sooowi :(

Naz —

Asalam Walikum Muslims and non Muslims

I couldn’t help but notice the atmosphere on this forum lately. I don’t know if its because ppl are getting bored of the holidays and therefore have nothing better to do or because Ramzan is round the corner so they are thinking lets cram in as many insults, snide digs and taking the mick out of someone as we can.

Whatever the reason it’s got to STOP! Most of the members that have joined this forum have been DRIVEN OFF as a result of our attitude towards them. The majority of members on this forum are Muslims so why in Gods name are we querying like little school girls amongst ourselves? What kind of message are we sending out to the non Muslims? Also nasty comments on other ppls faith have to stop. Just because someone doesn’t share the same faith as us Muslims doesn’t give us the right to judge them, that’s Gods job!

Then there is the issue of the lack of moderation on this forum, if there are any in place. When an arguments brew up nothing is done to stop it and eventually it escalates into a full blown argument with a group of ppl ganging up on one individual. This is classed as BULLYING! We all have feelings and we all get hurt, its called being a human.

If you don’t agree with someone’s views then just state “I don’t agree with the view put forward by this person” and state your reason why. There is no need to get personal (which most of us are doing, perhaps not intentionally but nevertheless still doing it).

So basically what i am trying say is that I think most of us owe someone an apology.

I will start us off
I know I have offended a lot of ppl with my views so I wont go into names because otherwise I will here all night and there’s a chance I might forget someone so……..
I am very sorry from the bottom of my heart to [b]all[/b] the members of the revival forum if I have ever hurt your feelings. Sometimes I have taken it too far but have only realised after I have said it. I hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me, if not now then perhaps some day.

Jazakallah x

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idi — Fri, 31 Aug 2007 - 22:59

yeah you hurt me when you called me a girl
but i forgve u bro

You — Fri, 31 Aug 2007 - 23:24

Who deleted my post?

WHO HAS THE AUDACITY TO CENSOR ME? PH34R ME!!!!

You — Fri, 31 Aug 2007 - 23:26

[quote="M4k4v3l1"]yeah you hurt me when you called me a girl
but i forgve u bro[/quote]

You two are just perfect. 😂

Ya'qub — Fri, 31 Aug 2007 - 23:53

I'm sorry for being so amazingly cool, I realise that this sometimes makes the other people around me feel inadequate...

seriously though, I do have a tendency to disagree with people's views just for the sake of it, I play 'devil's advocate' both intentionally and unintentionally. i've honestly never INTENDED 2 b nasty once, but if I have offended anyone, I am truly sorry and I honestly meant no harm.

my friends used to call me a 'sniper' because I constantly picked up on small little issues with what they said to cause problems. this is NOT something to be proud of.

i think without Naz on this forum we'd all be at each others throats

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 00:07

[quote="Ya'qub"]i think without Naz on this forum we'd all be at each others throats[/quote]

and thats a bad thing? we need all the action possible! this place is slowly dying! 😢

You — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 00:28

[quote="Noor"] this place is slowly dying![/quote]

😂 😂 😂

I think we had more posts in the first 6 months of moving forums than in the 1.5 years since.

It is dead. We just haven't cottoned onto it yet.

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 00:43

ur laughing whilst im crying my heart out?! at least show some sympathy admin, just some.

MuslimBro — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 00:47

[quote="Noor"]this place is slowly dying![/quote]
Do you think it would be a good idea to let it rest in peace?

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 00:50

no, not just yet. it still has some life.

You — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 01:02

Don't worry. I got me some plans. Unfortunately they are not of the immediate kind.

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 01:10

you and your plans 😂 :roll: :roll:

Naz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 22:36

[quote="Noor"] we need all the action possible! this place is slowly dying! :cry:[/quote]

:roll:

Most of the time when there is "action" on this forum it ends up either resulting in ppl getting too personal, taking it too personally or certain assumptions being made about the ppl invoved in the heated debate.

I hold my hands up when i say that sometimes when i have disagreed with a view put forward by a brother i have been a bit hesitiate to reply back for fear that i will be accussed of behaving inappropriately. Not that i give a damn what ppl think about me (i know my intentions are clean and so does Allah (swt)) but its just to keep the peace.

Perhaps if ppl lightened up a little and stop reading too much into things there could possibly be a relaxed friendly atmosphere.

[quote="M4k4v3l1"] yeah you hurt me when you called me a girl
but i forgve u bro [/quote]
sorry 🙁 didnt mean any offence was only having a laugh. Ok il try my hardest not to call you a you know what. 😃

[quote="Ya'qub"] i think without Naz on this forum we'd all be at each others throats [/quote]
Oh well what can i say its tough job but someones got to do it lol.
But on a serious note i think its everybody responsibility on this forum to interfer when they feel something is getting out of hand. Not only will this result in a pleasant atmosphere but will mean members will stay and post .

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 22:50

naz, you're making a mountain out of a molehill. this forum has been dead for like months, the last time it was heated was probably a year ago. to my knowledge no one is cussing each other down or personally attacking one another, well not severely anyway.

Gulz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 22:52

Salaam Noor, Naz..

Why is it sooo dead then???

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 22:54

cz no1 is posting, duh. thought that was like so obvious :roll:

Gulz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 22:58

Well whys no-one posting then...

Gulz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 22:59

short of members/not enough hot topics/too much sarcasm when people try to make conversation?????

Naz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:00

walikum asalam Gulz

well in my personal opinion i think its coz ppl just dont know how to be nice anymore and respect one another views.

@ Noor theres no need to be so nasty, thats the kind of attiude im talking, all Gulz is asking is why its soo dead, whats the harm in that.

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:01

[quote="Gulz"]Well whys no-one posting then...[/quote]

why do you think? :roll:

cz it is B O R I N G! ! ! no interesting discussions going on :roll: :roll: :roll:

and bcz of the rubbish similes :roll:

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:03

gosh calm down guys, i'm only joking. don't take anything to heart people. i'm a very friendly person 🙂

Naz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:04

If its soooo boring Noor why dont you put up an interesting thread.

You — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:10

[quote="Gulz"]short of members/not enough hot topics/too much sarcasm when people try to make conversation?????[/quote]

Sarcasm? Really? Who'd a thunk it?

Gulz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:10

Lol I know its cool...

Einstein Noor must have an idea??? lol(just kidding)

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:13

[quote="Gulz"]Lol I know its cool...

Einstein Noor must have an idea??? lol(just kidding)[/quote]

naaah, her brains on slow mode today.

Naz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:14

[quote="You"][quote="Gulz"]short of members/not enough hot topics/too much sarcasm when people try to make conversation?????[/quote]

Sarcasm? Really? Who'd a thunk it?[/quote]

I think you will find that the culprit is admin 😂

Gulz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:17

That was me being sarcastic too in response to Noors duh comment. lol.

Naz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:18

[quote="Noor"]like?[/quote]

i dont know you tell me. You probs been here longer then me so what hot and whats not.

Noor — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:21

all the hot topics have been rinsed out or unless u wana dig them out and start a new discussion? :?

Naz — Sat, 1 Sep 2007 - 23:27

no thanks im perserving the calories lol. Cant you remember them from the top of your head?