Im a new sister looking for some sisters as friends.....

Aamila —

Salam,
Im a new sister aged 21 i live in london.......... I converted 2 weeks ago and jus looking for people to talk to really....

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wednesday here (not verified) — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 02:12

Funzo

wednesday here
Funzowell people just read it as (doodss)

you mean YOU read it like that, and you need to work on your pronounciation dear.

lol, why am i having this conversation?

no need to involve admin in this conversation.

i haven't, he's 'You' and i said YOU

Ya'qub — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 03:13

Why is everyone hijacking the new sister's thread?

O well, at least it introduces her to the fact that Muslims love to bicker amongst themselves all day!

I've heard SOO many converts say 'Thank God I discovered Islam before I discovered Muslims.'

Personally, I don't agree, I can honestly say that among the nicest/most wonderful people I have ever met, 99% of them are Muslims.

There ARE a lot of problems in the Muslim community regarding infighting/lack of unity, but that is a challenge we must all face (and on a side note, Funzo is really really bad he needs to learn some adab. He should repent to Allah (swt) and ask forgiveness from the person he was rude to).

That is all (for now)!

Naz — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 18:01

Seraphim

1R4M
Naz*

@Eram- The Seraph just likes to make out hes evil knieval but he aint nothing but a big softy 😂

He was much nicer to me in London

I was nice to everyone in London.

@NAZ!! Why would you say such a thing?? Why cant you just let me have my fun.

Coz its not fun for me 😃
😂

Funzo

Naz*
@Eram be glad you aint overtly religious. Those kind of people tend to have double standards!

then they arent religious if they have double standards, plus the prophet (saw)said: “Those who go to extremes are doomed, those who go to extremes are doomed, those who go to extremes are doomed.”
Narrated by Muslim, 2670
so i agree with you with the overly muslim thing as long as you meant extremely religious

I should have put religious in quotation marks. Sorry my bad. What i was trying to get at there was ppl who preach to others but dont practice what they preach. Women who wear the hijab think they are better/superior then those that dont or guys who have breads think they are better/superior then those that dont. Judgemental Musilms.

Some Muslimahs attitude stinks!!!

Oh an just coz a woman doesnt wear a hijab, it doesnt make her a bad person! I know a lot of girls that dont wear the hijab and they are safe and i know some who do wear the hijab and get up to no good.

1R4M — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 22:31

ImaaniFunzo, it's not your right to reveal personal details about somebody else to others, like you did with Iram. That is really wrong. It is up to the person themself what they choose to share with others. Please don't do it again.

huh??

what did he say about me?

1R4M — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 22:34

Naz

I should have put religious in quotation marks. Sorry my bad. What i was trying to get at there was ppl who preach to others but dont practice what they preach. Women who wear the hijab think they are better/superior then those that dont or guys who have breads think they are better/superior then those that dont. Judgemental Musilms.

Some Muslimahs attitude stinks!!!

Oh an just coz a woman doesnt wear a hijab, it doesnt make her a bad person! I know a lot of girls that dont wear the hijab and they are safe and i know some who do wear the hijab and get up to no good.

THANK YOU!

Ive encountered many women at conventions or islamic meetings, n cos I dont wear a headscarf they act knda snobby with me
n yea
I dont wear a headscarf
but that doesnt mean that im immoral or a bad person
thanks for that Naz

Naz — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 22:42

^^ your welcome honey.

I know exactly what you mean about snobby hijabis. I use to have similar experiences before my hijab days.

Just ignore then and dont let them put you off from seeking knowledge 🙂

Im off defo off to bed now, have a long day tomoz nyt nyt

Salaam

Funzo — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 23:44

ImaaniFunzo, it's not your right to reveal personal details about somebody else to others, like you did with Iram. That is really wrong. It is up to the person themself what they choose to share with others. Please don't do it again.

im sorry i was bang out of order maybe it was the other comments or what ever it was a stupid thing to do im sorry iram that wasnt right i cant judge you because im no one to judge please forgive me.

Funzo — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 - 23:47

1R4M
but that doesnt mean that im immoral or a bad person

look im not trying to have a go at you and i know it doesnt make you an immoral or bad person but dont you think that defeats the point of calling yourself a muslim? because a muslim is one who submits fully to ALLAH swt, i dont know but again im not having a go at you(we achieve nothing by doing that)

Imaani — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 - 00:19

Funzo

1R4M
but that doesnt mean that im immoral or a bad person

look im not trying to have a go at you and i know it doesnt make you an immoral or bad person but dont you think that defeats the point of calling yourself a muslim? because a muslim is one who submits fully to ALLAH swt, i dont know but again im not having a go at you(we achieve nothing by doing that)

Wearing a scarf alone does not equate to submitting fully to Allah swt. That type of thinking is just very, very naive.

A headscarf does NOT make somebody a Muslim.

Whether a girl wears a hijab or not is something between her and Allah swt.

I was praying 5 times a day a long time before I started wearing a hijab.

Before I started wearing hijab I remember going into Islamic book shops and getting dirty looks from the shopkeepers. I don't get that stuck up attitude at all. People have to start somewhere - I was making a conscious effort to learn about Islam and my struggle with wearing a hijab was something personal, between me and my Lord only. Not for others to judge me by. Now I wear a hijab, I'm still the same person as I was then.

Someone might wear a hijab but it doesn't mean that they are better than someone who doesn't. Just because one requirement is being fulfilled it doesn't mean every other one is as well.

And all of us need to remember that none of us are perfect Muslims. We ALL have aspects in our lives that could be improved.

Omrow — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 - 11:24

Salam

I think "Hijab" and "Names" should be new topics.

What do you guys say?

1R4MI know a girl who's name means "clean and orderly"
she's not!
And I know a guy who's name means generous n kind
and he's not!

Naz said: One of my sisters names mean peace,
shes far from peace lol.
A name doesnt necessarily reflect your personality.

1R4M: Is that a name or an inmate number?

If you want your name to benefit you, then you need to do two things:

1. Have a good name.
2. Believe in your own name.

People like Seraphim and sumayia are believers. Their names beings them benefit.

Others like Naz, and the like, are doubters.
Read their own words in this topic.

Its obvious to see how their disbelief and
foolish views tend to reflect their ugly names.

Omrow

Ya'qub — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 - 11:28

OmrowSalam

I think "Hijab" and "Names" should be new topics.

What do you guys say?

1R4MI know a girl who's name means "clean and orderly"
she's not!
And I know a guy who's name means generous n kind
and he's not!

Naz said: One of my sisters names mean peace,
shes far from peace lol.
A name doesnt necessarily reflect your personality.

1R4M: Is that a name or an inmate number?

If you want your name to benefit you, then you need to do two things:

1. Have a good name.
2. Believe in your own name.

People like Seraphim and sumayia are believers. Their names beings them benefit.

Others like Naz, and the like, are doubters.
Read their own words in this topic.

Its obvious to see how their disbelief and
foolish views tend to reflect their ugly names.

Omrow

You haven't analysed the name 'Omrow' yet.

Personally I think it's an odd and argumentative name...which suits your personality down to the ground!

Omrow — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 - 11:49

Salam

Thank you Yaqub.

I like to present my arguments regardless of the response they might bring.

I dont fear other people's reaction when giving my own views.

And neither should any other person who believes in God, be they Muslims, Christians or Jews.

Omrow

1R4M — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 - 12:04

OmrowSalam

I think "Hijab" and "Names" should be new topics.

What do you guys say?

1R4MI know a girl who's name means "clean and orderly"
she's not!
And I know a guy who's name means generous n kind
and he's not!

Naz said: One of my sisters names mean peace,
shes far from peace lol.
A name doesnt necessarily reflect your personality.

1R4M: Is that a name or an inmate number?

If you want your name to benefit you, then you need to do two things:

1. Have a good name.
2. Believe in your own name.

People like Seraphim and sumayia are believers. Their names beings them benefit.

Others like Naz, and the like, are doubters.
Read their own words in this topic.

Its obvious to see how their disbelief and
foolish views tend to reflect their ugly names.

Omrow

My name is Iram
but I couldnt have my name as "Iram" on the forum so thats y I inserted numbers in there