.
about You: usually he's too lazy to develop his points, but if you think about it/ask him to develop you might understand his point of view. You is pretty openminded.[/quote]

lol, when i saw "lilly i love making u angry...", i thought it was MB haha![/quote] lol, o dear!
[quote=Bilan]does tht mean hes likely to get married now, in the future????[/quote]
5 W Qs?[/quote]

huh???

zdc — Fri, 3 Dec 2010 - 05:46

[quote=bilan][quote=Lilly]Im commentinb first...there goes...
if you only comment when we're wrong and something bad is happening you'll end up known as a 'holier-than-thou' person, dont. When you see something interesting, give hour opinion.
..this whole blogpost feel so unreal...
[Size=8] thanks for the compliment... [/Size]
Inshalah, you, alomgside MB will become our local 'molvi' :p seriously...inshallah all your efforts effort are rewarded and all of us guided to siralutmustakeem. Ameen.
about You: usually he's too lazy to develop his points, but if you think about it/ask him to develop you might understand his point of view. You is pretty openminded.[/quote]

lol, when i saw "lilly i love making u angry...", i thought it was MB haha!
i had to go back and check...tht was a pretty funny statement, gtta say...does tht mean hes likely to get married now, in the future????[/quote]

I'm already married, there's no second wife on the agenda just yet, still struggling to get to terms with the first one, I reckon by the time I get the hang of it I will be about 65, do you know any 18yr olds willng to be the second wife of a 65yr old?? let me know if you do, just tell em "It's better to be an old mans darling than a young mans slave"

zdc — Fri, 3 Dec 2010 - 05:48

[quote=bilan]LOL, ur totally milking it hahah....loving it!:lol:

havnt met yet, seems a shame ur goin though...[/quote]

Hi I'm ZDC!! "The guy gals used to love to hate" hmmm.... that sounds stupid. I am kinda trying to leave, but I dunno just keep coming back...I had a fallout with LILLY...

zdc — Fri, 3 Dec 2010 - 05:45

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=bilan]

havnt met yet, seems a shame ur goin though...[/quote]
d/w he's back. :)[/quote]

Just when you thought it was safe to get back into the ring, HE'S BACK!!

Bilan — Fri, 3 Dec 2010 - 17:53

[quote=zdc][quote=bilan][quote=Lilly]Im commentinb first...there goes...
if you only comment when we're wrong and something bad is happening you'll end up known as a 'holier-than-thou' person, dont. When you see something interesting, give hour opinion.
..this whole blogpost feel so unreal...
[Size=8] thanks for the compliment... [/Size]
Inshalah, you, alomgside MB will become our local 'molvi' :p seriously...inshallah all your efforts effort are rewarded and all of us guided to siralutmustakeem. Ameen.
about You: usually he's too lazy to develop his points, but if you think about it/ask him to develop you might understand his point of view. You is pretty openminded.[/quote]

lol, when i saw "lilly i love making u angry...", i thought it was MB haha!
i had to go back and check...tht was a pretty funny statement, gtta say...does tht mean hes likely to get married now, in the future????[/quote]

I'm already married, there's no second wife on the agenda just yet, still struggling to get to terms with the first one, I reckon by the time I get the hang of it I will be about 65, do you know any 18yr olds willng to be the second wife of a 65yr old?? let me know if you do, just tell em "It's better to be an old mans darling than a young mans slave"[/quote]

i see...forget blogging ur hajj, blog the 'whole getting married thing'...much scarier! 😂 ...did u get married recently then????

Ill be sure to keep an eye out for these 18 yr olds, if thats ur fancy, how about that??? 😉