Now, this isn’t me say but from top religious books that mentioned it. Ibn Ab’bas (God bless him) Said that Prophet Mohammed (PBAH) Said when he was taken to heaven, he saw most populace are those of poor, then he visited HELL and most populace are women. Abi Hurarair (God bless him) also said the same. As of Abdullah bin Umar (God Bless him) said, Our prophet (PBAH) Said that when he was taken to heaven he saw most of populace are of those poor and when he was taken to visit HELL he saw the rich and Women getting hell punishment.
A lady might ask, [color=red]" why we are populace of HELL. ? [/color]
[color=green]Does anyone know the answer?. If not, I shall address it soon but try and think why are women populace of Hell!. [/color]
To be continued......
it ok, you can go home now! I have come back ...
The book is on sale at Bookshops. Attached a reference. If you don't understand it, I shall translate it later when I get time. Enjoy...
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looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Interesting. I always thought more women would be in hell as there is generally more women in the world, i heard there a million more women in New York alone.
It could be due to te fact women have more responsibility on the next generation of muslims then men? I personally don't know. Would be interesting to get a scholar view on the subject.
EDIT
Found a interesting article on it, Should be worth a read, by the Revival very own Agony Aunt, Ruqaiyyah Waris Maqsood.
[url=http://www.themodernreligion.com/women/w-hell.html]Women in Hell[/url]
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
[url=http//www.guidancemedia.com/videostream.php?id=Burda.mov]Quran[/url]
Why this then is because most women are inquisitors, they love to circular unnecessary news as usually bad Rumours, bad gossiping and talk of the neighbourhood, what this neighbour does and what others do... Love to destroy others life by ways of magic & witch crafts…
I noticed this very well. I mean women doing magic as I know women who bring magicians and witches from Africa then you will see hundreds of female visiting the witch to make bad things to others. I evidenced this once as group of females visited the grave-yard, dig one grave out and inserted a bad full of stuff. Myself and few guys saw them doing so, we went and dig it out. What we found was lot’s of witch craft written in Sawahili. They were going to block one of their female not to get married, not to see good life, that she always feel with unhappiness until she dies. Luckily we might have saved this female that time but who know if they didn’t do it again…
Women love hurting others in all means, either via magical or use others to harm others.
The other part is women imitating men!. This is also not allowed in Islam. Women should not wear for example trousers and walk like men. Their behaviour should also differ from that of men but what you see around is all women’s head on top of men. Women are supposed to obey their men and do nothing that their men dislike but what do you see is totally opposite. Perhaps men are doing what their women want.
Did you know that wearing a total black dress is bad? Well, it is and who do we see most wearing black?. Women of-course…..
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Why is wearing all black bad? Black looks very good on girls and its slimming too.
nothing wrong with wearing black
what on earth you talking about? theres nothing at all wrong with wearing black, PPL back-home hold the view that its some kind of bad luck..
my grandma used to tell me off for wearing all black clothing,
and someone else mentioned its a shia colour...
reasons women are most likely to end up in hell is that they tend to curse alot, and on top are prone to backbiting..like mentioned imitate men, ungrateful to their husbands etc...
All talk - as far as i know nothing wrong at all with wearing black
Its all to do with the fact that people wear black at funerals...
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
I thought we wear white?
To be honest I got no idea...
The dead person wears white...
and in western culture you wear black to finerals... (and weddings...)
I was just having a lame dig.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
White is what hindus wear at funerals, perhaps in bengali culture its white.
In islam when the woman is mourning she should wear dark, unattractive colours.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
didnt know that
All the aunties wear white or light colours to funerals. I'm sure its not just a bengali thing. I think its a desi thing.
is there an actual ruling as 2 which colours are 2 be worn on funerals/weddings???
cuz if there is i aint ever heard of it :!:
No ruling as far as I am aware.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
thnx 4 clearing that Admin
I dunno abt ruling.
I was taught that when a woman is widowed she has to spend her iddah at home and must not wear make up or adorn herself in anyway and be simple and wear dark colours.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
IMO dark colours look prettier on desi's then light colours.
I look much better in black then white or yellow.
Wat a load of cobblers
theres no set rulling watso ever on what colour clothes to wear at a funeral
or wat colours a widow can and can not wear.
Its watever that person feels is appropriate.
Back in BLACK
actually whilst she is in the mourning period, whilst she is in the iddah she must NOT adorn herself and must refrain from makeup, perfumes, jewellery and attractive clothing.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
reference pls
Back in BLACK
Bahishti Zewar
10th Part
Chapter: Iddat
Subtitle: Mourning for the dead
by Mawlana Ashraf Ali Thanwy alayhi rahmah.
Ruling 1:
If a woman is observing iddat on account of the death of her husband or a distinct divorce or a breach of marriage, then she should not go out of the house or remarry [b]or put on fine clothes and ornaments during this period. This abstaining from make-up and toilet and putting on coarse clothing is called mourning.[/b]
Ruling 2:
So long as a woman is in iddat[b] it is not permissible for her to use perfumes, wear ornaments and flowers, use kohl in her eyes, to use any type of lip paint, anoint her head, comb her head, use myrtle, wear fine or silken clothes of gaudy colours.[/b]
Ruling 3:
If such a woman has headache she is permitted to use ordinary and unperfumed oil in her hair. Kohl may be used as medicine in the eyes but at night only. It is permitted for her to wash her head whenever necessary and to comb hair to remove live but the hair should not be dressed ornately.
Ruling 4:
This type of mourning is essential for mature women only and not for minor girls. A minor widow should not go out of the house and should not marry anyone during this period.
The subtitle continue with two further religious rulings but the relevant rulings have been extracted for those who requested.
May ALLAH reward the ulama.
ameen.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Instructions of Shariah for Women
Chapter 112: It is wajib to mourn during the waiting period
Compiled by: Wife of Zarif Ahmad Thanvi
Approved by: Dr Abdul Hai 'Aaarfi.
As can be seen the below quote is from a book written by a female scholar.
[color=green]''Hazrat Umm Salmah radhiyallahu anha said that the Messenger of ALLAH salallahu alayhi wa sallam said: ''One whose husband has died must not wear garments dyed with saffron or red clay, or jewels, and she must not apply henna or collyrium.''
Sunan of Imam Abu Dawud.
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During the period of waiting she cannot marry anyone and personal adornment is for a husband, therefore, it is disallowed during the waiting period. During the mourning period she may not wear a dress or put on an appearance that attracts men. The dress must not be attractive, she may not apply fragrance or wear jewels. She may not use a fine-toothed comb and may not apply hair oil or collyrium. If her eyes are painful, she may apply collyrium at night but clean it during the day. She may not use fragrant soap while she bathes herself. If she applies hair oil to ward off headache, it must not be fragrant-smelling hair oil, but she may not part her hair. She cannot eat paan and get its red colour on her lips, or use red powder on her teeth/ She cannot wear flowers, apply henna or lipstick or nailpolish.[/color]
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
muslim_kuri
On the contrary, because I love women so much, I don't want them ending in Hell. This is a typical warning that you should start watching your behaviour against your religious etc...
The book mentioned all what I pointed and nothing less. Nothing came from my brain. It would be wise if you get the book and read it yourself.
Yes, I have sister and mother...I can frankly tell you that my sister's behavious is no different from yours and i can see where they'll end if they don't change. They speak before father, they talk nasty about their husbands, they don't listen to their men etc... Where would you think people with such behaviour will end if not Hell?.
There you go....
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oh so this is your desperate plea 2 all women ta change themselves b4 its 2 l8? im soo touched :roll:
i respect my dad and dont speak in front of him and never would....aint got a hubby yet and i wouldnt talk nasty 2 him either...who are meant ta be my men? if its my dad - i do listen ta him n bros are younger than me so dont really count......so DONT MAKE ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT ALL WOMEN :!: :evil:
What a hypocrite giving women advice about heaven and hell.
Dont he know that hell is also full of pervs and adulterors. :roll: