Unmarried Pregnant Muslim Women

Stranger999 —

Salaam

I was just reading an article on the main bit about the rise in unmarried muslim women pregnant.

I'm just a bit confused about what it said on the bit about about if you ever end up in that situation, what to do???

the impresison i got was that it's better to keep the baby despite it being out of wedlock?

Is this true? or did i misunderstand?

surely it would be more sinful for you child to be reffered to as a ******* and it would be the kid that suffers in the end?

does Islam permit an unmarried muslim woman to keep the baby if she should end up in such a situation?

is it more sinful to keep it or kill it?

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Stranger999 — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 - 23:38

[quote=Ya'qub]In Malaysia, if you're caught having sex with someone who u ain't married, then the government make you get married![/quote]

shame this isn't Malaysia...i reckon they've got the right idea!

Noor — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 - 23:46

you'll have to keep the baby. you shouldn't have been stupid enough to get yourself pregnant in the first place! anyway, abortions are haraam unless its a rape case, then the woman can choose whether if she wants to keep the baby or not.

Stranger999 — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 - 00:02

[quote=Noor]you'll have to keep the baby. you shouldn't have been stupid enough to get yourself pregnant in the first place! anyway, abortions are haraam unless its a rape case, then the woman can choose whether if she wants to keep the baby or not.[/quote]

just to make it absolutely clear... i wasn't talking about myself..!

i don't think i've become that westernised yet...& can't imagine the sort of people who end up in such situations...although saying that there have been a few girls in my time who i've known to be in a situation like that

but i am no one to judge...i ahve no quote to justify that lol!

i asked out of curiousity as the issue came into conversation a while back and no one was really sure as to what Islam says regarding the issue

i must say im shocked on Islam's stance on children born out of wedlock...it seems as if you are bringing more sin into the world...

i know no child is a sin...but imagine the suffering the child will go through as a result of your stupid actions?

Dawud — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 - 00:07

[quote=]i must say im shocked on Islam's stance on children born out of wedlock...it seems as if you are bringing more sin into the world...[/quote]

I think you should have more faith in humanity. I understand you're saying the kid could have a hard life, but you never know what the strength and destiny of the kid.

Stranger999 — Fri, 25 Apr 2008 - 00:13

[quote=Dawud][quote=]i must say im shocked on Islam's stance on children born out of wedlock...it seems as if you are bringing more sin into the world...[/quote]

I think you should have more faith in humanity. I understand you're saying the kid could have a hard life, but you never know what the strength and destiny of the kid. [/quote]

faith on humanity???

hmmm the last time i switched on the news (about an hour ago)....the top ten stories all revolved around murder...you see where im going with this

humanity has a very ugly and cruel streak...which recently seems to be popping up more often...!

someone who is not accpeted in the world is likely to revolt...and when they do its nasty...!

look at hitler...and all they did was not give him a place at some school!

malik — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 - 13:58

A Shia Muslim girl would never commit fornication because Allah would protect her because she loves Imam Ali.
Sisters who do not love Allah's chosen Imam are vunerable. They easily engage in haraam sexual activity when the right oppertunity arises. Only love for Imam Ali whom Allah has blessed saves you from sins. Without Allah's protecttion it is very very hard to stay away from pleasures of lust.

Ya Ali Madaad !!

Seraphim — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 - 17:38

[quote=malik]A Shia Muslim girl would never commit fornication because Allah would protect her because she loves Imam Ali.
Sisters who do not love Allah's chosen Imam are vunerable. They easily engage in haraam sexual activity when the right oppertunity arises. Only love for Imam Ali whom Allah has blessed saves you from sins. Without Allah's protecttion it is very very hard to stay away from pleasures of lust.

Ya Ali Madaad !![/quote]

Oh yes, coz all shia are 100% on their imaan. Yes, im sure everythings will go swimmingly for them. Why dont you just let Michael Jackson baby sit for you whilst your at it.

Courage — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 - 12:07

[b]Stranget999[/b][quote=] i must say im shocked on Islam's stance on children born out of wedlock[/quote]

Actually Islam isn't hard on the children, it believes that they've got the same rights as everyone else. Islam always emphasises that sleeping around will get you nowhere. If you want to be with someone then put the dialogue and serious stuff before the romance annd sex, and stop focussing too much on "trying it out" and focus on the anticipation. That's all there is to it! But unfortunately, most people, Joes, neo-cons and even imams don't get it.

Naz — Wed, 30 Apr 2008 - 15:01

[quote=malik]A Shia Muslim girl would never commit fornication because Allah would protect her because she loves Imam Ali.
Sisters who do not love Allah's chosen Imam are vunerable. They easily engage in haraam sexual activity when the right oppertunity arises. Only love for Imam Ali whom Allah has blessed saves you from sins. Without Allah's protecttion it is very very hard to stay away from pleasures of lust.

Ya Ali Madaad !![/quote]

😂

He never fails to amuse.

Stranger999 — Thu, 1 May 2008 - 15:04

[quote=Seraphim][quote=malik]A Shia Muslim girl would never commit fornication because Allah would protect her because she loves Imam Ali.
Sisters who do not love Allah's chosen Imam are vunerable. They easily engage in haraam sexual activity when the right oppertunity arises. Only love for Imam Ali whom Allah has blessed saves you from sins. Without Allah's protecttion it is very very hard to stay away from pleasures of lust.

Ya Ali Madaad !![/quote]

Oh yes, coz all shia are 100% on their imaan. Yes, im sure everythings will go swimmingly for them. Why dont you just let Michael Jackson baby sit for you whilst your at it.[/quote]

🙂

so we all ahve to become shia to protect ourselves from sin...hmmmmmm....

Courage — Wed, 7 May 2008 - 12:12

I think Malik's done a runner. If he wants to actually discuss Shiaism, why doesn't he start a new thread? Fair enough he's got a passion for Shiaism so surely he should start a new discussion rather than do it occassionally here and there and run off?

Ya'qub — Wed, 7 May 2008 - 22:48

[quote=Funzo]One thing i dont like about shia'ism is the disrespect they show to hadhrat abu bakr siddique (ra)[/quote]

how about the idolatry?

MuslimBro — Thu, 8 May 2008 - 04:00

[quote=Funzo]One thing i dont like about shia'ism is the disrespect they show to hadhrat abu bakr siddique (ra)[/quote]
They believe Ali (ra) should have been the first Khalifah and not Abu Bakr (ra).

BD Brother — Thu, 8 May 2008 - 15:10

[quote=Darth Fuzzy Wuzzy]Do you guys want to help me choose a potential name for a son?

This is what I've got so far.

1) Abu Bakr
2) Umar
3) Uthman
4)
5) Muwawiah![/quote]

?

Noor — Fri, 9 May 2008 - 15:49

can you please use radiAllahu anhu (ra) after the names of the sahaba, you're talking about them as if they were ordinary men!

Ya'qub — Sat, 10 May 2008 - 23:27

[quote=Noor]can you please use radiAllahu anhu (ra) after the names of the sahaba, you're talking about them as if they were ordinary men! [/quote]

They were ordinary men and women, just like you and me. That is precisely why they are praiseworthy.

They didn't have any special power or insight, which is why it is so amazing that they managed to rise to such levels of success and good action.

The Prophet ﷺ said that our generation is better than his generation (I think this is right, please correct me if I'm wrong), because there will be people in our generation who make great sacrifices and struggle for the sake of Allah (swt), even though we didn't see the Prophet ﷺ with our own eyes.