When a relationship will gear into something else, you cant stay so close to someone for ever. and i know that. but i dread the day that a friendship goes into a "lower" gear. i know that it's meant to be, and its going to be okay. but...memories do weird thing. i'm just dreading it coz it'll be change. from something comfy to something not so comfy at the beginning (coz it'll get better with time right?) everyone dreads change. that's just humans.
would it be better to not talk at all? rather than see yourself thinking about things to say when before you could literally say shit, apologize even though it wasnt needed and straight away talk about something else? when i think about it...it feels like it would be.
i know some friendships where you just pick up where you left off, even if days or weeks have gone by in between last communications, but...no one would bother explaining a problem thats been going on for days to someone that doesnt know any background info about it. lack of comm will create distance. whether you like it or not.
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im getting old, today i remembered "the good ol' days when we were young". that was weird. i was probably 7/8 that time. geeeeeeez im getting old.
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I've always thought people come into your life for a reason, but sooner or later they will have to go. Its sad but thats life. We cant always hold onto ppl forever. They have to follow their own path. Time and experience changes ppl. Sometime for the good, sometimes for the worse.
But thats not the point: The good times dont necessarily make up for the bad times. And the bad times dont necessarily spoil the good times or make them anyless important. So by accepting one into your life, so must you accept the other.
... Ok iv lost my train of thought now lol.
And I heard as it were, the noise of thunder. One of the four beasts saying come and see and I beheld, a pale horse. And his name that sat on him was Death... and Hell followed with him.
You may be hurting [that's what I'm getting, anyways...], but remember your purpose in life.
You'll meet a lot of people in the walk of life, but don't stress on them too much.
If Almighty Allah wills- you will stay connected, if not; it's for the best.
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Just recently, someone really wise, Masha'Allah, mentioned a hadith, where the beloved messenger of Almighty Allah has stated that ..
"“The Muslim is he from whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe."
And, I think if you've got anyone like that in your life, who you feel safe with, then they are your true friends.