Can I have a girl/boyfriend if I am going to marry her/him later?

Published by Sajid Iqbal on 25 November, 2007 - 00:00

Question

Can I have a girl/boyfriend if I am going to marry her/him later?

Answer

By Shaykh Salim Ghiza

It is not permissible to have a girl/boyfriend even if you are going to marry them or are engaged to them. Only a Nikkah (Marriage) makes it permissible for a man and woman to see each other and intermix with each other.

Ofcourse, Allah (swt) knows best

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Comments

Submitted by You on 21 January, 2010 - 20:48

Just to add to this - it seems like a very common lie that girls are told - "I will marry you, but first..." and then a few years later she finds out its not true.

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Submitted by Suhail (not verified) on 31 January, 2010 - 14:40

You wrote:
Just to add to this - it seems like a very common lie that girls are told - "I will marry you, but first..." and then a few years later she finds out its not true.

lol its a fairytale scenario at when girls/guys think that they can just get married off after a few years ...hardly ever happens

Submitted by TPOS on 1 February, 2010 - 17:04

wednesday wrote:
Question: Should I get one of them? Do I need one of them?

ofcourse babez! Blum 3

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Submitted by Seraphim on 1 February, 2010 - 18:10

wednesday wrote:
Question: Should I get one of them? Do I need one of them?

Only if ur bored.

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